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It’s Only Natural, by Elizabeth Owens
(Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)
Many people would like to communicate with spirits, but do not think they have the ability. My response to that is: It's Only Natural.
As children, we are all fresh, open and new to this world. We are so close from the other side that we still carry memories of past lives and the spiritual side of life. Therefore, we are wide open and oh so very receptive to the spirits who reside there. We can talk to our grandparents, communicate with our spirit guides, and receive visits from master teachers. That is, until someone tells us we can't.
Many children experience scenes with their skeptical parents where the parents convince them that they really aren't seeing Grandma, Aunt Myrtle, or the gardener, all of whom are in spirit. With enough pressure applied, the child will soon forget that he or she ever could see, hear, or feel the presence of spirits. It is so unfortunate that some parents are not more open themselves to the idea that their children really do see Grandma. What the parents don't realize is, they, too, can communicate with Grandma.
I do not remember seeing spirits as a child, probably because my rigid parents told me I wasn't seeing what I was claiming to see. As an adult, I was always fascinated with astrology and anything mystical. I was so impressed after receiving my first spiritual reading that my reaction was, "I want to do that too!" So, I began development classes with the medium who had given me the reading. After a short time, some of the sensations I experienced felt familiar. It was then that I realized I had encountered spirits as a child, I just didn't consciously remember the events. As adults, we can go back and reclaim our natural abilities; we can reconnect to that spiritual cord.
My students are frequently surprised when they deliver a message to another member of the class and that person relates to the message. "You mean, I was right?" they ask. Yes—it's only natural. What a pleasant surprise!
I liken communicating with spirits to dancing: everyone can do it—some people just happen to do it a little better than others. Some people choose to dance professionally, others for their personal amusement, and still others just barely move around the floor—but they're still dancing. It is the same with communicating with spirits. We can all dance—we can all communicate with spirits—some are just more proficient than others.
SECRETS OF THE SPIRIT WORLD
The spirit world is eager to communicate. Your loved ones and friends who are now in spirit would like the opportunity to talk to you, and frequently will make attempts. It is common for spirit relatives to drop in to see how things are going in our lives. During special holidays, anniversaries, graduations, and birthdays, the family gathers—in spirit as well as physically. Your spirit family joins in on the festivities, whether you are aware of their presence or not. They want to know what's going on in your life and be a part. They still love you and care, so why wouldn't they want to hang around? It's only natural!
Sometimes we ignore their attempts to communicate, passing it off as coincidences, so spirit relatives will come to us in a dream state. While dreaming, your conscious mind does not interfere with the communication. Often they will speak with you, giving you advice or the answer to a problem you are experiencing. Sometimes they simply want to express their love. Other times they are involved in a scene in your dream, a dream that probably has a message for you.
We can consciously choose to use our dreams to talk to our loved ones. It's called programming. Be sure to place a tablet and pen beside your bed before you retire for the night. Write the question you want answered on the tablet. Choose the most appropriate relative suited to answer your question. Page 43 in my book How To Communicate With Spirits explains how we retain our personalities when we cross over. With that in mind, when I am concerned about business matters, I always call upon my father because he was a businessman, for example. So, select the person you feel would best be able to answer your question. In the stillness, take several deep breaths and visualize your chosen relative. Ask silently that he or she visit you in your dreams. State the question you want answered and thank them for helping you. Also, program yourself to remember the dream by saying silently to yourself, "I will remember the details of this dream with perfect clarity when I awake." Go to sleep, and when you wake up, write down as much of the dream as you can remember, including your feelings. With a little faith, this method will work the first time. If not, keep trying; practice makes perfect.
Some of the inhabitants in the spirit world elect to serve as personal guides to those of us on the earth. We have many guides who oversee our endeavors and creations and assist us through every crisis. They are but a breath away, closer than hands and feet. All we have to do is call out to them in order to receive. We are meant to communicate with our guiding forces in spirit. They are there to protect us, guide us, inspire us.
LOOKING FOR ANSWERS
When we ask our guiding forces for an answer to a question, sometimes we think we should receive the answer in a bold manner. Perhaps we imagine a booming, masculine voice saying, "YES, you should change your job!" But it doesn't happen that way. That would be too simple, and spirit doesn't usually work in the field of simple. Sometimes when we ask a question the answer will be felt immediately. No loud voice, just a feeling. We "feel" with our intuition that this is the correct choice, the wisest path, to take. Other times the answer will come several hours later by various means, several days later, or perhaps several weeks. The point is, we do receive an answer, it just might not be at the particular time we think is appropriate to our impatient needs.
Spirit expects us to be aware of our environment, otherwise, we will not recognize our answers. It has been my experience that spirits sometimes make us work to receive an answer so that we learn to pay attention to our surroundings. If we are wondering if we should change jobs, for instance, and then read in the morning paper that a particular well-known store is opening and needs managers, that could be our message to apply for the job. But if we are not paying attention, we miss the answer intended to help us. Then again, even if we recognize a potential answer, the normal response for us is usually, "Oh, it can't be that. This is a coincidence." We deny the answer that has been put right in front of our face. Spirit is testing us to see if we are paying attention. If we are working on an awareness level, we will understand immediately that the advertisement is our answer. However, if we want to view this as a coincidence, we probably will remain in our old, stale job for many months to come.
Spirit can assist us with inspiration, but sometimes it is tricky. Those who are artists, lyricists, or writers will understand that sometimes the inspiring thoughts we are seeking seem to be avoiding us. Try as we may, the word doesn't come, the musical bar escapes us. Spirit can assist in this hunt for perfection, but we must be wide open as to how we will receive. Peaceful surroundings and meditation are usually the suggestions we are given to facilitate inspiration. After all, this is the most conducive environment in which to receive inspiration. However, don't close the door on other means spirit may choose to impress you.
I GOT THE MESSAGE
One time in particular, I asked for direction during my morning mediation on a writing project, the details of which can be found on page 33 in How To Communicate With Spirits. I did not receive the answer I was seeking during the meditation (no booming voice). Later that day, while driving to Daytona Beach, I was playing rock and roll music on the radio. Despite the racket it produces, I frequently receive inspiration while driving with loud music blaring, and this method did not disappoint on that day. A song came on the radio titled "Got My Mind Set On You," by George Harrison. When George came to the chorus, he sang repeatedly, "Do it, do it, do it!" If that wasn't obvious enough, to make sure I got the message, just as George was singing the chorus, a motorcyclist rode by on my left. On the back of his white tee shirt were the words, "Do It." Mission accomplished, message received. Most of my answers are not received in such an obvious way, and your answers probably won't be either.
Sometimes we get what I call "teasers." We think we just received the answer, but when applied, it doesn't work out. So what gives? Sometimes I believe spirit's purpose is to get our attention, not give us an answer. The real answer comes later—if we pay attention!
THE VALUE OF JOURNALING
Keeping a journal of the messages received during meditation is a very worthwhile practice. In our busy world, we can't be expected to remember every single message. It is also wise to keep a record of what we are asking guidance about. If we are experiencing a repetitive situation in our lives, it means we aren't paying attention to the message being given. It would be wise to refer to the journal to see if this recurring situation is a message relating to one of our questions. We have to remember that spirit will try some very unique ways to impress us with the answer.
Journaling is also very therapeutic. Over a period of time when we journal about a dilemma in our lives, we can come to a resolution through the journaling process. As we write our thoughts, spirit has the opportunity to impress us with answers. And even if we do not feel we have received an answer, we should feel better for having done the exercise. It's cleansing to put pen to paper, expressing our emotions and concerns.
There was a time when I was single and lonely due to a break up in a relationship. I received the inspiration to journal my feelings everyday. I poured my heartbreak out onto the pages of my journal, knowing that I didn't understand why this was happening to me, but trusting that it was for my highest and best good. I always ended the passages with the phrase, "Thank you, God, I'm learning." Showing gratitude for whatever circumstance we find ourselves in assists in our spiritual growth. When the time is right, spirit will make it clear to us why we had to go through a trauma or heartbreak. But in the meantime, be thankful for the opportunity to grow.
DEALING WITH OTHERS
People react in one of two ways when I tell them I am a medium or psychic. Either they are overjoyed and think it's a wonderful thing, or they become rigid and make a speedy exit. People who don't have an understanding about spirits frequently are afraid. I wouldn't recommend sharing information about your communications with spirits with people in general, but especially avoid doing so with those who may be skeptical or ignorant of the facts. Some people may think you're nutty, have an active imagination, or an inflated ego. Our spiritual activities are best kept in the silence.
I remember, as a child when something exciting was expected to occur, such as going to the circus, if I talked about it, somehow things didn't seem to work out the way I had anticipated. When this would happen, I always felt I had jinxed the event by talking about it. From these childhood experiences I learned to shut my mouth. What's between you and spirit is private. Don't talk about your experiences with people. You don't want other people's energy interfering with you or their personal skepticism destroying your belief in the development of your abilities.
There's a whole world of spirits out there waiting for you to reach out to them. They are there to assist, guide, protect and love you. It's only natural!
Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2011. All rights reserved.
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I'm a 37-year-old woman who is very unhappily married. For months now, I've had recurring dreams about babies. The baby is mine and varies in age, but it is always a boy. (In real life, I've had my children already: three boys and one girl.) Do you think this dream signifies a new life for me? I'm a strong spiritual person, but over the past five years, I've lost my way. I want out of my marriage and am finding comfort with a Capricorn man, but so far we just talk on the phone. My soul is so restless that I feel like it's pacing up and down, waiting for me to do something but I don't know what! I do struggle with depression; it's linked to the unhappiness of my marriage. Nevertheless, my insecurities are keeping me here. I sense that I could have a good life with this Capricorn man (he's like my father), but I'm afraid because he's making me wait a few more weeks until he's ready. I have tried to deny my hunger for a new life but I'm dying inside. My Capricorn man tells me to follow my heart. What do you think these dreams are trying to tell me?
Sharon
Susyn:
Dreams of babies often indicate a new beginning or the start of a new cycle. It sounds like you are ready to make some important changes in your life, and have some idea of what would truly make you happy.
As a spiritual person, you know that all change begins within. If you have been unable to make the psychic and emotional changes that are necessary before you can take action, a few simple steps should help you start manifesting the life you want to create.
It's important that you are clear in your mind before moving ahead. First, the changes you want to make cannot be dependent on another person. Though these changes may affect other people, your strong desire to change partners has not resulted in any kind of progress. This is because you are not moving with spiritual truth but rather targeting your husband as the cause of your unhappiness and this Capricorn man as your possible salvation. When you let go of these ideas and focus within, you will empower yourself to create change.
While babies can signify a new beginning in dreams, you should also keep in mind that a baby needs guidance, nurturing and support. To create the changes you long for, you will have to build a stronger connection to Spirit so you can rely on the Universe to dictate the time, manner and nature of these changes.
To start the process of building your new life, I strongly recommend you begin to journal and meditate on a regular basis. Keep a daily journal so you can write your thoughts and dreams down. The process of writing allows you to get your surface thoughts out of your head and down on paper so that deeper insights can make their way into your conscious awareness. Write about how you might go about making the changes you desire, and carry these thoughts through to what might happen after those changes are in place.
Many believe that leaving one partner for another will bring the happiness they long for, but unless youíve done the inner work to prepare for it and can trust the Capricorn who has caught your attention, you will end up in the same circumstances before long. Because the Capricorn is now hesitating, you must be clear that you are making changes for yourself in case he does not become a part of your future.
It may help to create a mission statement about how you want your life to be and then meditate on it twice a day. Sit quietly and repeat your dream over and over, asking for spiritual direction. If it is truly time for you to move forward, Spirit will offer you guidance and begin to open doors for you with little to no effort on your part.
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Mata:
Dreaming of babies does indeed often signify a new cycle of life or new qualities emerging from within. If you dream of a baby of the opposite sex, you may be dreaming about qualities you are not consciously aware of yet; if you dream of a baby of the same sex, these are things you are consciously working on or at least aware of.
Since you didn't tell us much about these dreams aside from the fact that they are about babies, I can only offer you some possible interpretations and let you take it from there.
Instead of new personal qualities, it's possible that the baby in these dreams represents the new lover you mentioned. This would especially be true if he was your child in a past life. In this scenario, your subconscious mind is telling you that you already know this man from another time and place. The baby in these dreams could also represent the new relationship you're developing with him.
When trying to interpret dreams, many people focus first and foremost on trying to decipher what various symbols may represent. In my experience, it is far more helpful to determine the overall feeling of the dream before you try to determine what it may be about, for how you feel about what is happening in the dream is the key to determining its general message.
With this in mind, I recommend you focus first and foremost on how these dreams make you feel. As part of this process, it's helpful to come up with a theme for each dream. One way to do this is to give each dream a title much as you might for a book or movie.
This is usually enough to make the meaning or message of a dream jump right out at you. If you're still not clear, however, you can write down all the details you can remember from the dream using key words, and then as you ponder each of these words, just free associate whatever comes to mind and write those words and phrases down too.
Next, link these two together by asking yourself how you feel about the various people and elements you've written down. If you're excited and in love with this baby, that is obviously a good sign about the direction you're moving in your life. If, however, you feel overwhelmed with having the responsibility of yet another (male) person who is relying on you to meet all his needs, that could mean something entirely different.
If none of these suggestions yield the clarity you're longing for, you can always take a more active role in your dream life by asking for a dream about this dream or a dream that relays the same message this one is trying to deliver but via different symbols and metaphors.
Astrea:
Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.
Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!
While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!
I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!
As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.
I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.
You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!
Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.
A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.
You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.