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The highlight of this week happens Wednesday when Mars moves into fun-loving Gemini and shifts the focus from our physical worlds to our mental worlds. Mars loves sorting through all the possibilities, sharing ideas, and engaging in fun social activities as it sails through Gemini, which bodes well for a stimulating and exciting month! The Libra Moon on Monday and Tuesday will urge us to restore balance before the fun begins on Wednesday, reminding us that bringing order to our physical worlds will be essential to restore harmony within. The Moon will drift through Scorpio on Wednesday and Thursday, and combined with the Pisces Sun, will add a spiritual tone to all our movements. Justice and balance will be a theme under Friday and Saturday's Sagittarius Moon, as we take a closer look at the events surrounding us on a global level. Although we may not be directly involved in what's going on, it will give us a good “take” on the worldwide energy and focus. It seems we'll be goofing off all week, so when the Moon moves into Capricorn on Sunday, it's time to get to work and be productive. So forget about being a couch potato, pull out that “honey-do” list and get some things accomplished!

Mythology for Every Day of the Week, by Ember Grant

(Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

We are surrounded by mythical connections every day—the most obvious is in the names of our days of the week. This may not be news to you, but in exploring the details of each name we strengthen our connection to our daily spiritual and magical practices by incorporating aspects of mythology.

To discover the origins, we need to begin in ancient Babylonia, the place where many things started. They're the ones who decided to name heavenly bodies after their deities. They only knew of five celestial bodies at that time, and so chose the sun and moon for the other two names. Later, the Romans took up this similar custom of naming the celestial bodies for deities, followed by the Germanic-speaking people. The Germanic peoples used their deities' names instead and, since English is a Germanic language, we have the origin of our weekday names. This is a somewhat over-simplified explanation, but it's basically what happened.

Let's take a closer look at the characters behind the names in an effort to remind us of the qualities that each day honors. In this way, we keep our connection to these influences and can easily incorporate this energy into our magical lives each day. In addition, for each day there is a brief affirmation intended to celebrate that day's particular energy and a list of magical correspondences for rituals or spells to create a week filled with magic. You can simply wear the colors or stones of the day, eat associated herbs/plants, or take advantage of the day's particular scent using aromatherapy or incense.

These lists are brief and only touch the surface of ways to discover mythology each day. But when we look back at the stories and characters that inspire so much of our lives, we are reminded of our connectedness with all things—all people—and the universe itself.

Sunday: The Sun
Sunday is obviously named for the sun. The life-sustaining sun has, naturally, inspired sun-worship in many societies around the world. As with the moon, many mysteries have been revealed about just what kind of celestial body the sun is, and that there are many stars like it in the universe. Still, that doesn't change the fact that it's essential for our life here on earth. Many deities are associated with the sun, both gods and goddesses alike. In Japan, the sun goddess Amaterasu hides herself, plunging the world into darkness, and must be coaxed back out into the world. And in Maori myth, the demi-god Maui snares the sun to regulate its movement across the sky.

A variety of myths from Native American nations tell stories about animal trickster figures interacting with the sun and moon causing the days or seasons to come into being. In a Zuni myth the sun and moon are contained in boxes but Coyote opens the boxes at the wrong time, causing the season of winter. A Tahltan story tells of Raven bringing light to the world so people could have division between day and night, work and rest.

In Greece and Rome, the god Apollo was associated with the Sun. He's the only deity whose name remained the same in Rome as in Greece. He is associated with prophecy, music, healing, and poetry, and many other things. In addition, Helios was a sun god of the Greeks. No matter which sun deity interests you the most, by its very nature the energy of the sun can't help but be associated with hope and life. </p

Magic using the sun involves success, confidence, new beginnings, power, health, and healing.

Colors: Yellow, gold, orange
Stones: Amber, brass, carnelian, citrine, diamond, gold, sulfur, tiger eye, topaz, zircon Incense/Oils: Benzoin, cinnamon, copal, frankincense, rosemary, sandalwood
Herbs/Plants: Bay, carnation, cashew, cedar, chamomile, cinnamon, juniper, marigold, mistletoe, oak, olive, orange, peony, pineapple, rosemary, rowan, rue, saffron, St. John's Wort, sesame, sunflower, tea, walnut
Affirmation: Seasons come and go, cycles ebb and flow; no matter when, no matter where, the star of life is always there.

Monday: The Moon
Nearly all myths of the world contain some mention of the sun and the moon. Of course, there are cultural differences, but even the most primitive societies recognized the movement of these objects in the sky. Some bestow upon the moon a feminine identity; others give it masculine qualities. A Maasai story from Kenya tells of the sun marrying the moon but they fought, resulting in both of them having a battered appearance. However, the sun became bright to hide his face; the moon, being unashamed, allows people to see her. Many cultures have stories about a rabbit being associated with the moon which, if you look at it with imaginative eyes, you can see. Even though few mysteries about the moon remain, we still can't help feel a sense of awe when we gaze upon it and follow its cycles that seem to mirror our own lives in so many ways.

As with the sun, there are too many moon deities to name. In Greece, the goddess Selene was regarded as a personification of the moon; in Rome she was called Luna. In addition, the Roman goddess Diana (Greek Artemis) was associated with the moon.

Lunar energy is typically associated with life cycles, nurturing, dreams, psychic ability, and magic in general.

Colors: White, silver, gray
Stones: Aquamarine, labradorite, moonstone, pearl, clear quartz, sapphire, selenite, silver
Incense/Oils: Eucalyptus, jasmine, lemon, myrrh, sandalwood
Herbs/Plants: Camellia, camphor, coconut, cotton, cucumber, eucalyptus, gardenia, grape, jasmine, lemon, lemon balm, lettuce, lily, lotus, myrrh, poppy, sandalwood, willow
Affirmation: Changing faces of the moon, dancing with the sun; you follow us, inspire us, watch over everyone.

Tuesday: Tyr; Mars
We get the name Tuesday from Tiw's (Tiu) Day—the Anglo-Saxon name for the Norse god Tyr—a god of war who was equated with the Roman god. Some sources attribute the naming of this planet for the war god because of its reddish color. In Norse myth there aren't a great deal of stories about Tyr. He's most famous for losing one of his hands while binding the great wolf Fenrir. But let's not overlook Mars himself, for which the planet was named. He wasn't exactly a copy of his Greek counterpart Ares. Mars was considered to be less impulsive and more virtuous. In addition, the month of March is named after him (Martius).

When working with the energy of Mars, don't think of it as "war-like" or negative but, instead, view it as courage, strength, facing fear, or standing up for yourself. Channel this energy into your day however it's needed; remind yourself that you have the strength to overcome any obstacle.

Colors: All shades of red
Stones: Bloodstone, flint, garnet, iron, jasper, magnetite, pyrite, rhodonite, ruby
Incense/Oils: Dragon's blood; pine
Herbs/Plants: Allspice, basil, carrot, chili pepper, cumin, garlic, ginger, holly, leek, mustard, onion, pepper, peppermint, pine, radish, reed, shallot, snapdragon, thistle, tobacco, wormwood, yucca
Affirmation: Gods of battle give me courage, strength for anything I need; I am bold and I am brave, in every word and every deed.

Wednesday: Odin; Mercury
Most people are familiar with the Norse god Odin, the All-father, head of the Norse pantheon, god of wisdom, poetry, and war. The Anglo-Saxon name Wodan/Wotan is the origin of Wednesday, or Woden's Day. So, what is the connection between the Roman god Mercury and Odin? Sources vary on this subject. It could be that Odin's association with wisdom is linked with Mercury's later connection with learning; he has been attributed to giving Romans the alphabet. I like to consider their relationship as one based on communication. Mercury is the god of commerce and, like his Greek counterpart Hermes, is a swift-footed messenger who also guides souls to the underworld. Odin is also associated with the dead and has two ravens as companions who fly all over the world and deliver information. In this way, we can see some similarities.

Use the energy of Wednesday for communication and messages, travel, learning, and wisdom.

Colors: Yellow, green
Stones: Agate, aventurine, mica, citrine, opal
Incense/Oils: Lavender, lemongrass, peppermint
Herbs/Plants: Almond, aspen, bean, Brazil nut, caraway, clover, dill, fennel, fern, lavender, lemongrass, lily of the valley, mandrake, marjoram, May Apple, mint, mulberry, parsley, pecan, peppermint, pistachio, pomegranate
Affirmation: Swift and wise, be my guide, in all I show and all I hide.

Thursday: Thor; Jupiter
The Norse god Thor probably needs little introduction—most everyone is familiar with his prowess and his magic hammer. He's a giant-killer and also associated with storms, thunder, and lightning. The Roman god Jupiter was a sky god also associated with thunder and storms. The Old English Dunresdaeg was the day of Thunor, an equivalent to the Norse god Thor. In ancient Rome Jupiter was part of a triad of very important deities that also included Mars and Quirinus (a deified version of Romulus, one of Rome's legendary founders). It may seem like the head of the pantheon like Jupiter (Zeus) would be more comparable with a figure like Odin instead of Thor. But that's not the case here. It reflects just how much prominence a sky god like Thor had in ancient times.

The energy of "Thor's Day" involves change and possibility; movement. In addition, this is a good day for spells to harness good fortune and wealth.

Colors: Shades of blue/violet and deep purple
Stones: Amethyst, lepidolite, pewter, sapphire, tin
Incense/Oils: Star anise
Herbs/Plants: Anise, chestnut, clove, dandelion, fig, honeysuckle, maple, nutmeg, sage, sassafrass
Affirmation: Calm or storm, I stay in form; change and chance, eternal dance.

Friday: Frigg/Freya; Venus
The Norse goddess Frigg (Frigga) is the wife of Odin, associated with love and nurturing—she was also a mother figure. Her name comes from an Indo-European root that means "love," and so she was compared to Venus, Roman goddess of love. Frigg is typically portrayed as a loving wife and mother, but not always. In fact, most love goddesses are not always painted in such a simplistic role. That's because life and relationships are rarely simple. Some sources actually say that Frigg and the Norse goddess Freya were once the same figure. Freya, too, is associated with love. In addition, she is the only female of the Vanir (lesser group of gods) who is named in the epic poetry, and is associated with fertility and magic as well. It is said that she taught seid—a type of divination—to the Aesir (the main group of gods). As with the other Roman gods, Venus has some distinctions from her Greek counterpart Aphrodite. Venus was considered a goddess of fertility and victory in addition to love.

Use the energy of Frigg's day for love, relationships, friendship, fertility, and all types of bonds.

Colors: Blue, pink, green
Stones: Azurite, beryl, chrysocolla, chrysoprase, calcite, celestite, copper, emerald, jade, lapis lazuli, lodestone, malachite, olivine/peridot, sodalite, turquoise, watermelon tourmaline
Incense/Oils: Rose, spearmint, spikenard, vanilla
Herbs/Plants: Apple, apricot, avocado, aster, birch, blackberry, cardamom, catnip, cherry, crocus, daffodil, daisy, elder, foxglove, geranium, heather, hibiscus, hyacinth, iris, lilac, magnolia, mugwort, oats, orchid, pea, peach, pear, persimmon, plum, raspberry, rhubarb, rose, strawberry, thyme, tomato, tulip, vanilla, vervain, violet, willow
Affirmation: Love is all, transform, transcend. Love is all, begin and end.

Saturday: Saturn
There seemed to be no satisfactory god or goddess equivalent for Saturn's Day. In Old Norse, they referred to this day as "washing day." In other parts of Germany this day was called "Sunday eve." Some people associate this day with the Norse trickster figure Loki because Saetere was a possible Slavic name for Loki, but there is less evidence for this. Since Saturn was equated with the Greek Cronus (Kronos), we can look to those qualities for mythological associations. Cronus was associated with time and agriculture. He is our embodiment of "father time" as depicted with sickle in hand for the harvest.

In Greek myth, Cronus was a Titan, and their leader, not one of the Olympian gods. He overthrew his father Oranous (Uranus), castrating him. He threw the genitals into the sea and from this the goddess Aphrodite was born (Venus). This myth illustrates the motif of succession: we are taken over by our offspring just as we take over those before us; although, since this is often not a desired state, there is resistance. Many people fear the ending of their time or the ending of a period of controlling something. Cronus knew his children would replace him, just as he replaced his own father, and he enacted a plot to subdue the next generation by devouring them which, naturally, was unsuccessful. We get the word for time (chronology) from his name. We all know our time is limited, and it can be frightening to consider this.

The energy of Saturn governs domestic concerns (family, duty, loyalty), protection, and binding.

Colors: Black, gray, shades of brown
Stones: Apache tear, hematite, jet, salt, serpentine, obsidian, onyx, black tourmaline
Incense/Oils: Patchouli
Herbs/Plants: Beech, cypress, datura, elm, hemp, ivy, morning glory, mullein, pansy, poplar, yew
Affirmation: Riddles and webs, reason and rhyme, I can navigate this travesty of time.

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Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2021. All rights reserved.

My husband and I have been divorced for seven years. A couple of years ago he got remarried, and at that point, everything changed. His wife got pregnant right away, and he got caught up in his new family. I hate to admit it, but I didn't handle it very well. One day we got into another argument, and his wife said that she'd had it with my nasty attitude, and if I wasn't nicer, karma would bite me in the ass. I basically told her to go to hell. Well, after this, every time I was anything but kind or polite to them, something bad would always happen to me. Sometimes, all I had to do was THINK about being rude or nasty, and something would happen. For example, one day I was fuming over the situation and thinking about what I could do to get even. The TV was on, and just when I was thinking about what I might do, there was a loud pop, and smoke began to pour out of the TV! Another time I was on my way to their house to really let them have it when my car just died for no reason. The mechanic couldn't figure out what was wrong with it, but he replaced this and that, which cost me a lot of money. Another time I was chewing my ex out on the phone when all of a sudden, I got this horrible pain in my head. Is this karma, did his wife hex me, or am I somehow doing all this to myself?

- Kristin

Dreamchaser:

These things happened for two reasons. First, they were a direct result and physical manifestation of the anger inside of you. There are a number of movies that depict this phenomenon. For example, Firestarter centered on the character of a little girl who would set stuff on aflame when she got upset, so everyone around her did everything they could to keep her calm.

I know that is a rather dramatic example compared to what you're dealing with, but the same basic concept applies in your case. Your anger gets so intense that it erupts in your outer experience, or it explodes inward and you get a headache, some other pain, or feel exhausted.

Second, the Universe was trying to prevent you from actually completing the task of venting your anger on your husband and his new wife because they haven't done anything wrong. Your husband just moved on and married a perfectly decent woman, and they decided to have a baby.

I know it hurts you that they are moving on with their lives because you always believed he would someday come back to you. When she came into the picture and then got pregnant, all those hopes faded away. You then reacted in the only way you knew how - you got mad.

Anger is an emotion you are very comfortable with. You use it to protect yourself. If you didn't have that anger with your ex-husband and his new wife, you would have to actually feel all the hurt deep inside you, and you don't want to do that. It feels less threatening to get angry.

Kristin, your issues are not with your ex-husband. Your issues stem from old feelings of abandonment and fears that you are not quite good enough. You didn't know how to deal with some things you went through when you were a child, and as a result, you developed the habit of getting angry to avoid feeling emotional pain. Even happiness causes you pain sometimes, and as a result, you've become an angry person.

Ask the people around you. Ask them if you strike them as an angry person. I think most will be afraid to tell you the truth, to be honest. You're probably angry at me right now for even saying this stuff.

What do you want now, Kristin? You can ask the Universe for what you want, but then you must be willing to receive it. You can't have your ex-husband back. He is happy with his new family. He also very much wishes happiness for you, and hopes that you will find new peace and joy.

If you want new love, you can have that. You just have to ask and be willing - I mean REALLY willing - to receive it.

I wish you tranquility on all levels.

*****

Astrea:

When someone tells us that karma is going to get us and we believe that it will, we begin to manifest all sorts of bad experiences for ourselves. No one has put a hex on you, and karma isn't the problem. Being suggestible is the real issue here.

The new wife SUGGESTED that because you were so nasty to the two of them, you would suffer from bad karma, and in that moment, you chose to believe that she was right. It doesn't have a thing to do with her or your ex. You made this all about them, but really it's about your perspective on what you yourself have done and how you act toward others.

I hate to pop your wife-in-law's bubble, but karma is a lot bigger than making you suffer for a nasty remark or two. Karma is the energy we bring from PAST LIVES and what we create in THIS LIFE. If you start thinking more positively and creating better things for yourself, this bad luck you're having will vanish quickly.

YOU control what happens to you, though being nasty to others will certainly cause them to say and do some bad things back. If you look for the bad and you generate ill will, bad stuff always manifests. If you look for good things and try to be kind, you'll see a difference almost immediately. I know if you try, you can even find some good in your ex and his new wife. It may be hard to find, but it's there - you know it is.

Start to cultivate the Light by giving up all that negativity. Pick a start time and don't complain about ANYTHING for a week. This includes anything that normally upsets you. Every time you catch yourself complaining either mentally or out loud, find something positive to think or say too. You'll be amazed at how fast your attitude towards the world will change if you stop thinking in negative terms.

We talk a lot here at Kajama about the law of attraction, which basically says if you want good things, think good thoughts and do good deeds and good things will come your way. That's a simple explanation of a very complicated concept, but it covers it. People who welcome abundance into their lives enjoy that abundance. People who chase it away with negativity don't.

The new wife didn't hex you. You're doing this to yourself. What she DID was suggest that if you didn't get nicer, you would suffer the consequences, and that is exactly what happened.

Do a ritual to clear yourself of all that hostile energy. I'm sure by now you are pretty much over most of the bad stuff that happened between the three of you. Move on and find peace however you can with your ex and his wife.

In other words, it's time for you to start behaving yourself!

Astrea:

Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.

Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!

While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!

I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!

As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.

I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.

You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!

Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.

A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.

You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.