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    • Reiki: An Unconditional Love

      by Raven Keyes

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      I'm blessed to have spent the whole of my career as a Reiki master in venues one might label "the establishment," such as operating rooms with renowned New York surgeons, and even standing next to Dr. Oz. My book, The Healing Power of Reiki, chronicles some of my personal stories about what it's been like to bring Reiki into the mainstream. In it I describe giving sessions in the locker room of the New York Giants and behind the barricades of Ground Zero after September 11th, but there's one important story that didn't make it into the book. It was still in the process of unfolding when my final manuscript reached its turn-in date, and though I couldn't have imagined it at the time, the tale even now continues to unfold. What you are about to read has taken place over the whole of this year, a journey of hope, courage, strength, and love. With my heart wide open, I share with you the amazing tale of My Reiki Valentine.

      When Cassandra and I first met, we weren't thinking about the fact that Reiki is unconditional love. When she walked into my office, it was because she had just been diagnosed with breast cancer and her surgeon, Dr. Sheldon Marc Feldman, Chief of Breast Surgery at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University Medical Center, had sent her to me. From the beginning, Cassandra faced up to her illness with surprising gratitude. You see, she had no symptoms and found out quite by accident that she had cancer. It had been discovered when she was hospitalized for something completely unrelated. The cancer showed up in her blood tests, and before she knew it, Dr. Feldman, whose work is legendary, was performing biopsies. It was discovered that her disease was quite advanced. When he told her about the Reiki option, she readily accepted and we began a journey together that was quite "rich" as she has recently described it; rich in many ways, all of them extraordinary.

      Because of the kind of breast cancer she had and the amount of disease present, it was decided by her doctors that she would undergo several rounds of chemotherapy before having surgery; this meant that she would be having eight chemo sessions, each three weeks apart. For all those months, Cassandra came to me on the Wednesday mornings before her Thursday chemotherapy session. She called it, "her one happy appointment."

      To say Cassandra and I became friends is an understatement. We were warrior women together! Our conversations before and after sessions during her chemotherapy odyssey were extraordinary—it's incredible to get to know another woman's heart under these circumstances. It was during these talks that I was able to tell her that Reiki is unconditional love from the universe, the power that heals. She connected her own love to this truth. The Reiki sessions we had together were powerful—she saw colors, she felt sensations, she flew, she slept! Her side effects from the chemo were kept at a minimum. But what was truly remarkable from my point of view was that her spirits were always high and she was never distressed.

      That is, except for when we got to the weekend before her surgery. With her chemotherapy rounds completed, her surgery was scheduled for Tuesday, February 14th—Valentine’s Day. All the plans were quickly put in place—her brother would fly in from the Midwest to care for her after the surgery and the flight he was able to get so last minute would have him arriving while she was still in the operating room. Her niece was coming to take charge of our personal belongings while we went into the mastectomy with Dr. Feldman, which would be followed immediately by re-constructive surgery performed by Cassandra's plastic surgeon.

      On the Friday before the scheduled procedures, Cassandra was called and told that her pre-surgery blood test showed that her blood was too weak from all the chemotherapy and that the surgery might need to be postponed. She called me, very distressed to say the least. I promised her that I would do distance Reiki over the weekend with the intention of building up her blood. The distance healing session I conducted was very powerful for the both of us, and it worked like a charm. When Cassandra went in early on that Monday morning for a final blood test, her blood levels were improved enough for the surgery to go forward. So we had our date with destiny on the day of love.

      I remember clearly the moments as the surgery got under way. I was sending Reiki into Cassandra with my hands placed across the top of her head while sitting on a stool next to the anesthesiologist; I was behind the sterile field clipped high above her head so I wouldn't have to see what was going on. I could hear Dr. Feldman quietly pointing out to another surgeon on his team that the size of the tumor was still quite large, in spite of the rounds of chemotherapy. He mentioned how important her next phase—radiation—was going to be. For the rest of the surgery, which was long because of all the plastic surgery that was required following the mastectomy, things went along as usual. It wasn't until the surgery was completely over that I got the scare of my life.

      Waking up the patient is the responsibility of the anesthesiologist. Once Cassandra's surgery was over, everyone prepared to transfer her to post-op, but she wasn't waking up. Long minutes were passing without her coming around. The operating room cleared out of all personnel, except for the anesthesiologist, who called for another doctor to assist—and me. The doctors were shaking Cassandra with force, over and over, calling her name, and still she wasn't waking up. Their conversation was terrifying to me: "I didn’t give her very much narcotic; I don't understand this," said the one who had overseen the operation. "Maybe she had a stroke on the table. I think I'll give her a shot of…"

      "No, not yet," said the other doctor.

      This was the moment in which I found I had overcome my aversion to seeing blood. I marched right through the blood on the floor, took Cassandra's hand, sent Reiki through her palm, and called to her. "Cassandra, come back. The operation is over," I implored. I held my breath. "Raven," she croaked as her eyes started to slowly open. I cried. Cassandra has a memory of this. She remembers that she heard people calling her, but she didn't want to come back, because she felt she still had things to do in that other place where she was. It was my voice, and the love we have for each other, that brought her back. And, of course, the power of the unconditional love that Reiki is. I can't imagine I'll ever have a more heartfelt Valentine's gift—the gift of Cassandra’s life continuing on as part of mine!

      There were complications involving the radiation treatments, but eventually they were done and Cassandra recently received a clean bill of health from all of her doctors.

      Cassandra told me that she was "taken" with Reiki and that she wanted to study it, so we began her Reiki training together; she just recently took the final step in her Reiki studies. This past weekend, she completed her training with me and is now a Reiki master herself. I have no words with which to express what this means to my heart. And I can't begin to imagine how many people Cassandra will help, as a survivor of breast cancer, filled with the healing power of the unconditional love that is Reiki.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2012. All rights reserved.

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    • Double Vision: Jump Starting New Spiritual Growth

      lostinwoods

      I’ve been on a conscious spiritual path for more than 20 years now. Early on it was very exciting, and I was blessed with one amazing experience after another. My psychic abilities developed naturally and I experienced spirit communication, spontaneous healing, incredible synchronicity, etc. I’ve been looking for the next new thing for a long time now, and I’m not finding it. It can’t be that I’ve gone as far as one can go. While I don’t need mind blowing experiences, I still feel like I’m sort of stuck at this level. How do I move into new territory again? I feel like I’m coasting spiritually — not much is going on. Thanks!

       – Anne

      Dreamchaser:

      Anne, please remember that everything in life goes in spirals. If you look at ancient religious relics or drawings, oftentimes you will see spirals or circles depicted. Spirals are my personal favorite because they give us growing room. We learn the same lessons over and over. We hone our gifts over and over. The whole time that we are learning, we are also going upwards on this spiral. So often we look over the side and think, “I am in the same spot I was in last month (or week or year or even yesterday).” You really are not in the same spot. You are higher up on the spiral, but the view looks the same. The spiral levels are so close together sometimes that we appear to be stagnant.

      I love it when I can find physical world examples of spiritual concepts. If you have ever been to a large stadium in a major city, most of them have spiral walkways to the upper levels on the outsides of the stadium itself. I always grin when I see them.

      I believe that in the situation of you and your gifts, you are experiencing this stagnation. You keep moving up to higher levels. You could heal a hangnail the first week and now you can heal a torn muscle, for example. You keep expecting new gifts or the same wondrous joy that happened with each new awakening. You are most definitely not at the same level, Anne. You have evolved and moved up, but as you look over the side, the
      doesn’t seem to have changed much.

      Your task now is to get back to the basics. Get back to looking people dead in the eye and feeling them with every fiber instead of just soaking up what you get in passing. Get back to putting your hand on someone’s arm and really feeling what they feel. Get back to sitting back and listening to what the spirits around you have to say in the silence. You have become so used to it that you have become immune to the power around you.

      I live very close to the beach. I sometimes will drive down the beach road and not look over once because I am talking or thinking of something else. I often wonder how I can not look over. How can I take that for granted? It is much the same with our gifts. We get used to them and we take them for granted and then we expect fireballs and lightning strikes to give us new energy. The new energy comes from getting back to the basics.

      The bottom line is that every time you can use your gifts in any way, it is an amazing moment. Go find that amazement again, Anne.

      I wish you a sense of wonder on a daily basis.

      *****

      Astrea:

      I hear about people being stuck or stopped on their path a lot these days. With the world in such transition, it’s hard to find a time and place away from all the mundane chatter. Our modern pace and conveniences can get in the way of the quiet we need to keep growing spiritually.

      Patience and practice are the keys here. You’ve been doing this work for 20 years, so you know when you become impatient, the universe is turned off. Attaining new spiritual growth is just like learning to do anything else: It takes years and years of practice. The only difference is that it takes many more years of practice than learning anything else!

      Yes, at first a lot of images and feelings overwhelm us, but like everything else in our lives, there are plateaus and lulls in the action. By becoming impatient and needy for that rush, you block yourself from achieving anything at all. When it comes to enlightenment, 20 years isn’t that long.

      Questioning your rate of spiritual growth is blocking you and detrimental to your goal. The largest part of being spiritual is acceptance that the universe knows what it is doing, and that God’s time may not be the same as yours. By searching for the thrills of enlightenment, you are blocking the next new thing. The first lesson is to give up trying to control any part of this. Once you’ve moved to that acceptance and out of ego, you’ll be able once again to experience what happened when you first began a conscious spiritual journey.

      When I feel stuck along the way, I try to look for little miracles to open up to more understanding. Nature is filled with those. Find a few quiet places where people won’t interrupt your flow. Connect again with the earth under your feet, the air blowing around you, running water and the fire of the sun. These four essential elements can reconnect you to your spiritual path as you begin again to grow. It may take more than one or two times. It may take a hundred times before you feel the flow that you’re looking for, but you will feel it. There isn’t any way to force new material into being. When you’re receptive to it, it will come.

      In the mean time, try achieving new understanding from all the abilities you’re tapped into now. With 20 years of discovery behind you, I’m sure there are a few bits and pieces you have now that you don’t totally understand. Focus on what you know instead of what new thing can come to you, and praise the universe with gratitude.

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