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  • Weekly Astrological Forecast for December 18 through December 24, 2023

    December 18 through December 24, 2023

    The Sun will move into Capricorn and a new season begins on Thursday, casting a more grounded and security-conscious aura around us through the end of the year and into January. Capricorn is the sign of the protector, the responsible, and the hard-working, and though we may put work on the back burner for the last week or so of the year, this sign also allows us to stabilize and reconnect with those who are most important in our lives. The Moon travels through Pisces on Monday and Tuesday, casting a more spiritual tone to the start of our week. We’ll be more heart-centered and theological, taking whatever comes with a grain of salt and trying to focus on the hidden gifts of any challenges that arise. Then on Wednesday and Thursday we’ll have to get busy, as the Aries Moon reminds us that there are things to be done before the weekend starts. Our energy will double and we’ll breeze through any tasks in our way with ease! Friday and Saturday will be more grounded under the Taurus Moon, allowing us to regroup and get ready for Christmas Eve on Sunday. Sunday’s Gemini Moon will have us in a talkative mood, ready to socialize and reconnect with those closest to us over the holidays.

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  • YOUR ASTROLOGICAL GIFT-GIVING GUIDE

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    by Susyn Blair-Hunt, Ms.D.

    You can find the perfect holiday gift for everyone on your list by considering the unique aspects of their astrological sun sign. Of course, everyone will appreciate a gift of enlightenment, so consider giving a gift certificate for a psychic or astrological reading on the new year ahead. You can purchase gift certificates from Susyn at SusynBlairHunt.com.

    ARIES: For the Aries folks on your list, keep in mind that they love movement. Books, movies or gifts related to cars, travel or the latest exercise trends will get their attention. Since they’re fire signs, you can’t go wrong with candles, incense or fragrances. Aries also love to read up on the latest news, so consider extending their favorite magazine subscriptions or adding a new one to their collection. Pennywise Aries will love a gift certificate to their favorite store so they can shop for the best deals at all the post-holiday clearance sales.

    TAURUS: Taurus is the sign of luxury, so consider a gift certificate to their favorite clothing or furniture store. In fact, gift certificates for music, movies, a massage or a favorite restaurant will work too. These earth signs appreciate jewelry, travel and shopping. Since a Taurus will be the first on the block to own the latest electronics, consider a new TV, computer, video game, or cell phone to make their holidays special. For a more practical gift, look for a book, magazine subscription or movie about their favorite subject.

    GEMINI: Intellectual Geminis adore books, electronics and anything that puts them in touch with the latest information. They also love the unusual and unique, so an online search may net a one-of-a-kind item they are sure to appreciate. Candles, incense, music and movies are favorites of this air sign, along with board games, computer software and anything that challenges the mind. Since Geminis are the most talkative sign of the zodiac, a new cell phone or calling card will allow them to chat with abandon, so consider giving them the gift of gab.

    CANCER: You’re wise to shower your favorite Cancer with unique cookbooks, cookware, gardening equipment or a gift certificate to their favorite specialty shop. Since Cancers’ hearts are in the home, special touches that add to their decor such as statuary, throw pillows or original artwork are always appreciated. You might also take them on a shopping spree to IKEA. As one of the most intuitive signs, a psychic reading or class may be a good choice. Cancers have a gift for keeping plants thriving even in the winter time, so a poinsettia or other potted plant can make for a gift that will last well into the new year.

    LEO: As Leos love adornment, jewelry, clothing, makeup and mirrors are great gifts for these fire signs. Lamps, lighting displays, and candles are also great for illuminating their worlds. Personalized gifts are a fun way to spotlight the Leo on your list, so choose monogrammed jewelry, bathrobes or towels. One of their favorite pastimes is coffee and conversation, so consider giving a special blend of coffee or tea along with a fruit or muffin basket; that way, they can share your present with you, since your company is the gift they will appreciate the most.

    VIRGO: The word here is gadgets, gadgets and more gadgets! Virgos love these things, especially if they improve their lifestyle. Maps, globes, or atlases fascinate them, even if most of their traveling is done from an easy chair. Puzzles, games, watches and clocks are also great ideas. Precision tools, craft and hobby items, or journals to record their thoughts will also work. Candles, bath salts, or a massage gift certificate can help these earth signs slow down and relax a bit. And don’t worry: if you simply can’t find anything that seems to fit, just ask them – they will be more than happy to share their carefully considered wish list with you.

    LIBRA: Music, books and art are favorites of Libras, though they also love gift certificates because they like to choose their own presents. Keep in mind that these air signs tend to focus on the spirit of the season more than the loot, and are usually happy with anything they receive. Makeup, jewelry and clothing are great ideas for this trendsetter who likes to keep up with the latest fashions. Libras also enjoy a wonderful meal out, so you could always pick up a gift card to their favorite restaurant. For the creative Libra in your life, a model kit, art set or musical instrument will make their day.

    SCORPIO: Like other signs of the zodiac, Scorpios appreciate gift certificates that permit them to choose their own gifts, as this water sign considers shopping for themselves to be half the fun. Think in terms of touch, smell, sight and sound when choosing Scorpios’ presents; anything that awakens the senses will be appreciated, so consider fur throws, aromatherapy candles, artwork, movies and music. Specialty liqueurs, meats, cheeses and fruit baskets are a few other great options for this sensual and often indulgent sign. Since Scorpios are ruled by Pluto and fascinated by the occult, a psychic or astrological reading for the year ahead could also be very well-received.

    SAGITTARIUS: Sagittarians tend to request practical gifts, so surprise them with something totally impractical for a change. Holiday dinnerware or bedding, unusual artwork, flowers or candy are gifts they would never buy for themselves but may really appreciate. A relaxing trip to a day spa is ideal for this fire sign, for Sags tend to nurture the rest of the world and put themselves last. A weekend getaway to recharge is another great idea. If you want to honor their requests for a practical gift, offer to pay their cable bill for a month, or renew a subscription to their favorite publication.

    CAPRICORN: Since this sign never seems to stop, a day planner, 2008 calendar, or briefcase will help them stay organized. If your Capricorn hasn’t already provided with you a list of their holiday requests, think about choosing from the latest gadgets, electronics and tools. Some Capricorns have a penchant for office equipment, so a new office chair, desk or cabinet would work well. Caps are creative as well as practical, so they adore handmade gifts such as albums or videos you might put together of the family or a favorite trip. Consider fruit, flower or a dessert-of-the month club for a gift that keeps giving all year long.

    AQUARIUS: Aquarius rules electronics, so any gift related to computers, media or science appeals to this sign. Water bearers also appreciate innovation and new thinking, so books, magazines and movies that explore these topics will make them happy. Concert and movie tickets, and gift sto their favorite store are always appreciated. Aquarians march to the beat of a different drummer, so cruise the internet for something unusual and offbeat. A glittery cover for their cell phone, one of those tiny new i-Pods, or some flashy bling will make the holidays special for this one-of-a-kind air sign.

    PISCES: Think mystery when choosing a gift for your favorite Pisces. Whether they are into metaphysics, the occult or creative arts, you’re sure to find the perfect gift by visiting specialty stores devoted to these themes. Paints, magic tricks, a deck of tarot cards or a psychic reading may be the answer. If your Pisces shows little interest in those things, try an aquarium, a gift certificate to a day spa, or exotic bath salts to wake up their watery nature. Since Pisces usually love to write, wrapping up a blank journal, a wonderful fountain pen or a computer program that helps them organize their collection of prose or poetry will thrill them.


    Susyn Blair-Hunt, Ms.D., is known internationally for her psychic readings, daily horoscopes here at Kajama, and her complete guide book to the Tarot Tarot Prediction and Divination. Susyn has been a professional metaphysical consultant for over 25 years and holds a Doctorate in Metaphysics along with certification by the American Association of Professional Psychics and the American Tarot Association. To learn more about her readings and books, visit SusynBlairHunt.com.

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  • Double Vision: Do Loved Ones in Spirit Eventually Leave Us Completely?

    I am writing to ask about long-term connections with loved ones who have passed over. It has been just over two years since I lost the closest friend I ever had. At first I felt him around a lot, because I took his death very hard, and I felt that he was trying to comfort me. We also had some unresolved issues between us (unspoken feelings, at least on my part). As time went on and I learned to cope better, I would sense that he would "check in on me," and I would get little signs at times, especially on birthdays, etc. I do feel that he is doing well; I get a sense of him being happy and free. I am very glad for him of course, but feel almost like I am losing him all over again. It is still hard for me to look ahead to a future without him, for it seems so empty. Do our loved ones eventually leave us completely? Do our earthly relationships lose meaning in the afterlife? Am I just "stuck" in the grieving process? I would greatly appreciate your insight and input.

    - Katy

    Dreamchaser:

    We never lose our loved ones who pass on before us; they are always there. All we have to do is call out their names and they will come to us. We never ever lose touch with them.

    You were correct in stating that you felt him around more when he first passed. You were inconsolable, so he did come and do what he could. As you started to heal those gaping wounds of grief, he started to leave you more and more.

    He is VERY happy where he is. He is healthy and everything works the way it is supposed to. He can move again. I have to tell you, usually when I see loved ones on the Otherside, they are in big open places - I rarely see them in crowds. This one here is in a big crowd, however. He is where everyone else is, and he is vibing with the energy of the gathering. He is a very "social" being, even on the Otherside.

    I think that the old expression, "We never get over someone we love, we just have to learn how to live without them" is very true. You are learning how to live without your very best friend. You two depended so much on each other. You two were there so much for each other that even after all this time, you still have a huge gaping hole in your life that he used to fill.

    When you feel that hole, you grieve. There is no set timeframe for grief. It is what it is. Sometimes it is manageable, and sometimes it will bring you to your knees. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. You just do it as it comes. You are not stuck. You are "normal."

    When you pass over to the Otherside, your humanness and the parts of the relationship that went along with the humanness will not matter any more. I think at that point, you will both be spiritual beings again, and you will take the spiritual lessons from this lifetime. Any earthly or human issues such as ego, fear, doubt, self-loathing, etc. will have no more meaning there. Only the spiritual lessons learned will have meaning.

    That doesn't make your earthly relationship meaningless. You came, you communed, you learned, and you will keep all of THAT when you both cross over. You will continue to commune on the spirit level as you both are in the same soul family. You have gone from life to life to life with each other, and will continue to do so.

    I suggest you look around in your community for organizations that hold grief support groups. I think it would do you some good to listen to others tell their stories, see that you are not "crazy," and perhaps pick up some great ideas on how to deal with your own grief. It can't hurt to sit in on one meeting.

    I wish you healing.

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    Astrea:

    My best friend crossed over unexpectedly in 1996. I began to communicate with him again about a year later. He was a lovely person, and I thought we'd left a lot of things left unsaid, but we didn't - and you two probably didn't either.

    Because your friend is in Heaven now, he knows everything that you meant to say while he was alive. When you talk to him, he hears you, every time. We should all be so lucky with our living loved ones! It would be wonderful to be able to express ourselves in the pure way we can with those who are in a Celestial Incarnation.

    While you can't feel him or hold him with your physical body, he CAN come to you. He might be invisible, but you do feel him there with you. When you're feeling anxious, sad or tired, he's right there, and will be until you reunite with him in the Afterlife. Don't ever feel that he's slipping away from you, for he's not. As long as he's alive in your heart, you two will maintain a strong connection.

    He lives in and through you always. Your memory keeps him alive for yourself and for others who love him. Staying in close contact with his other friends and relatives and talking about him will help keep him close.

    In your heart he will never be separated from you, so it's easy to see that in death, he isn't either. Death is a transition from this dimension to another, and there is a THIN VEIL that separates us, but only PHYSICALLY. Emotionally, our connections endure long beyond our time here on Earth.

    Through our faith in the afterlife, we keep that connection alive. Never doubt that he'll be there if you need him on the worst day of your life, or even in times of great joy. You're still sharing your experiences with him, just like you did when he was alive.

    He tells me that he's sorry that he left you feeling this way, and that he'll come to you in dreams any time you ask him to do so. ASK HIM OFTEN! He hates it that you're so sad and seem to be getting sadder. Grief is something that will keep you APART, not bring you closer together. Try to release the loneliness. While it doesn't block him from coming to you, it CAN block you from "feeling" him there.

    Pick a time of day every day for a "talk" with your friend. In the quiet times when you are alone, you can connect with him and tell him everything he needs to know that you didn't get to say while you were both living. Even though he has a new existence going on in this Celestial Incarnation, he hasn't moved on completely from you. It's like that old song, "If you need me, call me. I'll be there in a hurry!"

    Astrea:

    Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.

    Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!

    While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!

    I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!

    As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.

    I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.

    You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!

    Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.

    A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.

    You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.

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