- Three Tips To Manifesting More MoneyContinue reading →
by Jana Morena
Many of us make money into something big and huge in our lives, but we have forgotten that actually money is a very new invention compared to the age of humanity. One of the main problems many have when manifesting money is that they are coming from a survival mode when they try to manifest it. While this isn't wrong or bad, there is a faster way to come into alignment with it; you just have to know what works best for you.
Some people can focus on having money and POOF! It comes flowing into their life experience. Others need to focus on their work or a project and not focus on the money. The more they really enjoy and love their work, the more money comes flowing to them.
Here are three tips that make manifesting money easier:
1) Focus on who you are becoming in the creation instead of the creation itself. If you have ever heard the phrase,
It's the journey, not the destination,
then this is exactly what this first tip is talking about. When focusing on money, many of us automatically go into survival mode and feel fear. In this vibrational Universe, when we feel fear and hold that space for a period of time, we create more fear in that particular area of our lives. However, if we switch our focus to who we are becoming, how we are growing internally via knowledge, skills, experience and so on, now our focus is on growth and the feeling of expansion. And the more we focus on this and hold this space for just a little while, the more evidence we see of it manifesting in our financial affairs.Another thing you can do is ask yourself,
Who would I be if I had a successful business that earned X amount of dollars every month?
Or you can ask,What would be different about the energy that I carry if I was earning X amount of dollars or had a successful business?
Whatever your answer is, take it and embody it. And remember: the joy is in the discovering of ourselves.2) Relax. No matter where you are financially now, this too shall pass. Oftentimes we create unneeded stress for ourselves when we look at our bills, debt and then our paycheck. But if we see it as it is, then all we see is paper with numbers on it. Find a way to relax about where you are on your financial journey. There are so many stories of people who were millions of dollars in debt and found their way out of it in a few short years. You can do the same. They made peace with where they were financially, and didn't avoid it.
As with any perceived problem in life, we have to be willing to look at it, see it fully and embrace it. Then the problem will begin shifting on its own. Not only is this tip one of the three keys to alignment, but it is the one where people have the most trouble. They make where they are financially mean something about them.
I am a failure. I have to figure this out. I can't believe this is happening. How can I solve this? What am I supposed to do?
This doesn't help anything.Do what you can to RELAX into wherever you are financially. Meditate more, go for a walk in nature every day, find a way to ease that stress about where you are. Focus on your work, your kids, find a complimentary massage online and go get one. Read a book, paint, swim, play or anything that will help you relax into it.
Our financial situation can sometimes be like a hot bath. We try to get in but can't because it is too hot. When we relax, ease into it slowly and give it a little time, we can completely submerge ourselves comfortably.
3) Tune and tap into solutions if you are facing a problem, instead of only focusing on the problem. After we look at our financial situation, see it as it is and don't make it mean anything about us, then we can gracefully and easily align with solutions to our perceived problems and manifest those instead. Oftentimes we forget that we can't have a problem without at least two solutions to the problem. All we need to do is align with the solutions instead.
So what would it feel like to have all your financial problems solved? Many people say relaxed and happy, or that they would feel a sense of achievement or success or excitement, to name a few. Do something every day to feel this way for at least 10 minutes. This is how we align with solutions to problems. The problem shows up, and we are so busy looking at the problem that we forget that solutions are available if we make ourselves available for the solutions. So match the vibration of having already manifested a solution and watch problem-solving ideas, situations and people come racing in.
In summary, with any manifestation, be willing to give it time, especially if you have been facing the same issue for the past decade or longer. Don't give yourself a deadline if it is going to stress you out. Manifesting something is like clothing; sometimes we have to grow into it first. For example, if five years ago, someone told me to start an online magazine, I would have said no in a heartbeat because it was
too big
for me. Nowadays, I have grown into this manifestation, and am enjoying my new threads. 🙂
Jana Moreno is an author, speaker, trainer, Inspire.fm radio host, and owner of Wisdom Ink Magazine online. Jana supports people in creating and experiencing fulfilling careers, loving relationships, boundless energy and health, financial mastery, joy, love and abundance. Jana gives talks and trainings in Malaysia, and gives sessions to people from all around the world including the United States, Vietnam, Brunei and Canada. She has been participating in this work since 2006, and provides workshops, retreats and group circles. For more of her inspiring writing, visit Wisdom Ink Magazine. To connect with Jana, check out her Facebook page and Twitter.
- Double Vision: Ongoing Psychic Relationship with ExContinue reading →
My ex has been in my thoughts and in my gut for almost 10 years now. I feel him pulling me and calling to me in the same way that I felt him long ago when we were together. These days, it seems to happen at random moments. I feel like there's a connection I can't let go of, like even though the relationship ended, it is still very much alive and ongoing. I meet other men and fall in love, but those relationships always end because the connection is just not the same. All the while, I feel like an umbilical cord is linking me with my ex. We broke up because he was lying to me, but maybe that was because he felt trapped. I don't know; I just know that closure never happened. I have recurring dreams in which he's using my bathroom, and it looks like it did back before it was renovated. I stop in the hallway to ask him why he's peeing with the door open, and he turns his head and says,
I still think of you
orI still remember you.
More often, I have dreams of hiding in his house with his new wife and he finds me and holds me and tells me he still loves me. I don't know what to think about all of this.K.
Susyn:
When two people develop a relationship, they subconsciously exchange energy with each other. When a relationship ends, the person left behind may continue to feel attached to the other person for a long time. Your ex still possesses the energy you gave him, and a part of you wants it back. This may be the root cause of your inability to release him. Since he is married and has moved on with his life, it's time for you to cut the ties too.
The following ritual is effective for cutting ties and reclaiming your energy.
Ritual to Release a Past Love
Gather: 3 votive candles (1 blue, 1 green, 1 yellow); 1 smokey quartz or topaz crystal; amber incense; scissors; 3 pieces of twine, 5î to 8î long; 3 small bowls; water; 3 whole bay leaves; sea salt; 1 red apple.
Place the candles in front of you, arranged left to right: blue, green, yellow. Place a small bowl in front of each candle. Fill the center bowl with water. Light the incense wand and then the candles. Place the three bay leaves in bowl one, placing the quartz crystal on top of them. Set the apple in the third bowl. Lay the three pieces of rope, scissors and salt container in front of the middle bowl.
Remove a bay leaf from the first bowl, sprinkle it with salt, and then drop it into the water bowl. Focus on the blue candle, holding the crystal in your left hand while you meditate on the relationship you are ending. This will clear any compulsions to stay connected to the person you are releasing.
Next, repeat the process, focusing on the green candle. Meditate on the emotional aspects of the relationship; how it made you feel, and what was lacking in the heart. This will help you to release any pent up or lingering feelings you still carry for this person. Take the last bay leaf and focus on the yellow candle, meditating to draw your personal power back to you, where it belongs.
Once you finish this process, pick up the three pieces of rope and one at a time, cut them in half into the water bowl. With the first cut, say out loud:
I sever all communication and intellectual ties with ____.
With the second cut say,I sever all emotional ties with ____.
On the third and final cut say,I sever all spiritual ties with ____ and call my personal power back to me.
To complete the ritual, eat the apple. With each bite, think of one reason you are grateful this relationship is completed. Continue until the apple is consumed.
*****
Oceania:
You say other relationships have ended because the connection was not as strong as the one you had with the ex in question. May I point out that the relationship with him also ended? You've heard the saying,
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
Likewise, when you are ready for love, a suitable partner will appear. The search for love is notout there
so much asin here,
and a big part of readiness involves psychological and spiritual health.Perhaps you need to be more discerning of people's characters and not take the blame for their bad behavior. You weren't responsible for his lying, but you may have
played a part
in all that unfolded, so you may need to examine what might discourage people from being honest with you. For example, are you controlling? Do you over-react?If you feel a lack of closure, write him a letter (no need to be polite) and read it out loud to an empty chair, friend or therapist. Pay attention to your emotions and physical feelings as you do so, and then think about what they remind you of from your early life. I suspect you feel an
umbilical cord
linking you to your ex because this is really about your mother or father. The distant past is where you may need closure.A man holds his penis while urinating. Symbolically, this suggests that he was self-centered, embracing himself and not you, and that he dumped his toxic waste into your life. You don't want to look at his faults, so you asked him why he didn't close the door. On the bright side, this scene took place prior to
renovations,
meaning you've grown and changed since that time. It's time to flush the past!You fantasize that he remembers and loves you, which sounds like the yearning of a child whose parent was abusive or neglectful. In your dream, the two of you are hiding from his wife and keeping a secret. Was there an affair in your family? Was your relationship with this ex an affair, or did he have one? The prominent role of his penis in your dreams suggests you at least wondered about that.
Obsessions help point us to the emotional wounds within us that need our loving attention. That you are wanting someone who belongs to someone else suggests that the parent whose love you crave seemed to give that love away. Perhaps you felt jealous of a new sibling or a new love interest in your parent's life.
You don't have to hide to get your needs met, as you do in your dreams, nor deny yourself love in the present. Let this old connection provide you with clues regarding the pain you need to heal so you can attract complete love now.
Astrea:
Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.
Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!
While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!
I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!
As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.
I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.
You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!
Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.
A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.
You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.