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    • A Complete Book of Divination

      by Richard Webster

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      It's as clear in my mind as if it happened yesterday. I was ten years old, and had been befriended by a middle-aged lady who lived a few houses away. She was a good cook, and regularly invited me in to try her baking. I usually sat in the kitchen with her, but on this day the phone went, and she put me in their library, as it was an important call.

      I had never been in a home that had a library, and as I was a keen reader, it was exciting to sit in a room with books up to the ceiling on all four walls. I walked around the room, eating cake, and looking at the books. I happened to notice a dozen or more books on palmistry. I had no idea what that was, and when Mrs. Tompkins finished her phone call, I asked her. She explained that her husband read palms, and they were books on the subject.

      Although I was only ten, I understood some of what she told me. My mother read tea leaves, and used a pendulum, mainly to determine the gender of unborn babies. When I expressed interest in learning more, she said I should speak to her husband. He was reluctant to say anything, as fortune telling was illegal in New Zealand at that time, and he had to be careful. However, when he saw how interested I was, he taught me a few things, and I started looking at the palms of my fellow students at school. It was one of a number of interests I had, and didn't mean much until puberty hit, and I discovered what a wonderful way it was to meet girls.

      When I was twenty, I moved to the United Kingdom and spent several months working in a bookstore in London. I was barely making ends meet, and started reading palms in my spare time. I was also introduced to other forms of divination, especially when I moved to Cornwall and joined a group of like-minded people. I learned several methods of divination there, most of which involved river stones. I still use three methods of divination that I learned there: Sky Stones, the Oghams, and rune sticks. I also met an elderly gypsy lady who gave me my first crystal ball. She told me I'd be making my living with it in two years. I laughed, as that seemed impossible, but it happened.

      I spent some months in India on my way back to New Zealand. I had hoped to learn more about palmistry, but found that most of the palmists I met had learned from old English books on the subject. Consequently, I spent more time teaching palmistry, than learning it. However, I did learn about yantras and yantra reading while I was there, and have made good use of that information ever since.

      Once back in New Zealand, I discovered that divination was still illegal, but astrology was acceptable. I spent two years studying astrology, and set myself up as an astrologer. However, when people came to see me, they received palmistry and numerology readings, unless they'd specifically asked for astrology.

      By this time, I had several methods of divination in my arsenal. At some stage, I learned divination with playing cards, and that naturally led me to the tarot. It was only when my work took me regularly to Asia that I realized I'd become addicted to divination. Everywhere I went I sought out readers and people who could teach me the basics of feng shui, Chinese astrology, and Chinese numerology.

      In the early 1980s, I started a psychic development school to teach others what I'd learned. This became extremely popular. I also spent one week every month reading palms in shopping malls. Divination was still illegal, but I got around this by selling a small booklet and giving each purchaser a "free" reading. I ended writing about thirty of these booklets, as people came back for additional readings, and naturally wanted a different booklet. In addition to this, I was conducting horoscope parties in the evenings at people's homes. These included a psychic demonstration, crystal ball gazing, and a brief palm reading for each guest in another room. As if that wasn't enough, I was also doing stage hypnosis and some hypnotherapy. I was doing too much, and eventually gave up the horoscope parties and the readings in shopping malls. This gave me time to write, which is what I always wanted to do. I'd also learned a great deal of information that I could share with others.

      I started traveling more, and this enabled me to have readings from a wide variety of readers. I've had some amazingly accurate readings, and some that were abysmal. Most were somewhere between these two extremes. I always had a special room to perform my readings in, and it came as a shock to discover how many people do their readings in kitchens with unwashed dishes in the sink, or in bedrooms with unmade beds. I once had a reading in a bedroom that contained a sleeping man. Of course, I've also had readings in coffee shops, hotel lounges, art museums, and offices in high-rise buildings.

      I had a banana reading in London. This was in a market, and I had to wait in line for my reading. While waiting, I ate the banana, and when it was my turn, the reader interpreted my banana peel. Fifty years ago, in Glasgow, I had an egg reading for the first and only time. It was helpful to me, and I'd love to find another egg reader. Many years ago, I was fortunate enough to have a paper reading from Dr. Joe Slate, and he kindly explained the principles of the art to me afterward.

      I would have liked to have had a knee reading in Phoenix, Arizona, but the reader had a sign saying that he read for women only. My good friend Jon Kealoha gave my wife and I impressive mah jongg readings when we were in Hawaii. In Reykjavik, Iceland, I gave a quick palm reading to a woman sitting next to me in a restaurant. Much to my surprise, she produced a set of rune stones and reciprocated by giving me a reading with them. I've drawn trees and had them interpreted in several countries.

      I've had numerous crystal readings over the years, but the most memorable one was in Johannesburg, South Africa. This was partly because the reading room was full of crystals, and the crystals the lady used for the reading were enormous. I had a "water" reading in Rio de Janeiro. The reading was excellent, but I was slightly disappointed, because the reader used the glass of water as a crystal ball. I'd been hoping for something more exotic. I've had a few trance readings, in which the reader goes into a trance to perform the reading. On one occasion I thought the trance reader had fallen asleep, as he lay down, closed his eyes, and began snoring. He started speaking only when I stood up to leave the room. I've had a number of aura readings. According to the aura portrait produced at one of these readings, my aura is similar to the map of the London Underground system. A friend and I studied the I Ching for a few years. He's carried on with it, and has become an excellent reader. I've had a number of good I Ching readings, especially when traveling in Asia. I've had several geomancy readings, numerous palmistry readings, and probably hundreds of tarot readings. One of the weirdest readings I've had was a palm reading. The reader had memorized, word for word, the sample scripts I'd included in my book, Revealing Hands0. It took me a few moments to realize that he was using my own words to read my palms.

      Recently, I drove a hundred and fifty miles to have a flower divination. I've given many of these over the years, but had received one only once before. As it was winter, I wondered where the reader would find enough flowers to give me a reading. I needn't have worried; behind her house was a large hothouse full of flowers. Driving home afterward, I wondered how many people would make a three-hundred-mile round trip to have a thirty-minute reading. Before setting off that morning, my wife jokingly said I was a divination addict. I agreed, and that addiction is why I wrote Llewellyn's Complete Book of Divination.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2017. All rights reserved.

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    • Double Vision: Does everything happen for a reason?

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      Does everything happen for a reason? Are there ever times when we just hit a patch of bad luck, and just need to take it for that? I always try look for the lessons to be learned from my experiences, both good and bad. Usually, I can see that things worked out for the best, and try not to repeat past mistakes. However, I really can’t see the point of my last relationship. I’ve dated less than nice guys my whole life, and I finally found someone who was very sweet to me. In the end, he chose his career over me, and I am still heartbroken. We got along wonderfully. This is his first big job out of grad school, so I can understand why he may not be ready to settle down. Also, he had a very bad experience with a previous long distance relationship. I have a lot of things going on in my life now, with starting a business and having to relocate, and thinking about him is the last thing I need. I was doing just fine before I met him, so I guess I’m still trying to figure out why he had to come into my life. Could this be just something that happened randomly that I need to forget about? Thanks for listening!

      Evelyn

      Dreamchaser:

      My personal opinion, Evelyn, is that everything does happen for a reason. I have been in this line of work for way too long to not believe that. You say that you have “dated less than nice guys your whole life.” That happened simply because you did not demand a man with better character.

      We could go back to your childhood and rehash all the reasons you are this way, but you already know all of that. So you would accept less than desirable men, thinking that if you could get them to change, then you were truly a woman to be valued.

      Somewhere in all of that, you learned to value yourself. This man is proof that you are finally allowing a better type of person into your life. He was so good in so many ways. He did things that you thought only happened to other women or in movies or books. You discovered ways that you did not know you could feel. He treated you better than anyone has yet. He was not, however, perfect for you.

      I know at this point you think he is, but as you said, sometimes when we look back, we see things differently. You will look back on him and see that he was indeed the catalyst of a new way of living and dating for you. He is not, however, who you are meant to spend your whole life with. I know that is very hard to hear now, but I do not want you to look at the negative side of this. Look at the positive side.

      If he is not the one you are meant to spend your life with, then that must mean someone even better is coming, correct? You are correct; there is someone coming. I do not want you to close up for fear of further pain. I want you to stay open and expect even better love. This time you want to manifest someone who is not afraid of relationships and commitment, and who is ready for a give and take, loving relationship. This guy that you have been with is a wonderful, loving man, but he still has some issues of his own. He did, however, show you that you could have more than you have had in the past.

      Your whole life is busting open for lack of a better term. You are going to start reaping rewards for your efforts. You feel like you have not yet been duly compensated for all of your hard work in this life. Well, hang on, girl. It is all going to start flowing in now. There is not one single area of your life that is not going to be blessed with abundance. I want you to get into acceptance mode. Also, do not forget to say thank you to God/spirit/universe/ Allah – whatever term you prefer.

      I wish you fulfillment.

      *****

      Astrea:

      Everything does happen for a reason because we choose for it to. Being with this latest guy was just a choice you made at the time he came into your life. No big destiny is at work here – only your free will and emotions! You both made a free choice to be together, and to break up too.

      You’ve realized a lot of things about yourself through being with him. You now know everything that you don’t want in a partner. Even though he was sweet to you, he couldn’t give you what you needed in the relationship at the time. This does not mean that it would never work. If you’re willing to do what it would take, you could have a relationship with him. If he isn’t the person you thought he was, then you’re right to move on in a different direction.

      If you do want to explore more with him, you’ll have to make some real sacrifices for love. Most people are not willing to do that. You’re busy starting a business of your own. Couldn’t you start that business in his location? If he’s still important to you, you’ll do just that. If this relationship is worth it to you (and no one else can decide that for you), you can still resurrect it from the ashes, but you will have to be the one to initiate everything for a while.

      These days, most people won’t change their life plans for love. Unless the person they want to be with is pursuing them and initiating at least half of the contact and communication, they feel slighted and unloved. This is a pervasive attitude that will change in our culture as time goes by, but right now, people expect too much from each other. Every day I hear about relationships that fail because no one is willing to meet the other person halfway.

      I sincerely believe that when we begin a relationship, we know somewhere deep inside ourselves how it’s going to turn out. Yet we often try to make the person we’re with into the person we want him or her to be in our minds. Eventually, we realize they are not the person we have been imagining them to be. Many times the goals each partner has are too different to blend well together.

      I feel that when your fellow took this first job after school, he was trying to make a good life so that he could have a serious relationship with you. You chose to feel abandoned by this, and he chose to let you. You both had reasons for doing this. If you still miss him – and I think you do – reach out to him before it’s too late, and try to get this working again. It doesn’t have to be over unless that’s what you really want. You still have time.

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