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    • 5 Simple and Instant Creativity Boosts

      5 Simple and Instant Creativity Boosts, by Melissa Harris

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Perhaps you don't consider yourself creative. But, we are all creative: our creativity simple emerges in different ways. Consider the imagination one employs to make intelligent financial decisions, or how one can come up with yummy and inexpensive recipes with healthy ingredients. We call upon our creative selves many times in the course of a day, but some of us don't count these acts as imaginative. We have been conditioned to believe that only those that paint, write, play music, etc. are officially the "creatives." Our beliefs that we are not creative sometimes begin early on if we were not encouraged in that way by our families. Perhaps we may have been told in school that we should stick to more practical subjects. It's easy to fall prey to accepting the image of how someone else sees us. When we know ourselves well and are confident in our abilities, the reflections of others do not affect us.

      The following are some ways to support your creative urges. If you don't think you are creative, or if you are feeling creatively blocked, these five simple suggestions will help you push through.

        1. Mindfulness
          When we are not mindful we may miss opportunities for finding inspiration. What do I mean by "mindful?" When we are mindful we are completely present in the moment; when we are present we are not focused on the past or the future. Our attention is on our in-the-moment circumstance, and we have an awareness of our surroundings by way of all our senses.Track yourself to observe how present you are just for one hour as you are going about your day. Stop to check in often to see if your mind is on the past or if you are thinking ahead. Inevitably, you will be doing this to some degree. When you catch yourself, gently bring your focus back to present time. As you get in the habit of monitoring yourself this way, it becomes more automatic and easier to stay in the moment.

          Now that you are present and available for inspiration you may discover that the beauty of the road you drive down each day inspires a painting. Or that the sound of the birds singing lifts your heart and puts you more in the mood to clean or re-arrange your home. With a clear head you may find that conversations with friends may act as fodder for a piece of writing. The rewards of a clear and peaceful mind are many.

        1. Enlarge Your Vision
          Take a moment to contemplate how you may be keeping your vision small. "Your vision" of what?, you may be asking. This could include a specific project on which you are working or even how you view your life. I speak to many folks who don't even bother to try and think big because they have felt trapped for so long. Often when we have been stuck in a rut we forget that there may be solutions or options of which we have not even thought. Conversing with a trusted friend is a good way to shake things up as long as we are not complaining, simply conversing.I remember feeling stuck with a particular painting. A friend was visiting, and she remarked that it would look so good with……….and made her suggestion. I followed up with her vision and was pleased at the way it turned out. I was surprised that I had not thought of it. My ego stepped out of the way in order to be open to her suggestion—another aid in the creative process. Opening up to the ideas of others has also helped me when it comes to other areas of my life.

          It may not be necessary for you to share with others. I find it helpful to view a problem or project from angles that may not have been obvious in the beginning. Your creativity will be heightened just in the act of thinking outside the box.

          More creative energy is available to you when your life is running more smoothly. When we apply the practice of looking at situations with a broader perspective, our lives benefit by our being able to implement new ideas and solutions to situations that may have previously been problematic.

        1. Show Up
          Numerous successful people have made the statement that more than half—or even most—of the work is showing up. How do you avoid your own successes? Are there instances where you have sabotaged yourself in regard to your creative desires? Does one of your frequent statements include the phrase "someday?" "Someday, I'd like to learn to play guitar." Or, "Someday I'm going to write a book." I hear this so often.Fear is probably the biggest factor in the way of creative fulfillment. Have you identified any fears related to procrastination of your desired activities? Journaling without too much thought, just free writing, is helpful in exploring one's inner feelings. Just open yourself up on the paper and let your thoughts flow without censorship to see what may emerge. I have surprised myself more than once with what came pouring out.

          If this is true for you, try addressing something on your "someday" list by taking very small baby steps toward that goal. It may be too scary to select the thing that you want the most, so choose what seems to be the most attainable.

        1. Take Notes/Keep Records
          It doesn't matter what you want to do creatively or if you have even identified what you want to do creatively. Keeping a record of what inspires you or things you notice throughout your day that interest you are fuel for later projects. If you find yourself waiting in the dentist's office, make use of that time to thumb through magazines; if you find something of interest for later, take a photo or make notes. File these gems away for when you are ready to work with them, whether they be a recipe or a room you would like to take some decorating ideas from. If you are driving home and the clouds are particularly spectacular, take a photo in case you may want to use the clouds in a painting.I have an accordion file of photos that has been a valuable resource for me for years. I call upon for this file for use in my paintings. The folder is divided up by subject matter that I tend to use in my art work. On a day that I have the urge to paint and don't have anything in mind, I may peruse the file and find images that inspire me. Or I may find myself in the midst of a painting and feel that there is something I want to add to it, or I may wonder what kind of tree may look the best in the piece. I also collect beads, bones, shells, feathers, fabric, and anything else I find I may want to include in my collages.

          This practice is not just for visual artists. I have a musician friend who records anywhere and everywhere she goes, and has been doing so for years. She doesn't confine this to music, eitther: she recorded the street sounds of the colorful neighborhood on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, including the whistle warnings of the local drug dealers. She also managed to record a "heartbeat" from the ancient stone formations in Malta. These sounds were woven into musical compositions she used in theater pieces many years after. If you like to cook, don't hesitate to ask for the recipe or at least ingredients of a dish you enjoy while eating out; don't forget to write it down!

          Keeping a journal is another handy tool for recording thoughts or ideas for later use. If you are a writer, chances are that you already make a habit of this. People you meet on an everyday basis may become characters in that next piece of writing.

      1. Lose Any Competitive Edge
        Face it. There will most always be someone smarter, faster, better looking, etc., than ourselves. If we waste energy on comparing ourselves to others we may never take the first step toward our desired goals.I teach art classes, and I have had many folks come to me with stories of how their mothers, husbands, or others were artists and they didn't want to disappoint themselves with how they might not match their own ideals. These ideals were set either by these others in their lives or by their own impossibly high standards.

        I teach art-making workshops that are open to anyone. When a new student learns that they may be asked to share what they have done with the others, their fears set in and they often try to talk their way out of it. Ultimately, they learn from the others in the group.

        We have to begin somewhere, sometime. If we allow the abilities of others to stand in our way we are doing ourselves a huge disservice. When my students do put their work on the wall for others to see, they are always surprised by the positive qualities that the other students find in their art. We all have our unique talents. If you have the drive to do something and let others stand in your way, you may never discover a vision, or voice, or other skills that may be resting within.

      Allow yourself to expand creatively by taking a risk. Begin today and enjoy the benefits a life with more creativity brings.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2015. All rights reserved.

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    • Double Vision: Paralyzing Fear and Precognitive Dreams

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      I was in a car accident in May. For months prior to this event, I had visions of that vehicle hitting me, but I couldn't put all the pieces together until it was too late. I even consulted a psychic, and he told me to get rid of a black cloth. I now think the black cloth he was referring to was my black vehicle. Why wasn't I warned more accurately? Last night I had a dream that I was in an accident with my new car, but the accident happened behind me, like in my rearview mirror. A woman with dark skin died. Is this a warning? I am terrified of driving again, and I must get over this to get on with my life. What are my dreams trying to tell me?

      Donna

      Dreamchaser:

      You created this accident. The universe doesn't hear whether we want something or do not want it - the universe sees what we are focusing on, and that is what we get every time.

      If we focus on debt, we get debt. You can see that clearly. If we focus on bad health, we get sick. You see that clearly. If we focus on having a car accident for four months, we will have a car accident.

      So congratulations, Donna: you have just proven to yourself that the law of attraction really does work! Fortunately, it will also work if you decide to turn it around by focusing on what you want and thinking positive thoughts.

      I can't explain another psychic's readings. I have no idea what he was referring to when he said to get rid of the black cloth.

      You should have asked him to be more specific. If you don't understand something in a reading, you should stop the reader and ask for clarification. Then the reader should rephrase things in a way that makes sense to you.

      Sometimes we are given messages that don't make sense at the time, but WILL later on. When that's the case, the reader should be able to tell you something like, This may not make sense now, but it will in the future.

      You didn't receive more of a warning because you didn't ask the questions the reading brought up for you.

      You say that you dreamed of being in an accident in which a woman with dark skin died. Donna, that was a dream, not a warning. Don't get obsessed with this and start to think about it all the time, because you do NOT want to create this in real life.

      Dreams like this are your soul's and mind's way of trying to purge this accident stuff from your psyche. You focus on accidents (both the one you had the ones you are afraid of having) WAY too much. At this point, you are obsessed with accidents!

      If all a person can focus on is accidents, then yes, I imagine that would make them terrified to drive again. What you need to realize above all is that we create our worlds, for what we focus on is what comes to us. You showed this to be true by creating the car accident.

      I know you are saying, But I would NEVER create something bad for myself like that! Well, who would? You did indeed create this - you've proven that to yourself.

      Given how powerful your thoughts are, just imagine if you started focusing on what you want! Imagine if every time you found yourself thinking negative thoughts, you found a way to change that and to think happy thoughts. Would you like to know how to do that? The Secret at www.thesecret.tv will show you how.

      I wish you success in changing the way you think so you can transform your entire life.

      *****

      Astrea:

      Last spring as I was entering the freeway, a young girl who was talking on her cell phone and had a baby bunny in her lap (!) smashed into me from behind. That was just the beginning of that horrible experience, but we all get through things like that.

      After this accident, I was frightened of driving on the freeway. Even now (a year later), I'll do whatever I can to avoid that section of road. Unfortunately, I often find myself right where that accident happened.

      Since I have no choice but to drive, and since there isn't any other place to get on the freeway without going back several miles, I brace myself, aim my car, and shoot onto the highway. So far, so good!

      There are few experiences that are more traumatizing than a car wreck. When you're hit from behind, it's especially unsettling. Then there are the injuries, repairs, replacements, police investigations and insurance company stuff one has to endure afterwards, so the hurt just keeps on coming for a while.

      To overcome my awful fear of driving, I adopted a magical attitude. I use anything and everything to protect myself before I take the wheel and while I'm in the car. I make magical gestures, pray, and use spells and incantations so I'll be safe.

      The most effective thing seems to be throwing a net of Blue Stars over my vehicle. I stand at the driver's side door and pray in my own way, while in my mind I see a huge net that encompasses me and the vehicle.

      While I know on a logical level that this is only mental imagery, it does give me a more positive attitude about driving. I see myself making a safe journey and having a safe return, and since I believe it will work, it really does!

      I don't feel I'm just fooling myself into thinking I'm protected, of course. I believe that this ritual gives me extra awareness of the kind of defensive driving I have to do in order to avoid accidents. So far, it's worked just fine.

      It's up to you to figure out what will work for you, just as it was up to you to figure out that the psychic meant not a cloth but your black vehicle.

      As far as your feeling that you weren't adequately warned, perhaps at the time you were a bit too scattered for the psychic to see the exact situation that involved you getting rid of something black. I think she did a great job just getting the color, since having a car accident wasn't what you asked her about in the first place.

      When I get warnings like that (especially for air signs), they're often highly symbolic and require a lot of interpretation. Since the reading was for you, it was your job to help the psychic figure out what the message was all about.

      Astrea:

      Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.

      Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!

      While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!

      I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!

      As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.

      I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.

      You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!

      Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.

      A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.

      You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.

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