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    • Tantra and Women

      by Mark Michaels & Patricia Johnson

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Most classical Tantric texts seem to have been written primarily with men in mind. For example, the Gheranda Samhita, a 16th-century Tantric/Yogic text advises: "By virtue of this Yoga, the Bindu-Siddhi (retention of seed) is obtained, and when that Siddhi is obtained what else can he not attain in this world."1 Similarly much of the popular mythology about Tantric sex focuses on prolonged lovemaking and concomitant male staying-power (retention of seed), as if that were the defining feature of the Tantric experience. In Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving, Charles and Caroline Muir contend that tantric practitioners believe that the age-related prolongation of the refractory period is a sign of "the second chakra's depletion" due to the "too-frequent expulsion of the life essence contained in the man's semen." 2 While we are aware of one contemporary neo-Tantric teacher who claims that female ejaculation causes cervical cancer, injunctions about control of the bindu, ojas or semen are almost always directed at men, as are virtually all the other instructions in the classical texts.

      This emphasis on male practitioners may seem paradoxical and sexist—paradoxical because women are revered in Tantra, and Tantra is one of the rare spiritual traditions in which women have functioned for centuries as spiritual teachers and initiators, sexist because the almost entirely male focus of the texts might be construed as reflecting a belief that women are spiritually inferior. An examination of Tantra's history and a more nuanced understanding of the texts should resolve the apparent paradox and make it clear that the presumed male audience is evidence of sexism in Indian society in general but not in the Tantric tradition itself.

      The earliest forms of Tantric sexual ritual involved the possession of female practitioners by ravenous deities. These deities would share their power with men and could be propitiated with an offering of semen. The admixture of male and female sexual fluids and the consumption thereof was the source of both initiation and gnosis. But the power always emanated from the woman.3 This tradition has not died out, and we describe a modern form of this ancient sexual ritual in detail in "The Tantric Mass and The Secret of Amrita," chapter 15 of The Essence of Tantric Sexuality.

      Given this history and the importance of semen as an offering, it seems odd that some texts would emphasize retention. In part this is due to the influence of Ayurvedic and folk beliefs (which exist in many cultures) that semen is a vital fluid and that spilling or "wasting" it leads to depletion, but this is view is antithetical to the original Tantric approach. Moreover, there is a risk in taking the classical texts literally, and it seems plausible to suggest that the emphasis on male retention, to the extent that it exists in some but not all of the scriptures, has more to do with developing a more feminine pattern of sexual response than it does with wasting vital energy. Dr. Jonn Mumford (Swami Anandakapila Saraswati) has observed: "In Tantra the female has always been considered, when awakened, a natural repository of energy and realization, anchored in the heart, while men, with their outward forward floodlight gaze need the instruction about how to convert consciousness to dwell in the altar of the heart and lead the energy upward through training to focus consciousness as a spotlight." Implicit in Swami Anandakapila's observation is the idea that women, in general, are more readily awakened than men, an echo of the ancient Tantric belief that women are the initiators and holders of spiritual power. From this perspective, retention of semen is a learning tool and nothing more.

      There is an additional, somewhat more mundane, reason for the emphasis on men that pervades the classical Tantric scriptures, including those that do not pertain to sexual ritual. Most of these texts were composed between the 6th and 17th Centuries, CE. In India, as in Europe, literacy was largely the province of men during this period. Except for aristocrats and courtesans, literacy was rare among women, so it stands to reason that the texts were composed for a male audience. Textual knowledge, however, has never been a central to Tantra, which emphasizes the oral tradition and the passage of knowledge and initiation from "mouth to ear." Female spiritual teachers have played an important role in both Hindu and Buddhist Tantra for well over a millennium, a fact that sets the Tantric tradition apart from most other spiritual paths. This further reinforces the notion that textual knowledge is not a prerequisite for spiritual accomplishment and provides concrete evidence that the textual focus on men is in large part an artifact of the broader culture, not a reflection of any judgment about women's spiritual capacities.

      It is important to bear in mind that in the Tantric worldview, we all contain male and female aspects. Ardhanarishwara, a hermaphroditic form of Shiva, is the ruler of Ajna Chakra (the third eye). Thus, the key to inner wisdom lies in embracing our inner androgyny. Similarly, the Gheranda Samhita includes a meditation in which the male yogi visualizes himself as Shakti (the divine feminine) in sexual union with the male deity; through this practice, the yogi experiences himself as divine. This inner androgyny is something that everyone can profit from exploring, regardless of physical gender, and women can modify the textual instructions accordingly. The Tantric practitioners of old undoubtedly did so, whether they were male or female, literate or illiterate. While the Tantric texts were generally written for a masculine audience, Tantra was not, in any way, the exclusive province of men; the Tantric approach can work for anyone.

      1. Rai Bahadur Srisa Chandra Vasu, trans. The Gheranda Samhita (Allahabad, 1914. Reprint, New York: AMS Press, 1975.), 27.
      2. Charles and Caroline Muir, Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving (San Francisco: Mercury House, 1989), 78-79.
      3. See David Gordon White, Kiss of the Yogini: "Tantric Sex" in its South Asian Contexts, (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2003) for an in-depth discussion of this subject.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2007. All rights reserved.

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    • DOUBLE VISION: CAN AN ATHEIST BE PSYCHIC?

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      I’m having trouble accepting my feelings or connections with spirits and all that is on the other side of the “veil.” You see, I really don’t have a religion or believe in all that the Bible says. To me, it’s a fascinating story, as are “Lord of the Rings” and Harry Potter movies. I’m feeling like what I experience of spirit is all in my head because I don’t believe in the Bible. Can spiritual connections happen for atheists? – Shawna

      Dreamchaser:

      Shawna, what does the Bible have to do with spirits and the other side? Lots of people do not believe in the Bible, but they believe in everything that is. The Bible is a book written some 2000 years ago by men who believe in the Christian faith founded by Jesus Christ when he walked on earth. If one is not a Christian, then odds are that one does not believe a lot of things that are in the Christian Bible.

      For example, if one is of the Jewish faith, one does not believe anything about Jesus being the Messiah. Every religion has its own belief system. We are most definitely talking about religion when we talk about the Bible. When we talk about spirits and the other world, we are speaking about the universe and all that is in it which have nothing to do with religion.

      Many people do not believe in God. I know very few people who feel that God is this white-haired caucasian man sitting on this big gold throne with light coming off him. I personally feel that God must be a woman if I am created in God’s image. In any case, “God” is energy. The energy that you feel inside that steers you from making wrong decisions, or tells you to stop and say hello to someone who looks sad, or makes you stop to look at beautiful flowers in a field as you pass. All of that is “Christ consciousness” or God. One thing that the Christian Bible says that I unequivocally believe is the phrase “God is love.” Since love is energy, God must be energy.

      I heard a quote and used to have it posted on my Psychic Chat page (for you old timers). It says:

      “Religion is for people who believe in hell. Spirituality is for people who have been there.”

      You can be incredibly spiritual without being religious. Spirituality is about you and what you believe and what fills you up and what makes you feel good, providing you are harming no one else in the process. There are no edicts or laws in spirituality. You can look at the ocean and be filled with a sense of wonder, awe, peace, joy and balance, without having to think that God made it. The fact that you feel all those things is enough. You can also have paranormal experiences. Reasons for why it is there vary from religion to religion and person to person. Let go of the fear that if you allow yourself to “go there” and experience that world, you will be converted to some type of religion. It is so not that way! Enjoy these experiences and open your heart to what is.

      May you find the peace you are seeking

      *****

      Astrea:

      Most Jews and Christians who treat the Bible as a guideline, albeit a wonderful one. The Bible gives us a historical look at the way our faith grew and developed in the old times. It shows us about God’s love. Just because you don’t belong to an organized religion or believe literally in the Bible doesn’t mean you are an atheist.

      Many people feel as you do: That the Bible is a very valuable storybook, but isn’t the true and only word of God. There are some very outdated and impractical ideas there, and most Christians believe that our faith is growing and changing with humanity’s growth and change. We evolve in God’s love. There are no set rules for experiencing the love of God.

      I stopped believing that the Bible was more than a holy book when I was about six. At that point I began to discover other religions and other holy books, and my faith grew and expanded. While the Bible, the Koran, and other holy teachings are valuable to us as sources for lessons on how we can treat one another better, they are just that: Books of lessons about life, and stories about things that happened long before we were born into this incarnation. They survive because they continue to hold some value for humanity.

      If you were actually an atheist, you wouldn’t have any reason to try to communicate with spirits. That would be your imagination, because a real atheist doesn’t believe that spirits exist. How could you feel something that isn’t real to you? An atheist wouldn’t even be asking the question you ask. If you can have a spiritual experience, then you believe in something, because God is in all of those, one way or another. Atheists believe that there is one life and that when you’re dead, that’s it: You’re dead, and there is nothing that goes on or continues.

      When a spiritual connection happens, it’s a given that the person it’s happening to believes that it can happen. Whether you’re imagining this communication or not isn’t the point. The point is that you think you’re doing it, either when you are or after it happens, so you should decide what your beliefs really are. So what if they don’t fit into the format of some organized religion, Christian or otherwise? It’s not necessary to believe in the Bible to believe in God. God is individual to all of us, and lives in each of us, whether we want to admit it or not. A personal God doesn’t come from just any book. God comes from your heart, your soul, your self, and your feelings. All Gods are one God.

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