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    • The Spinning Basket Fortune Teller: Put Your Fetishes to Work

      by Janina Renee

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Over time, many of us acquire an assortment of small but delightful trinkets, such as miniature animals or other little figurines, souvenir items, toys, miniature charms, and many other gewgaws. Along with these, we may also collect natural objects such as seeds and nuts, pebbles, and shells, as well as interesting bits of beach glass or driftwood and other found articles. Oftentimes these things give us pleasure because, aside from being colorful or whimsical, they convey some special symbolism or serve as mementos. Objects that people like to handle, carry around, or play with are often called "fetishes," from a Portuguese word that means something made by hand, but which, in popular usage, has come to mean things that attract us because they seem to be invested with a certain spirit. If you have an array of little treasures, you may carry some of them as lucky pocket pieces or display them in some decorative arrangement, such as a shadow box. However, if you've just been allowing them to accumulate in a junk drawer, you can take them to a new level of use, since fetishes have a traditional role in divination.

      Many different forms of divination involve tossing small, symbolic objects onto a tray or other defined area, and finding meaning in the patterns they make. In the Ifa divination system of the Yoruba, cowries are cast into a large, carved, wooden tray, but sometimes seeds, nuts, and tiny figurines are also included. In Caribbean derivations of Ifa, some practitioners encircle the divination space with beaded necklaces, and they may also include fetishes in their throws. In Siberian tribal practices, some shamans place tokens onto a broad, flat drum, whose surface is divided into zones that make up a cosmogram (a map of their symbolic universe) and which may also be decorated with special symbols. They then tap the drum so that the fetishes hop around a bit, and divine by contemplating which segments of the drum the objects end up in, and which symbols they are adjacent to. Some gypsies have a variation of this, using a tambourine; they may use small shells or the dove-shaped pieces that fall out when you break open a sand dollar as their tokens.

      For my own practice, I use a large, flat, 16-1/2-inch wide basket, which I place atop a lazy-Suzan type turntable, so that I can spin the basket. Before I acquired the turntable, I was usually able to spin the basket anyway, if I had a smooth table to set it on, but this makes it easier. I also have an 11-inch wide acacia wood bowl to contain my collection of fetish objects, along with runes painted on beach glass (called "mermaids's tears" in New England) and polished gemstones. I do not put sand in the bottom of my basket and then draw lines to mark the different zones, the way the Ifa diviners do with their wooden trays; although that has certain advantages, in my situation, that would create problems with sand leakage, and with the transportation of my assemblage. In choosing objects to include in my bowl, I exclude things that could be breakable, and I try to avoid anything over two inches long, because if items are too large, they're out of harmony with the rest of the collection.

      To perform the divination, I place the basket before me, and the bowl alongside it. I may state a specific question or request, though as I have found that this type of divination is best for a general overview, I may simply say, "Please show me how my life is coming along at this time." Then, I spin the basket with my right hand, while reaching three times into the bowl to grasp a handful of objects with my left hand (because the left is the side that draws from the Unconscious), and gently toss them into the spinning basket. When demonstrating this for other people, I let them do the throws, while I stand holding the bowl a little bit behind them and to the left, so that they have to reach backward to take the articles from the bowl. Spinning the basket and reaching backwards into the bowl at the same time is a bit difficult and awkward, but that division of concentration makes you more open to the powers of the Unconscious. By spinning the basket (instead of just letting it sit), you bring in the element of motion, which is a magical force, and you also assure that your throws are more randomly distributed. That way, if all of the objects clump together in a certain part of the basket, you know it is because you have some issues are that are concentrated in that zone of meaning, and it is not just your habit of throwing. The spinning basket is allowed to come to rest after the last throw, and then you take note of its orientation, determining which edge of the basket is to the north, east, etc.

      For purposes of interpretation, things that land in the center of the basket denote issues with which you are more self-identified. If the center is empty, that doesn't mean you have an ill-defined sense of self, but that more peripheral issues may be commanding your attention at this time. The meaning I attribute to the zones that we might liken to the north, east, south, and west quarters of the compass is somewhat reminiscent of the Celtic Cross spread in Tarot. Objects that fall to the right of center, in the "east," point to things coming up in your future; below, to the south, is the zone for issues that are a bit below consciousness, including childhood influences and other personal motivations; to the rear (west) are experiences from the recent past whose influences are still being felt; and the uppermost zone (north) designates conscious objectives. Again, if a certain zone remains empty—for example, the area of the future—that doesn't mean that you have no future, it just means that other concerns are more present for you. The cross quarters are transition zones. Articles that fall above the west-to-east axis are more above the surface, while those below that line are more in the realm of the unconscious. Things that land in front of the north-south axis are in a more developing state, so there is more that you can do to change them. However, even the past can be changed, by altering the interpretation you put on past events (such as highlighting the positive things you got out of them). When an object lands upside down, the qualities it represents are there for you, but you may have to work harder to realize them. You can also gain information based on which items are close together or touching each other.

      If you are into astrology, you could divide the basket or other divination space into twelve areas corresponding to the houses of the Zodiac. Really, anyone could divide any divination space into different zones of meaning, according to their own concepts of Time, Cosmos, or the organization of life.

      Because the Spinning Basket Divination is so much fun, the people for whom I demonstrate it often become enthusiastic as they start talking about raiding their button jars, jewelry boxes, junk drawers, kids' doll houses, etc., to pull together their own kits. The meanings I assign to different trinkets are based on traditional symbolism, or their association with personal experiences. Naturally, different people will attach different meanings to their little treasures, and everyone will have a different assortment. However, to give you a general idea of how to apply the symbolism, here is a partial list of what I have put together. These are just examples of how these things could be used, and you have to think about what each article in your own collection means to you.

      MISCELLANEOUS MINIATURES:

      • Arrowhead: taking aim
      • Baby doll: something in its infancy
      • Bobber: staying afloat
      • Button with Athenian owl: you are being goddess-watched
      • Car: getting around
      • Coffee pot: group energy and harmony
      • Cupid Smurf: love coming your way
      • Die: chance; the number of dots may pertain to the matter in question
      • Elephant: opens the way
      • Fragment of foam space shuttle tile: are you well insulated?
      • Frog: moisture in your life
      • House from Monopoly game: a little house
      • Marble: selfhood and the inner child
      • Mardi Gras mask: trickster spirit
      • Matrushka (nesting doll, the smallest in the set): generations
      • Purple plastic sun: cheap pleasures
      • Scarab: self-starting creativity and luck
      • Shark: to swim fearlessly in the ocean of life (or the sharks are circling)
      • Squirrel: purposeful activity (or gossip)
      • Snail: it will take time
      • Telephone: communications
      • Thimble: hard work
      • Tile fragment from the space shuttle: are you well insulated?
      • Tropical fish: a good catch
      • Woven basket: open to good things

      NATURAL OBJECTS:

      • Agate: Mercurial stone for making connections
      • Aventurine: lucky accident
      • Black stone: impenetrable matter
      • Cone shell: the dangerous feminine
      • Cowry: physical body issues, (cowries have been used to represent the eye, mouth, vulva, womb, and pregnant body)
      • Crystal points: help from spiritual sources
      • Driftwood: you're drifting, but you're resilient
      • Holed stone: lucky openings
      • Jasper: grounded energies
      • Malachite: mental healing
      • Petosky stone: the eyes of the past
      • Pudding stone: the matrix of many possibilities
      • Quartzite: the common thing
      • Smoky quartz: you begin to see into a murky situation

      A few of my doodads are ritually interactive, such as a bell (a call to attention) that you can ring to make a wish, and a souvenir salt container from Salzburg, from which you can shake out a pinch of salt to throw over your shoulder to avert bad luck.

      When an object has a story behind it, it's also a good conversation piece, as is the case of an antique marble from Needles, California, given to me by my brother (who has the unique psychic power of being able to find lost toys in the desert), or a particular agate, which I regard as a gift from the witch that Witch's Island (on an Indian reservation in Canada) was named after, and therefore represents the spirit of the medicine woman.

      Because the patterns of any divination represent a certain dream of reality, if there are some things you don't like in your reading, you can take the shamanic approach of changing your dream of reality. After acknowledging any potential problems that you might have to deal with and thinking about how you might deal with them, you can then alter the pattern by moving or exchanging objects. Upside-down items can be turned over, things can be moved to different quadrants, objects that denote things you don't want can be put back in the bowl, and things you'd like to manifest in your life can be plucked out of the bowl and placed wherever you like in the basket. Also, because other people have a hand in constructing our reality, after each person's reading is done when I demonstrate this technique for a group of friends, I invite his or her buddies to help add some luck and other good things to the design by picking additional items out of bowl and placing them in the basket as they explain why they choose to contribute those particular blessings. The final arrangement is quite a colorful work of art.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2008. All rights reserved.

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    • Are Fears of Infidelity Past Life Related?

      29AVOIDANCE

      I have a problem, but I’m not even sure if it is a “real” problem. I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for just over 10 months, and we are now living together. Sometimes I feel head over heels in love with him, and am sure he is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Other times, I feel quite the opposite. I’ll be on my way home and just sure that I am going to find him at home with another woman. I also have felt from the beginning of the relationship that we are just not meant to be together. I’ve felt we could learn from each other, and are meant to move through some hard times together, but this isn’t forever. I have shared all of this with him, and he doesn’t know why I have these thoughts and feelings. I’m wondering if maybe these feelings stem from a past life in which he was unfaithful, or if I’m sensing that I can’t trust him to be faithful now, or if I’m making up that fairy tale to justify not being with someone who is so adorable because I’m afraid to commit or something. I’m hoping you can help me make sense of these “intuitions,” and explain how past life experiences can affect current relationships. Thank you!

       Sandy

      Dreamchaser:

      You answered your own question: You are afraid to commit. You have been let down so many times in this lifetime that you are afraid to put yourself out there one more time. This is not a past life thing with him. This is not even a present day life thing with him, Sandy. This is your thing. This is your baggage. These are your issues.

      He has never done anything to make you suspect that he is cheating on you. He has never done anything but be very kind to you. Nevertheless, you still are not sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with him.

      You have to look back at your past. Start with your own father. Do you trust your daddy? If you can’t trust your own daddy, how can you expect to trust any man? (Male readers: Substitute mommy for daddy here.) Now move forward a little bit. What other men hurt you, let you down, abused you in some way, and were completely untrustworthy?

      I need you to spend as much time on each situation as you need to spend in order to start making peace with your past.

      I also want you to start looking at the patterns in your life. I want you to look at each man who caused you any kind of pain or sorrow, and get down to the one fact that hurts the most. Apply that to your life now. For example, let’s ponder the man who made you believe he was something that he was not. Now flash forward to your current relationship. Where is that past experience coming into play and haunting you in your current relationship?

      I keep hearing this line from your question: “I also have felt from the beginning of the relationship that we are just not meant to be together.” If you were stepping onto an elevator and someone told you that the cables were going to snap and it was going fall, would you get on anyway? Why do we think that we can change outcomes when we know that we are not meant to be with someone? Why didn’t you listen to that? Now you are living together, which makes it that much harder to get out of there when it is time. You know already that he is not the right one for you, yet you continue with the relationship. You could have learned without having to move in together.

      You can’t turn an elephant into a mouse. You are trying to manifest a reason to get out, since you don’t have the heart to walk away with no good reason. Those are the intuitions you experience. Just because someone is kind and wonderful doesn’t mean they are for us.

      Before you start seeking past life answers for this, make peace with your present life.

      I wish you clarity.

      *****

      Astrea:

      Sandy, your problems don’t have anything to do with your past lives, but they have everything to do with your past in this life! Your nice, sweet boyfriend has done everything he can imagine to make you feel safe and secure with him, and nothing he does is good enough for you. You can’t trust him or appreciate him, and that is all on you. He would never cheat or betray you.

      You need therapy to get over some disappointments you’ve been carrying around in this incarnation that are causing these thoughts about someone who would never hurt you in any way. Find a good psychologist. You should not be feeling this groundless fear, and I would be willing to bet that it doesn’t have a thing to do with your man. Perhaps you haven’t healed from some old abandonment issues. Perhaps it was your mom or dad who put you in this frame of mind. Whatever happened, it wasn’t your fault, but keeping it going is.  It won’t take the right person long to get to the bottom of this, and I am sure your boyfriend would welcome the chance for some couples’ counseling to help you. He’ll do anything to make you happy!

      If you didn’t really love him, I could see why you’d be afraid to commit. If you were addicted to conflict and drama, it would be easy to see that too, but I don’t get that from you at all! While it takes about two years to be certain if someone is just right for us, feelings of doubt should be going away by now. By thinking “we’re not meant to be together forever,” you doom the relationship to an inevitable end, and I don’t feel that’s what you really want.

      I do believe that you love him, and that in the past, people you have loved have always left. That is the connection to a few other incarnations. However, it doesn’t have anything to do with him. You’re only trying to protect yourself from another big disappointment. I understand that completely, but these are unfounded fears.

      Your fear that he will hurt you or leave you is taking over your life, and will ruin this relationship. If you don’t get some help with this, you are going to break up. He can’t stay with someone who doesn’t trust him, and he has tried everything to make you feel secure. By seeking professional therapy, you will show him that you’re serious about loving him and staying together. Fear is crippling. Your letter shows that you are a smart girl who is trying to figure things out. Sometimes we can’t do that alone. There is nothing wrong with getting professional help to work through fears so we can be happy with the person we love!

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