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  • Weekly Astrological Forecast for February 12 through February 18, 2024

    Double Vision: Recurring Dreams of Something Left Behind

    February 12 through February 18, 2024

    As if having the Sun and Mercury dancing around in Aquarius isn't enough voltage, both Mars and Venus will move in to this electrical sign as well this week! Over all we'll experience a very productive week as the Moon moves through productive Aries on Monday and Tuesday and then grounded Taurus Wednesday through Friday. Mars will enter Aquarius on Tuesday, and as the planet of action and assertiveness, move us forward in magical ways for the next two months! Venus will enter Aquarius on Friday, inspiring our individual and unique selves to express themselves more openly through art, social media and creative endeavors. The week ends on a high note when the Sun exits Aquarius and heads to the spiritual waters of Pisces on Sunday, pushing us toward more spiritual and soulful activities for the next four weeks. As the last sign of the zodiac, it also brings us full circle, inspiring us to integrate all we have learned in the last twelve months.

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  • Q&A with Scott Stabile Author of Enough as You Are

    Q&A with Scott Stabile Author of Enough as You Are

    In a world dominated by the relentless pursuit of self-improvement, author Scott Stabile’s new book Enough as You Are (New World Library, October 17, 2023) offers a refreshing perspective on self-acceptance by empowering readers to find contentment in their inherent worth. We hope you’ll enjoy this Q&A with Scott about the book.


    Tell us about your book Enough as You Are and what inspired you to write it?

    It’s so important to remember our inherent worth as human beings, that we are indeed enough, just as we are. I convey this truth in all the work I do and wanted to write a book rooted in our enoughness; a call for deeper self-acceptance and self-love, a reminder that even with all our fears, insecurities and anxieties, we are still worthy human beings. This book is a collection of short prose and poetry, the type of book you can read straight through or treat like an oracle deck of sorts, turning to a page each day and meditating on the theme of that page’s message.

    What is a “Love Activist” and why is it a title you happily own?

    I see a love activist as someone who makes a lot of noise for the power of love, who is intentional about reminding the world that love is our greatest healer, and with it informing our thoughts, words and actions, there are no limits to what we can co-create here. I don’t see myself as an expert in anything, but I’ve gotten really good at loving myself and others, and really good at encouraging others to do so too.

    You say that our relationship with ourselves informs how we show up in the world more than anything else. How so?

    When I’m in good relationship with myself, I tend to be in good relationship with the world around me. When I’m feeling like crap about myself, it colors how I feel about the world too. It all starts from within. But love—even self-love—always transcends self, which is why it’s so important to focus on our relationship with ourselves, and to foster as much self-compassion and self-love as we can, knowing that doing so will benefit all, first and foremost ourselves. Self-love is the most beautiful selfishness that exists in our world.

    You mention forgiveness several times throughout the book. Why is forgiveness important, and do you believe it’s necessary for everyone to forgive?

    I don’t believe it’s necessary for everyone to do anything, but I have seen time and again how liberating it feels to forgive. I see forgiveness as a natural extension of love, and as a pathway for peace as I relate to past hurts. I don’t believe the darkness that lives in even the most hurtful actions of others is greater than the love that lives within my being, and so I always see forgiveness as a possibility. But that’s my path. Yes, I believe anyone who finds their way to forgiveness will be served by doing so, but it is up to them to decide if that’s the path they want to take.

    Why is Enough as You Are especially important at this moment in time?

    The essence of Enough as You Are will always be important, because we need to come into a more loving relationship with ourselves, and to realize we are worthy, so that we can start treating each other with more compassion and love, and actually stand a chance to transform our world for the better by doing do. It really does all start from within.

    You say that it’s necessary to numb ourselves sometimes. How does that align with your call for us to feel our feelings in an honest way?

    I don’t believe healing happens in our denial; it happens when we’re willing to be honest with how we’re feeling and accepting enough to love ourselves through the process. At the same time, this reality can be incredibly difficult, and it can be overwhelming to be feeling everything all the time. It’s human nature to want to check out sometimes, to numb. I’m interested in bringing grace and acceptance to whatever I’m choosing, knowing that all my choices are representative of the human experience. I know, though, that if all I’m doing is numbing, I’m bringing myself no closer to creating ease around whatever it is I’m numbing from.

    What do you most hope readers will take away from your book?

    My hope is that readers will feel seen and understand, at least in some ways, when they read Enough as You Are. I want them to recognize how similar we all are as human beings, all of us wanting to love and be loved. In this recognition, my hope is that readers will be a bit more empathetic and compassionate with others, and with themselves. I want them to understand that their worth is inherent, predicated on nothing other than their birthright as a worthy human being. I want them to feel the promise of the title, that they are without question, enough as they are.


    Scott Stabile is the author of Enough as You Are and Big Love: The Power of Living with a Wide-Open Heart. He is a passionate love advocate who believes there is no force more powerful than love to create real connection and healing in our world. Scott guides transformational breathwork journeys and leads personal empowerment workshops internationally. His inspirational posts have attracted a huge and devoted social media following, including more than 350,000 Facebook fans. For more info visit him online at ScottStabile.com and/or check out his newsletter at http://www.scottstabile.substack.com.

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  • Double Vision: Seventh son of a seventh son?

    My father is the seventh son of a seventh son. Does this mean anything? I have often wondered about this. I've also often wondered about the idea of the "sins of our fathers" being passed down to us. How much does our family lineage affect us in each lifetime? Is our karma individual and carried from our own past lives, or are we also affected by the past actions of our family members?

    Dreamchaser:

    After extensive research, I was only able to find one reference to the whole "seventh son of a seventh son" thing. I learned that there is some folklore belief that the seventh son of a seventh son had mystical or unusual powers. I could not, however, discover where this idea came from originally.

    Other than that, all I could come up with was the Iron Maiden song. I wonder if pop culture has implanted an idea in our heads that would not have been there otherwise. How many of us would ever say the expression "whistle while you work" if we had never seen Snow White? So at this point, it looks like there is no special meaning to your father being the seventh son of a seventh son.

    As far as how much the "sins of our fathers" affect us, first we have to define sin:

    1. A transgression of a religious or moral law, especially when deliberate.
    2. Something regarded as being shameful, deplorable, or utterly wrong.

    I believe that a "sin" is a personal act. No one else is responsible for another's sins. I do not believe that sin can be passed from generation to generation.

    However, what some see as sin coming down through the family line can be classified as a DNA legacy. We pass down our "human stuff" in the form of DNA. We do, after all, get our DNA from our parents. However, we are not then slaves to that DNA. We can choose to alter ourselves and our behaviors. We all know the family from the "other side of the tracks" that had one child go on and become something great. That child chose to alter their DNA, so to speak.

    We all do have traits that are inherent. For example, when I am listening to someone, I put my hand on my chin and tuck my head down. My birth mother does the exact same thing.

    I know there is a portion in the Christian Bible that states what I do will affect generations to come. I do not believe that. My actions in this life do not affect my children's children in any way except what I teach MY children. If I teach them to be loving, giving, caring and forgiving people, they will teach their children the same.

    Karma is an individual thing. Karma defined is: the effects of a person's actions that determine his destiny in his next incarnation. We carry karma from lifetime to lifetime, and are NOT affected in any way by someone else's Karma. So whatever your family member did in a prior life has no karmic bearing on you.

    I wish you a lifetime spent building great Karma.

    *****

    Astrea:

    The old superstitions about "the seventh son of a seventh son" come from seven being considered "God's number" in many Christian sects. Six is the number of Man in those Fundamentalist groups. Seven has always been considered a LUCKY number, and that is the reason people think the seventh of the seventh is supposed to be extra blessed or special.

    The seventh son of a seventh son is supposed to be blessed with great luck and a strong connection to God. That person will live a "perfect" life, or as close to that as possible for a human being. Also, that person is supposed to be a wonderfully gifted psychic. Does your dad use his "power?" If he does, he could probably teach you a thing or two. I would tap into whatever he has to offer if I were you!

    If you and your dad were brought up in an atmosphere of psychic acceptance, he'll know what he can do and what he can pass along to you. You ARE the daughter, and fathers DO pass psychic ability to daughters more than to sons. In my own family, it goes from father to daughter to son to daughter. I believe my family arranged that about a hundred years ago, so that neither sex would be left out of whatever "magic" we possessed in our family.

    Your dad being the seventh son of a seventh son would also mean that your poor Granny is VERY TIRED with all those kids!

    In my work, I see people struggle with other people's Karma all the time, but they always have CHOSEN to be part of that person's life. To take on someone else's Karma is something you agree to before you're born into each incarnation, and very few of us actually do that. Family Karma doesn't affect us once we're grown and out of the house.

    It's easy to blame Karma for our problems, which actually are consequences of the choices we make in life. Although blaming others for our problems seems to be the order of the day, I've never heard it put just the way you put it! How freeing and relaxing to think that we could be victimized by our family's Karma and not have to pay for or learn from our own.

    Unfortunately, we don't get to do that! Once we reach adulthood, our Karma is on us; our own individual actions in past lives come back to us in THIS one, just like they know the way. This doesn't mean you have to be victimized by your own Karma, either. The whole point in living many lifetimes is to LEARN. The choices you make in this life will become the Karma you carry to your NEXT life, so live right!

    Astrea:

    Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.

    Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!

    While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!

    I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!

    As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.

    I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.

    You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!

    Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.

    A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.

    You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.

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