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    • The Joy of Dowsing

      by Richard Webster

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Dowsing is the art of finding something that is hidden, usually something concealed underground. Dowsing is most commonly used for water divining, but there appear to be virtually no limits to the number of applications it can be used for. Over the years I have dowsed for water, minerals, arrow shards, oil, lost objects, and even a parking space in the central city.

      I learned how to dowse when I was ten or eleven-years-old. Every year, our family rented a holiday home at a beach resort. We were having lunch one day when a crowd of people gathered on our front lawn. We went outside to see what was going on. A man, holding a forked stick, had wandered onto our property, followed by a group of people who had no idea what he was doing. Our next-door-neighbor asked the man what he wanted. "Water," he replied. She fetched him a glass of water. This broke the man's spell. He was embarrassed, and quickly left without answering any questions. My father missed the excitement as he was out fishing. We spent all afternoon on the beach waiting for him to return home so we could tell him about the strange experience. Much to our surprise, he knew who the man was. He invited him back the next day and over the following few days the man taught almost everyone at the beach resort how to dowse.

      I, and my friends, found it easy to dowse, but our parents found it much harder to get started. Of course, they had no problems either, once they had experienced the dowsing response. I have noticed over the years that children are usually better than adults at picking up skills such as dowsing, as they have yet to gain the skeptical attitudes of adulthood.

      Some people are able to dowse with their hands, but most people find it easier to learn the art using angle rods, a forked stick or a pendulum. Angle rods are probably the most useful tool to start with, as the movements they create are easy to see and interpret. My first angle rods were made from two wire coat hangers, but any wire will do. You need two pieces of wire, eighteen to twenty-four inches long. Bend the wire into an L-shape. One side needs to be about six inches long, leaving twelve to eighteen inches for the longer side. The longer the long side is, the more noticeable the dowsing response will be. However, you will become tired more easily with longer rods.

      Hold the angle rods loosely in your fists with the longer section of the wire pointing straight ahead. Your arms should be relaxed, and your hands should be approximately your body width apart. The two rods should be parallel to each other. It is a good idea to practice walking with the rods, so that you get used to the feel of them, before starting to dowse. Keep your eyes focussed on the tips of the rods as you walk. The rods are likely to move slightly from side to side as you do this. The dowsing response, which starts shortly before you are directly over the item you are dowsing for, is a marked and distinct movement of the rods. Your rods will cross over each other, sometimes ending up parallel to each other in front of your body.

      Once you have become used to walking with the angle rods, it is time to start dowsing. A good first test is to go outdoors and use the angle rods to find the water pipe leading into your home. Think about locating the water pipe, but remain as relaxed as possible. Any tension will prevent the angle rods from moving. A few deep breaths before starting helps eliminate any tension. Start walking slowly across the front of your property. Feel confident that the angle rods will work for you, and will ultimately cross over each other, when you are directly over the pipe. If you feel skeptical about the whole process, try to suspend disbelief. The best results occur when you are quietly confident of success, and maintain a feeling of positive expectancy while you are dowsing.

      If the rods produce the dowsing response by crossing over each other, make a mental note of the spot where this occurred. Keep on walking across the property, and then turn around and walk back again, this time about a yard away from where you walked before. The rods should produce the same response again when you are over the water pipe.

      Many people are successful the first time they attempt this exercise. Others need to practice to achieve success. The most common problem I have found is that many people grip the wire too tightly, and this naturally prevents it from moving. If this appears to be the case, place the short sides of your angle rods inside short pieces of plastic tubing. The plastic casings from ball point pens work well for this. You can grip these as tightly as you wish, without affecting the free movement of the angle rods. Most dowsers find it hard to locate still water. Moving water is easier to detect. Consequently, if you find it hard to locate the water pipe, turn on a faucet for a couple of minutes to get the water moving.

      Your first dowsing session should be no longer than thirty minutes. Several brief sessions will produce much better results than one long session. Dowsing requires concentration, and it can be draining, both mentally and physically. Once this occurs, your results will become erratic, and you will start making mistakes. Even professional dowsers pause every now and again to avoid this.

      Children make excellent dowsers, but adults often make it more difficult than it should be. The best advice is to relax, and allow the dowsing response to occur. There is no need to fight, or help, the dowsing response. Relax, focus on your goal, remain slightly detached, and allow it to happen. Dowsing is a skill well worth mastering, and you will find many uses for it.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2003. All rights reserved.

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    • How to Pray Correctly?

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      I have been feeling like I must be praying all wrong. I have been praying so hard for the past six years for me and my ex-husband to reunite, but to no avail. Now all I pray for is to not be alone anymore, and for God, the universe, spirit or my guardian angel to please send me a soul mate. I am so tired of being alone and just want somebody to love again. I loved being a wife and mother, and I believe that we as humans were put on this earth to share our lives with a soul mate and not to be alone. Can you please offer me some guidance on how to pray correctly so maybe my prayers can finally be answered? I feel so discouraged lately because I just don’t understand how I could pray so much for so many years and for nothing to change for the better for me. Your help would be much appreciated. Thank you!

       – Mona

      Dreamchaser:

      Mona, you have no idea how common your situation is. I am sure you will help many by asking this question.

      Every single human being on earth has free will to do with as we please. You can pray until the end of the world for your ex to come back. If he, however, does not choose to come back, God can not and will not (as a provision of free will) do anything to interfere. It is not God’s fault that your ex is not back. The blame lies solely on your ex’s shoulders.  Period.

      It’s easy to forget this in personal relationships. Human beings have free will and often use it unwisely. Because people make bad choices all the time there is what I call the “Make-a-Mistake-Rule.” If Party A makes a bad choice and leaves what could be a fabulous relationship with Party B, then Party B should not suffer until the end of time for Party A’s stupidity. Therefore, Party B will be given someone even better than Party A with whom to attempt to make a relationship.

      Right about now you are saying, “So where is mine?” First, if we wallow and pine for someone, like you did your ex, we obviously are not open to anyone new. If Mr./Ms. Right crossed our path, not only would we not want to go to dinner with him/her, but we probably would not notice him in the first place. Love can only come to us when are really ready and open for it. Sometimes we say we are ready and open for it, but we really are not.

      I want to say that I absolutely believe you will have the life and love that you want. Before you can move into that giving and loving relationship, however, you have to make peace with yourself and your current situation. You have to find balance, peace, contentment and joy in living everyday life. You keep looking for a relationship to make you happy and since you are not in one, you are unhappy and feel like a failure. Instead of finding the blessings and joy in being single, you see it as a curse. You have to get happy with yourself before you can you enjoy a full relationship.

      You are not praying incorrectly, Mona. You are simply praying for the wrong things. Pray for joy and contentment in everyday living. Pray for love to come into your everyday life on every level. Stop and watch a bird fly by, smell a flower, watch the children playing in the park, etc. Take time to enjoy your life as it is now and you will come to find love. That fact I promise you.

      I wish you real, true love.

      *****

      Astrea:

      God is busy with war, hunger and hatred on a global level. Angels are guides only, and cannot force us to do anything. We do not live passive lives; we make active choices, decisions and mistakes every day, with or without God’s influence.

      I don’t believe there is a right or wrong way to pray. I was always taught by my family and other spiritual advisors to pray in my own way. I also do not believe it’s possible to pray a partner into your life. We are on our own in terms of making that happen.

      Do you begin your prayers with thanking God for all the blessings that you have in your life? Would your ex-husband be the best person to be with you? Perhaps God and your angels were protecting you from further unhappiness by not allowing that to occur. Perhaps in some ways, you blocked that from happening yourself. By abdicating the power of the God in you, you became too passive to affect any real change in your situation. God will allow you to find someone as soon as you take responsibility for looking for that someone, and quit waiting for him to drop from the sky straight into your lap.

      After six years, you gave up on the lost cause of praying your husband back into your life. You changed your approach and now you pray, “Just not to be alone.” You pray for a soul mate to be “sent” into your life.

      I don’t believe that God furnishes romance for us. I believe that we are responsible for our own happiness, and that God helps. I don’t see much evidence of us having a set partner or soul mate for every person. I believe a person can be complete and enlightened alone, and may not need the mirror of another person to see herself with love.

      God puts us here with free will to choose what we want in our lives. God and your angels don’t have much control over the actions you take with that free will. If you choose not to be alone, then you must also choose to do what is required of you to find that special person to share your life. You have choices, and those choices have consequences. Now it’s time to choose to take conscious and active actions to facilitate your own happiness with God’s help, of course. You are responsible for coming up with a solution to your loneliness, not God.

      There is an old saying: “God answers all prayers, and sometimes the answer is ‘no.’ ” Be sure that what you desire is an enlightened spirit, and answers will begin to flow to you.

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