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    • 365 Days of Crystal Feng Shui for Your Home

      by Sandra Kynes

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      The laying on of crystals, or crystal therapy, is a powerful way to align and balance the energy of our bodies. Even simply wearing crystals can have an effect on us. Similarly, through the placement of crystals in our homes, we can attract prosperity, augment relationships, and initiate changes in our lives.

      A number of years ago, I became interested in the Chinese practice of feng shui mainly because of its use of crystals. I had been following my intuition and placing crystals around my home for years, but the principles of feng shui provided a structure. It opened the door to a whole new way of approaching what I was doing. While a traditional feng shui practice can be complicated, even applying the basic concepts with crystals can bring results.

      The most fundamental principle of feng shui—creating flow, harmony, and balance—is often illustrated with the yin/yang symbol. Although the white and black sections of the symbol are equal, they do not split the circle in half down the middle; instead, they flow into each other, creating balance and harmony.

      Yin and yang can best be described as the harmonious dynamic of opposites. They are regarded as the binding forces that hold the universe together. However, because the forces of yin and yang are constantly changing, the universe is anything but static. As anyone who has done energy work on any level knows, it's an ongoing process. Using them throughout the year keeps both our homes and ourselves in balance. What's more, crystals are such powerful tools for energy work because they are formed by the dynamic forces for Mother Earth.

      According to feng shui theory, negative energy is called sha, and it occurs where yin and yang are out of balance. Sha can occur in two extremes: fast moving (too yang) or stagnating and depleted (too yin). In the home, when energy is trapped in a corner of a room it stagnates and lacks life-giving vitality. Likewise, energy can be forced into a straight line, for example by a long hallway, where it can gain momentum and become uncomfortable or destructive. Chi is the positive, calm energy in between the two extremes of sha. To keep things in balance, positive energy needs to flow unimpeded through the home.

      The art of feng shui is a balancing act between neutralizing negative energy and fostering positive energy. Creating energetic balance in our homes lays the foundation for tackling personal issues or cultivating a particular atmosphere. Just think about it: how can you plan a romantic evening if your home has an undercurrent of tension?

      The Three A's of Working with Energy
      Okay, now that we know energy needs to be in balance, where do we start? With the three As: awareness, adjustment, and activation. First, be aware and assess your surroundings. Take a few minutes to sit quietly in a room. If something doesn't feel right, look for a source of negative energy. Make an adjustment by placing a crystal or two where you feel it. Choose a crystal that will calm fast-moving energy or stimulate slow energy. If you're not sure, use a crystal that will balance energy.

      It is often helpful to begin your assessment by looking outside your home. The artificial environments of towns and cities with busy roads can have a strong impact on the energy of our homes. Assess how energy flows toward your house or apartment building. If you live on a busy street, you may be bombarded with fast-moving energy that can drain positive energy from your home. If you live on a cul-de-sac, energy may be stagnating and creating a pool of negativity.

      To deal with negative energy that is outside, place a crystal or two on a windowsill or near the wall in the direction of the problem. If you need to calm fast-moving or chaotic energy, place a piece of amethyst in the direct of the flow. This will both calm and balance the energy. Alternatively, use one piece each of white quartz and opal to do the job. To get energy moving, try clear quartz or peridot and obsidian. Table 1 below contains examples of crystals that can be used for this process. Some crystals have a two-fold function in either calming or stimulating and balancing energy.

      Table 1: Crystals for the Three As
      Calm Energy Flow: Amber, amethyst, ametrine, aragonite, aventurine, azurite, beryl, blue lace agate, celestine, chrysocolla, diamond, dolomite, garnet, hematite, kunzite, larimar, lepidolite, moonstone, rhodonite, rose quartz, selenite, smithsonite, sodalite, tiger’s eye, topaz, white quartz
      Stimulate Energy Flow: Agate, calcite, charoite, danburite, dumortierite, emerald, epidote, fluorite, iolite, kyanite, labradorite, opal, pearl, peridot, phenacite, clear quartz, rhodochrosite, sard, serpentine, spinel, sunstone, tourmaline, zircon
      Balance Energy: Agate, amethyst, ametrine, apophyllite, aragonite, calcite chalcedony, chrysoprase, danburite, desert rose, diopside, dioptase, dolomite, garnet, hawk’s eye, jasper, jet, labradorite, lepidolite, moonstone, obsidian, opal, pearl, clear quartz, rhodochrosite, smithsonite, sodalite, spinel, staurolite, sugilite, tourmaline, zircon

      Assess the Energy Inside Your Home
      After looking outside, assess how energy enters and moves through your home. The front door is regarded as the main entry point for energy. Any blockage here will inhibit positive energy from entering and circulating freely to create a balanced environment. Blessings and abundance could get stuck on your doorstep instead of bringing them into your life. A crystal hung above the front door or placed near the door can help regulate the flow of energy.

      Continue through your home. Look for areas where energy can get boxed in or where it may speed up. Place a crystal in the area where you want to change and balance the energy. Get creative; crystals can be placed just about anywhere.

      As mentioned, after dispatching negativity and balancing energy you're ready to deal with personal issues or cultivate an aspect of your life. This also extends to the family. For example, the dining room and kitchen are places where families come together, not only for nourishment, but also for discussion and decision-making. Place several crystals, such as aventurine or charoite, around the room to foster a sense of family and community. Rhodochrosite, rose quartz, or tourmaline can be used in the dining room or kitchen to attract abundance to the family.

      Sometimes we carry tension home with us from work and sometimes a conflict in the family can create unsettled energy. In addition, the energy of a room may just feel "off" without an apparent reason. Use calming crystals to change the quality of the energy. Blue lace agate, celestine, larimar, and selenite are particularly effective to restore harmony. Table 2 below provides an overview of crystals that can be used for specific purposes.

      The time of year and weather can also effect the energy of our homes. During the excitement of the holiday season with an increase in family and friends visiting, we may need to tone down the energy to avoid an atmosphere of chaos. However, after the holidays, and especially in northern areas where it is cold and dark, we may want to ratchet-up the level of energy.

      Table 2: Crystals for Specific Purposes
      Attract abundance and comfort: Agate, apatite, calcite, chrysoberyl, chrysoprase, citrine, diamond, dioptase, dolomite, garnet, jade, moonstone, peridot, rhodochrosite, rose quartz, salt, smoky quartz, tourmaline, zircon
      Improve communication: Amazonite, amethyst, angelite, apatite, aquamarine, azurite, beryl, blue lace agate, calcite, carnelian, celestine, cerussite, chalcedony, danburite, dumortierite, fluorite, fluorite, garnet, hiddenite, iolite, kunzite, kyanite, malachite, phenacite, quartz, sardonyx, selenite, tiger's eye, topaz
      Foster healing: Amethyst, ametrine, apatite, aquamarine, aragonite, aventurine, beryl, bloodstone, blue lace agate, calcite, celestine, chalcedony, chrysoberyl, danburite, diamond, diopside, dioptase, fluorite, garnet, hawk's eye, hematite, hiddenite, jasper, jet, kunzite, lapis lazuli, larimar, moonstone, peridot, petrified wood, rhodonite, rose quartz, salt, sapphire, smithsonite, sugilite, sunstone, tourmaline, white quartz
      Kindle love and romance: Agate, alexandrite, amethyst, apatite, aquamarine, beryl, calcite, chrysocolla, danburite, desert rose, diamond, diopside, dioptase, emerald, epidote, garnet, jade, jasper, kunzite, lapis lazuli, larimar, lepidolite, lodestone, moonstone, opal, pearl, rhodochrosite, rhodonite, rose quartz, ruby, sapphire, sardonyx, selenite, sugilite, topaz, tourmaline, zircon, zoisite
      Attract prosperity and wealth: Agate, alexandrite, aventurine, calcite, cat's eye, diamond, dioptase, emerald, herkimer diamond, jade, jasper, malachite, opal, peridot, ruby, salt, spinel, tiger’s eye, tourmaline
      Engender reconciliation: Apatite, beryl, diamond, herkimer diamond, kunzite, lodestone, rose quartz
      Support relationships: Amazonite, amber, apatite, aquamarine, barite, beryl, chrysocolla, cuprite, garnet, herkimer diamond, hiddenite, kunzite, lapis lazuli, larimar, lodestone, obsidian, onyx, peridot, rhodochrosite, rhodonite, rose quartz, ruby, sapphire, sardonyx, smithsonite, sodalite, spinel, tourmaline, zoisite
      Relieve stress: Agate, angelite, apophyllite, aragonite, beryl, blue lace agate, celestine, diamond, dioptase, dolomite, howlite, kyanite, labradorite, larimar, lepidolite, petrified wood, rhodonite, rose quartz, selenite, smithsonite, sodalite
      Achieve success: Agate, alexandrite, amazonite, amber, amethyst, andalusite, aventurine, bloodstone, calcite, carnelian, chrysoprase, citrine, epidote, fluorite, garnet, jasper, labradorite, lodestone, malachite, sodalite, spinel, staurolite, sunstone, tiger’s eye, turquoise, zircon

      Before Using Crystals
      While there are many ways to do a crystal cleansing, one of the easiest is to use your own energy. To do this, hold the crystal in both hands in front of your heart. Close your eyes and bring your awareness to the energy above your head. It may help to visualize it as a soft white, pink, or lavender glow. Feel it gently touch the crown of your head, and then move down activating your third-eye chakra, located between and slightly above the eyebrows. As this energy descends to the throat and chest, it activates the heart chakra.

      From here, visualize the energy moving along your arms to your hands and into the stone. Visualize the light pulsing and glowing around the crystal. Now imagine it moving back up your arms, and then down your spine, legs, and into your feet. Become aware of the bottoms of your feet. Visualize the energy moving from your feet into the floor and eventually into the ground taking away old energy and any negativity with it. If you are not going to use the crystal immediately for energy work, wrap it in a cloth and put it away.

      A cursory glance at Table 2 shows that crystals sometimes serve a number of functions. When you are ready to use a crystal for a specific function, use your energy to program it. Hold the crystal in front of your heart and think of your particular purpose for it. Visualize your energy moving from your heart, down your arms into the crystal to pattern it with your intention and willpower. Hold an image of this energy in your mind for a moment, and then place the crystal where its energy is needed.

      After each use, cleanse the crystal to have it ready for the next purpose. Of course, if you're like me you probably enjoy having your crystals out where you can see and enjoy them. When you want to use a crystal that's on display for a specific purpose, go through the energy cleansing and programming, and then place it where it is needed.

      The key to success with crystal therapy for the home is to start small. Don't try to take on the whole house at once. Start with any exterior source of negativity. After that, focus on the front door to make sure positive energy is coming in. Follow that by working individually with one room or one area within a room. Take your time to make adjustments and live with the results. Most importantly, let the crystals speak to you. Use your intuition to help you tap into the deeper power and wisdom of the mineral kingdom.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2018. All rights reserved.

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    • DOUBLE VISION: HER PSYCHIC ABILITY IS SUDDENLY "OFF"

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      I’m having a hard time understanding or interpreting the signs I receive from spirit. I’m a psychic reader and do not have any trouble hearing and seeing spirit and receiving messages. However, sometimes, the messages don’t match reality. This has happened before with my clients, but within a couple of weeks, they start to see the truth of my reading.

      When I’ve asked for clear answers, I get this knowing feeling of “it will happen” or “it’s happening now.” I will see the same type of car this person drives or his name will pop up several times a day. I’ve even received spam email messages from a company that has his last name. I’ve yet to receive an email or call from him, however, and when I do see him in person, he doesn’t show an interest in me.

      Am I misinterpreting all of this synchronicity due to wishful thinking? Is there something spirit is trying to tell me that I just can’t hear? I know when it comes to relationships, some readers can’t read for themselves, but I have always been able to. Why would this be different? I’ve always known when a relationship was going to work or when it wouldn’t – except for this one. What am I missing here? Thank you and many blessings!

      Debra

      Dreamchaser:

      I don’t believe that you are misinterpreting the signs. I think you are just failing to account for this man’s free will.

      You are also failing to account for the fact that things take time. I often “know” that something is going to happen just as you described. However, I also know that it is going to take quite some time to happen. Just because your clients have things happen in a few weeks doesn’t mean that you will.

      An example that pops into my head is a client from Psychic Chat. His woman left him, and I would tell him over and over that they would not only get back together, but also get married in a little chapel, and that they would jump over a broom.

      He ended up scoffing at me and leaving me as a client. About two years later, I received an email from Psychic Chat that was a forward from this client. They had gotten back together, taken a trip to Ireland, found a small chapel and gotten married in it. The wife of the preacher who married them insisted that they jump over a broom before leaving the chapel. He sent me a picture of him and his lovely wife in their full wedding regalia.

      Things often take time to manifest. You have to take free will and time into consideration.

      Also, you have to ask spirit why you are hearing this person’s name and seeing things that remind you of him everywhere. This doesn’t always mean that you are intended for a love relationship with him. Often people come into our lives to teach us a lesson or show us something valuable, and then they are gone forever.

      Are you misreading the reason for this man being in your life? Ask spirit.

      Sometimes, everything is on track and things seem to be clipping along at a very nice pace, then one of the people in the relationship gets scared for whatever reason, and that person backs away. Sometimes this seems very sudden. You are then left with this incredibly confusing feeling, wondering what just happened.

      Your instincts are still on the this-is-going-to-work-out track, but the other person is running in fear. Please do a fresh reality check, and make sure you are not trying to cram a round peg into a square hole.

      You really want this man. To that end, you take signs and try to mold them into what you want them to be because you want him so badly. In situations that are easy for you to read, you don’t have much energy or desire invested. In this case, however, you want this to work out so badly that your desire may be skewing your visions.

      I wish you clarity.

      *****

      Astrea:

      Reading for oneself is always iffy, especially when it comes to relationships.

      Believe it or not, even psychics can have their heads turned by a pretty face. You see this cute guy and say to yourself, “Oh, baby!” and “such a handsome feller could never hurt a girl’s feelings.” Then you make a Texas-sized mistake by thinking, “I’m psychic, I would know.”

      No, you would not know. Love is something that defies all reason — even honed psychic skill!

      How many hundreds of times have you spoon fed your clients when they fooled themselves into investing their hearts and souls in someone who just didn’t have what they needed? How many times have you tried to gently lead them away from disaster?

      We may tell them they can have what they want from the person they’re asking about, but only if certain elements emerge and cause that person to change and become that perfect fit. The client goes away thinking, “Oh, he’s going to be all mine!” They never hear the “if” just as you wouldn’t let yourself hear it.

      You’re only human. We all make mistakes. We want someone to be a certain way, so in our minds we make him that way. Then we’re just as surprised as everyone else when he’s not how we pictured.

      Free will is a most powerful force, and no matter how much we think a person is right for us, sometimes he’s just not who we perceive him to be. Your tools, your cards, your runes, your chicken bones (whatever you’re using) love you too. They don’t want to disappoint you, so they put out what you wanted.

      Yes, this person has potential, but he’s not yet what you need. Your tools gave you clues, but you ignored them and read into them what you wanted to see.

      Don’t you often read for people who get the tower in a Tarot spread on a relationship, despite the fact that everything appears just peachy on the surface? We all overlook that tower sometimes because it’s painful to face the truth that, despite how lovely things may seem, danger is lurking.

      His name pops up all over the place because you’re looking for it. I tell my clients to pick something at random and look for it. Sure enough, they can find just as many of those too.

      If it’s true that every other reading you’ve done for yourself panned out, you’ve been extremely lucky. I learned not to read for myself or my family a long time ago. It upsets me. Unlike you, I see all the negative potential when I’m too invested in the outcome.

      Don’t stop trusting your ability — just make sure your readings are free from wishful thinking.

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