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    • Getting Over a Breakup

      by Amy Seward

      I often times have clients who are struggling to move past a recent break-up or they want to know if they will get back together with an ex. Even if we want to go back to a happier time or a relationship that left us sad when it ended, when we focus on the past we cannot live fully in the present and this may be blocking your path to true happiness.

      On the flip side, sometimes the universe will block your forward movement because you are not truly ready for it. If you need to go through a period of grieving the past, do so in the healthiest way by looking towards the future.

      “You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.” ~Unknown

      The next chapter for you will be richer if you focus on the path ahead, be it with your ex in a new realm or someone new. Just know the energy that you give out when you are stuck in the past does not welcome new relationships into your life, at least not healthy ones.

      No one wants to go through the pain, sadness or loneliness of a breakup. In my mid 20’s I ended a 5 year, very serious relationship (he had bought the ring). I knew we were close to making a bigger commitment but he had broken my trust many times in the relationship and as I looked towards a future with him I knew I no longer wanted this. The relationship ended abruptly and all contact with him was severed, like a death. As I look back I realize it had to end this way, as the relationship was only going in one direction and I no longer wanted this even though I still deeply cared for him.

      I used to wonder why the relationship went on for so long and recall that I always focused on the good things and pushed away the bad. It was like I only wanted to read the good parts of the story and ignore the bad. When I finally moved on from this relationship I went through a long period of sadness. But, I never looked back. I took time to visualize what I really wanted in my future and became so much stronger in doing so.
      So how do you move beyond your past? Closure, really has no set formula, you have to find the formula that works for you. For me it was making even more changes than the breakup itself, it was making a dramatic change to my hairstyle, moving to a different part of the city, living alone for the first time in my life, and taking time to connect with my friends and travel to new places. I had to put myself in situations that were unfamiliar and uncomfortable (like blind dates, or online dating). But as I put myself out there, I started a new chapter and become happier than I had been in years. The more I put positive energy out to the universe, the more positive energy I received back.

      Looking backwards should never be your focus, you have a choice how you react to every situation in your life, so look inward and forward! The sooner you move on to the next chapter, the richer your life can become.

      “You can’t skip chapters that’s not how life works. You have to read every line, meet every character. You won't enjoy all of it. Heck, some of the chapters will make you cry for weeks. You will read things you don’t want to read, and you will have moments so amazing you don’t want the pages to end. You have to keep going. Stories keep the world revolving. Live yours, don’t miss out!” - Unknown

       

      Amy Seward is a Psychic Medium, Astrologer and Tarot reader with over 20 years experience. Her keen ability to tune into your problems and provide stellar guidance is unparalleled. Visit her link to get your first reading with Amy free! Free Reading with Amy

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    • Double Vision: Nagging Giant Presence in Her House?

      smudging

      Hi,
      My birthday is Dec, 21, 1943. For the past two months, I have felt the presence of an entity in my home, and I have finally found someone (a minister) to get rid of it. I have been in this house for 12 years; it was only four years old when we moved in. How or why is this entity trying to attack me, and only me? No one else can feel its presence. It keeps me awake at night, and just seems to keep nagging at me. I guess I am wondering if there is something I have done wrong to cause this to happen to me. I feel this electric current and can sense its presence, and sometimes it sounds like a giant walking. I am wondering after this entity is removed by the minister what I should do to keep this from happening again. I am just lost and so weary from this situation. I need reassurance that it will not return. I would appreciate your thoughts.

      Judith

      Dreamchaser:

      Judith, thank you for asking this question. Why do you say this spirit is “attacking” you? It does not sound like an attack. It sounds like someone who just wants to hang around with you. Is the being actually harming you, or are you just getting spooked? You say you can feel an electrical type of energy from it, a normal experience in a haunting. We hear stories all the time from people who say that the hair stood up on the backs of their necks. That is the electrical feeling around beings from beyond the veil.

      You do not need anyone to help you get rid of a dark presence – you can do that quite easily yourself. I assume that since you spoke of a minister, you believe in God, so I will use that term. All you have to do is say out loud, “I command you, in the name of the one God, to leave this place if you are not here from God.” By speaking God’s name and giving a direct order, the beings have to respond. There is no way around it; that is a universal law. The movies make it appear that it takes hours and hours to exorcise a place, but it actually only takes one statement. Say it out loud and see if there is a change in your house.

      After you make that statement, if any beings are still around, that means that they are not evil, but from the light. You can command them. You can ask them to leave or to stop bothering you or scaring you, or any other problem that you have with them.

      I feel very strongly, Judith, that this entity around you is not there to harm you. When you try to exorcise the place, he will not go, because he is not evil. He is hovering around you because he likes you. You take care of everyone, and you move around and do your chores and you hug and kiss those you love, and he just enjoys watching you live your life. He does not mean to hurt you or scare you. When you feel him around, you can say out loud, stop it. You are scaring me.” He will realize how he is affecting you and back down a bit.

      Those on the other side often travel back and forth across the veil. I assume it is because they can. They are made up of energy, and electricity is very easy for them to manipulate. If you can feel them breathing down the back of your neck or if you see lights (or any other electrical device) go on or off, it is just them saying “hello.” They do not mean to scare you.

      If you want to get the minister, feel free, but it is not necessary. On the other hand, it also can’t hurt.

      I wish you peace.

      *****

      Astrea:

      This entity is probably a poltergeist, or something of that nature. They usually attach themselves to one or two people in a household, and leave everyone else alone. As strange as it sounds, it’s sort of like a family dog who likes only one person in the family; it doesn’t bother anyone else in the household, because it has attached itself to you. It likes you best!

      It can’t harm you in any way, but it can make you frightened and miserable. Sagittarians seem to draw these creatures more than other signs. You haven’t done anything wrong to make this happen; you have simply been unlucky to have this spirit follow you home.

      As long as the minister you’ve found is experienced, he or she should be able to get the poltergeist out of your house very quickly. Find out if he/she has experience, because in some cases, an inexperienced person has been known to make a situation like this worse by drawing other entities to the household. Whatever method this person is using, be sure that you do a few things yourself after the exorcist is done.

      If you’re Catholic, you’re probably familiar with St. Michael’s prayer. If you’re not, here is it:

      “St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle. Be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him. We humbly pray, and do thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host, by the power of God, cast into Hell, Satan and all the other evil spirits who prowl about the World seeking the ruin of Souls. Amen.” Until your minister comes to clear your house of anything that shouldn’t be there, you can use this prayer to send the entity away temporarily.

      Any Catholic bookstore or Catholic church in your area probably has prayer cards with that prayer written on it. You might get a card for every door and window of your home (they are usually either free or cost about 25 cents) to put over each entrance, door or window to your home after the minister cleans your house for you. When you’re dealing with something as troublesome as this entity, it’s a good idea to keep yourself covered for a while, so that it doesn’t decide to move back into your place. These prayer cards will prevent the entity returning to bother you again.

      There is nothing quite as scary as something that seems huge, but you can’t see it. Between you, the minister, and St. Michael, you should be able to get rid of this spirit once and for all. Good luck! The Feast Day for St. Michael is coming up on September 29, and a small offering made to any church (Catholic or otherwise) in his name would be very much appreciated.

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