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    • What Exactly Is a Dice Oracle?

      by Stephen Ball

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Dice have a very long history as oracles; they were prominent in ancient Greece and Rome, and popular again in medieval Europe. When you try a dice oracle for the first time, you will notice a big difference from other forms of divination (such as the tarot). It's always a good idea to try new divination systems regularly and see which parts of them we want to bring into our own practice. Quite often this is just the latest deck in a style that we already know, but it's also important to look at entirely different physical tools. One of the most interesting for modern readers is dice.

      Dice oracles fall into two main styles, which I call "book" and "hand." "Book" systems involve generating a number (for example, 326) and then looking up the corresponding passage on a page. That text could be anything from a poetic verse to clear instructions, and usually wouldn't relate directly to the numbers that had been rolled. The entry for the next passage, 327, would have a totally different meaning (and also not relate to 3, 2, or 7). You'd therefore need to carry both your dice and the complete book of answers with you in order to perform the divination. This is a surprisingly powerful tradition with thousands of years of history behind it, but there is also another way—that opens up more possibilities.

      The style I think of as "Hand" gives readers deeper ways to interact with dice divination. My oracle (Elemental Divination: A Dice Oracle) is in this style, and uses the magical correspondences of Air, Fire, Water, Earth, Sun, and Moon, to produce pairings in the format "Greater Water over Fire" or "Lesser Moon over Air," where one element is the existing situation and the other is a newcomer of lesser or greater strength. The result is based on what happens when this particular pair come together, using the full magical meanings of the elements involved. It generates images (The Mountain, The Nymph, The Invincible Flame), and includes pages of detailed discussion for each of the readings.

      The reason this is a "Hand" style oracle is that each number on the dice is assigned to only one element, so before you go to the book you already know what the result looks like. Tarot readers may be familiar with the magical correspondences of the elements, a rich source of lore that includes all aspects of human life and emotions. Bringing one element together with another immediately generates a complex and vital mix of energies. What happens when Fire's demanding, urgent energy meets Water's mysterious emotion? What happens to that pair when the Fire is greater, or the Water is greater? What about when Water meets Moon, given the links between them?

      Rolling the dice and then looking up the passage in the book is an entirely valid way to use Hand oracles, and will provide you with full answers, but what is most exciting about them is that there is also a more intuitive route. When the dice leave your hand and give you a number, you immediately have the magic of that element at your fingertips. You're not waiting to see the entry but already bringing the powerful energies of the magical world into play. That magic happens at your hands, not in the book.

      There are practical differences with using dice instead of cards that are also enjoyable. Cards have fixed art that can be interpreted or reveal hidden symbolism, influenced by the artist. They only have those specific images and structure (such as decisions on trump names and number order, art style, etc). The dots on dice are so simple, by comparison, that they get out of the reader's way and allow wider interpretations to be brought to the reading—especially on something as rich as the elements, which have so many aspects to them. The elements exist as pure magical ideals but also as the solid reality we encounter around us. They are even inside us, as the heat in our blood, the strength of our bones.

      Physical dice quickly become magical tools that contain all of these possibilities, alive with potential. With just one six-sided die in your pocket you have a direct line to a huge part of Western magic. Instead of turning a card to be presented with an answer, this feels more as though you generate each element separately yourself using movement from your hand.

      In other ways, cards and dice are of course very similar. (In fact, if each combination in this oracle was painted onto a card, then the resulting deck of 72 cards would give exactly the same probability of each answer as it currently does through dice). This is a consideration we must always be aware of when making a system of divination: you can only have the results that you put in. None of the answers should have less of a chance than others unless that is something for which you've deliberately planned. Complicated systems can be fun, and you can use cards, charts, coloured beads, lengths of string, or all of these together! As a first step the most elegant and fulfilling can be performed with just a single die in your pocket without losing any of the depth or beauty.

      Using dice is also convenient. They're much smaller than a full deck of cards, and from a public perspective, do not look like an occult object. The dice you use for divination absolutely are your magical tools, and should be kept and used only for magical purposes in the same way that many people do with tarot cards. There are many beautiful options available to you, including wooden dice in a small box, colours and metals of your choosing, different sizes, in bags, or just in a pocket.

      We're used to seeing dice as part of board games (and indeed their games and serious oracles were linked from the very beginning) and it can be hard to imagine that a common object we've grown up with could reveal the same wide realms of divination as other tools. In Elemental Divination there is an example that shows this range nicely, in a reading for a woman who asked about improving things with her boyfriend. With so many combinations dealing with the emotional and passionate sides of human relationships, the answer that arrived was very unexpected: "Lesser Moon over Water," called "The Still Soul." Instead of Fire's passion and change or Water's flowing emotional bonds between lovers, this is a reading that is not about two people at all. It advises us to look inside for answers in tranquil silence and to find our deeper emotional waters lit by the glow of a calm Moon. It connects us to mysteries and inner knowledge, far away from practical matters. Instead of real-world examples of activities she could try with her boyfriend to move them forward, this was an instruction for her to sit quietly alone and work out what she really wanted first. (This turned out to be exactly the right advice, as she then revealed she had been trying to fill their time with fun dating to distract herself from several things about him that she really didn't like).

      The readings all show an existing element of medium strength, and a new one either coming in to replace it or failing to do so. Even with just these three decisions there are now a huge range of possibilities to explore. For example, if we see "Greater Water over Fire" ("The Rescue") and assume that it means preventing a dangerous situation, then there are still many questions to ask. The magical correspondences of Water and Fire are quite different to this physical situation of putting out flames with a bucket. The image could instead be saying that unwanted heavy emotion, even grief or longing, is dampening your fiery excitement and drive. The Water could therefore be negative or unhelpful emotions. There is also the question of whether this is a recommendation or a warning—is the Water a suggestion of the path you yourself should take in the near future, or an outside person coming into the situation who will affect you? The Oracle shows us exactly which of these options apply to the reading and gives a clear result. Real divination needs to have all of the possibilities available, but also bring the reader to the light of just one revealed answer. There are ways for readers to read the mix of elements intuitively if they wish to do so (and this doesn't require any previous knowledge of the elements), but any who are seeking precise meanings will also find everything they need.

      Since their early form as small animal bones, dice have been an essential part of the entire history of divination. We often find cards, runes, and even sticks available to buy as oracles...but dice seem to be too ordinary. We see their six sides and think that they can only offer six answers. Instead they open up such a huge realm of potential images and knowledge: high-energy battles, loving relationships, warnings of shaky foundations or landscapes of assured success. It all comes from just one die. Readers looking for a new experience or change of direction should include the humble dice in their search!

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2018. All rights reserved.

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    • Psychic Readings for Close Friends and Family?

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      I have been reading professionally for about 22 years, and there is still one little wrinkle I’ve yet to iron out. I learned a long time ago not to read for close friends and family, for a variety of reasons. It seems as if I always end up feeling under-appreciated when I do. They seem to feel more like I’m giving them my personal advice instead of channeling spirit. These also tend to be free readings, and I don’t get back from them what I put into this work. It’s also harder to separate what I am getting from spirit from my own opinions sometimes, and it can be harder to communicate the truth if I know they may not be open enough to hear it. So I’m wondering if you will read for close friends and family members. If not, why?

      Thank you! Cassandra

      Dreamchaser:

      What a very common quandary you find yourself in with this question. I absolutely refuse to read for my daughter because she argues with me, insists that I am wrong (for the record: I am never wrong about her life), and then gets mad and storms out of the room – every single time. On the other hand, I will read for my birth mother, as she is very open to whatever spirit has to say to her. She also understands that I do not make up the news, I just deliver it. Those are the two extremes I personally have to deal with in my life, and everyone else falls somewhere in between.

      Of course readings for family or close friends are free. I would not know how to go about asking someone I love for money. If you feel that you are being taken advantage of in any way (such as very frequent free readings), then put your foot down and say something. As far as acquaintances go, or friends of friends, I give them a friend rate. I charge enough to make it worth my time, but that’s usually less than what I really need to charge to do this for a living.

      You were given this gift to help people, Cassandra. The fact that you make money at it is just a bonus. When you read for people you know, you will never be appreciated like the public appreciates you. I hear it all the time from famous athletes or actors. They say something like, “Everyone in the world adores me and screams my name but my mama just tells me to clean my kitchen.” Those who are close and used to us never really show their appreciation. I do know one thing; your family really does appreciate you. Your wisdom is invaluable to them. We should use this as an example to thank those around us who do for us. Let’s make sure we are not doing the same thing to them that they are doing to us.

      If you feel that you cannot separate your personal opinion from the reading, do not read for that person. You know that we cannot use our gifts manipulatively. If you want someone to do something, you cannot tell them that spirit said to do it, unless of course spirit really did say so. Unless you are clear to read someone, do not do it! The reading process should be the same no matter who you are reading for. You tune in, get the messages and start speaking them. If spirit disagrees with your opinion, check your opinion. In my experience, spirit knows best.

      The bottom line is that you should not read for anyone you don’t feel right about. Definitely do not read someone if you cannot distinguish spirit from your own wishes. You are free to choose who you will read for.

      I wish you clear channels.

      *****

      Astrea:

      I would never read for anyone in my immediate family, and I would never ask them to read for me. What a shocking suggestion! I am neither that arrogant nor foolhardy! Some things are too personal, even for family.

      There are several people I actually enjoy doing readings for. These people care about me, and they don’t bug me incessantly. I know and love them. Some other people are just plain fun to read. I’ve been known to give unsolicited readings to hapless friends too! People who know me know how difficult it is to do readings at all. They know it’s not a hobby. If one of those people asks and I don’t feel like it, I say no. If, for some reason I know wonderful psychic friends who won’t feel bad or uncomfortable laying out their fees for readings.

      People who are barely acquaintances who ask for freebies fall into the psychic freeloader category to me. I don’t put up with that, and I’m not gentle about vocalizing it either. I open my email daily to many emails from my so-called friends who really just want free readings. They usually say, “How are you, that’s good, now I need to ask you…” They don’t fool me.

      Another group I eliminated from my life was comprised of people who pay once or twice for a reading, then think you are a close friend. They expect you to issue a daily report for the rest of their lives. Sometimes they are tricky and will send in little daubs here and there, so that you feel guilty about not staying in touch with them. Those are the psychic “grifters.” I don’t play with those people, either.

      There is one other group that I positively will not read. That’s the group of people who want your advice for free, but then tell you what the other psychics they paid say about the subject.

      I have clients who are close friends —  ex-clients, too! Those people paid for my work, just like I would pay for their work. For them to expect it for nothing devalues everybody.

      Sometimes I’m sarcastic; sometimes I try to be cute. The last time one of my friends’ friends (an attorney) said, “Hey, I have a great idea! Why don’t you get out your cards and do a reading for me? Wouldn’t that be fun?” I answered, “Yes…then when we’re done, we can go to your office and go through all the research you need to do for your next six cases. Won’t that be fun?” Something like that usually works, and you avoid all kinds of long explanations.

      Most of the time I will answer one or two questions from friends. Then I gently suggest if they want a reading, they schedule one with me or someone else at Kajama.com.

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