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    • Spirit and Dream Animals

      Spirit and Dream Animals, by Richard Webster

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Many years ago, while doing some research in Hong Kong, I accidentally overheard two women talking about dream animals. I went into a café and sat down at a table next to an attractive Asian lady and her American friend. I wasn't paying any attention to their conversation, until I suddenly heard the Asian lady explaining the concept of animal dreaming to her friend. According to her, if a woman dreamt of an animal about the time she became pregnant, her baby would possess the qualities of the animal she had dreamt about. I was fascinated, and after apologizing for overhearing the conversation, asked if I could join in.

      The two ladies were very kind and gracious, and allowed me to join them. I learned that, in Asia, dreams are believed to be created by a lack of energy. However, dreaming of an animal does the opposite. These dreams create energy, in addition to providing valuable clues about the personality of the unborn child. I also learned that not all pregnant women dream of animals. These dreams occur only if the unborn child has significant potential.

      The Asian woman leaned towards me. "Did you know that Buddha's mother dreamed of a gorgeous white elephant with six tusks that ran around her bed three times?" she asked. "That's a classic example of a prophetic animal dream."

      I chatted with the two ladies for about an hour. Just before leaving them, I learned that it was important that the mother-to-be told no one about her animal dreams. "My mother had several dreams involving me before I was born," the Asian lady told me. "She told me they were good, but that's all she's told me about them."

      When I returned to my hotel, I wrote down everything I could remember about the conversation. As I'm interested in both dreams and animal symbolism, I tried to learn more about the dreams pregnant women have about animals. Unfortunately, the people I spoke to weren't able to tell me anything that the two women hadn't already covered.

      About ten years later, while in Singapore, I was fortunate enough to meet a lady who made her living interpreting t'aimeng, which are predictive dreams about unborn children. Once I got to know her, she was happy to answer my questions, and encouraged me to write Spirit & Dream Animals.

      A month or two after that, I had a predictive dream. In the dream I was driving into the city on the freeway. The car in front of me had a personalized plate that read "animal." One week later, I was driving along the same stretch of road that had been in my dream, and saw a car with the personalized plate "anamal." The spelling was slightly different, but it was obviously an omen. Over the years, I've learned to act on these, and a week or two later I began working on the book.

      Although I first heard about predictive dreams involving animals while traveling in the Far East, they can be found all around the world. Here's an example. Olympias, the mother of Alexander the Great, dreamt that she was sleeping with Ammon, the horned god. In the dream, Ammon told her that she had conceived a male child who would be her avenger.

      Men can also experience predictive dreams about their unborn children. In the Bible, Joseph experienced a predictive dream after discovering that Mary, his wife, was pregnant. An angel appeared to him in the dream and told him the unborn child, Jesus, was the Son of God (Matthew 1:20-21).

      Animals are often overlooked in our dreams. However, they fulfill an important purpose. Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, noticed that people frequently dream of helpful animals, or animal-headed people, when they are ill. In some way, these animals symbolize the healing process. One of the central beliefs of shamanism is the intrinsic connection between animals and humans. Shamans perform their tasks by using their power animals, or guardian spirits, to connect with the animal world. This connection frequently occurs in dreams.

      Animals sometimes appear in dreams as human beings. The Jívaro people of South America find that a guardian spirit usually appears first as an animal, before appearing as a human being in a dream. The Jívaro believe that if an animal speaks to you, it is undoubtedly your power animal. It's not surprising that animals can appear in human form in our dreams, as we are both living on this planet together, and are related in many different ways.

      Australian Aborigines frequently refer to "Dreamtime," when the world was fresh and new, and ancestor spirits created form and shape to the land. Some of these mythic beings were people, while others were totem animals. The ancestor spirits had the ability to change from person to animal to help them decide what they wanted to be. According to Aborigine belief, animals still remember making their choice. The great fertility mothers and male genitors created the first people; these mythic figures are eternal, and even though some are killed, disappear, or change shape in the Aboriginal mythic stories, their integral qualities remain. They are spiritually just as alive today as they ever were, and the places where they metamorphosed became, and remain, sacred grounds. In the Dreamtime, man is just one part of nature, and is not considered especially different to the mythic people and animals that live there. The land still retains its memories of the Dreamtime, as do the Aboriginal people. Everyone is given an animal spirit at birth, and this provides the person with guidance, wisdom, and protection.

      Dreaming of animals can be highly beneficial. They provide comfort, advice, and protection; they even provide advance warning of upcoming danger, when necessary. Their task is to help you progress through life. Because of this, you should pay attention to your animal dreams.

      You should also be aware of your guardian animals while you are awake. If you are not aware of your guardian animals, ask them to make themselves known to you in your dreams. Once you have discovered who they are, communicate with them regularly, and call on them whenever you need advice, help, or comfort.

      By paying attention to your guardian animals, and the animals that appear in your dreams, you'll gain confidence and a sense of direction and purpose. Every aspect of your life will improve as a result.

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2017. All rights reserved.

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    • DOUBLE VISION: IS HER HUSBAND TRYING TO HARM HER?

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      My intuition tells me that my husband, (Libra 10/2/66) is purposefully hurting me psychologically and emotionally behind my back. I feel he is doing this through our friends, and also that he has cheated on me with these friends. My heart tells me this, but I can’t prove anything. How can I find out? What should I do about these intuitions? Help!

       – Sherry

      Dreamchaser:

      Sherry, I tell spouses all the time that there is great truth in the old adage, “Where there is smoke, there is fire.” For the most part, if you feel there is something going on, there usually is.

      What you can do to find out if he is cheating is hire a private detective. Maybe you could call some attorneys in town to find out if they recommend anyone. Lots of people say they are detectives, but just wind up taking your money and giving you no evidence. You need to find someone who is reputable and who can get the job done as quickly as possible. Since you have some information already, it may make the detective’s job a little bit easier.

      I also strongly recommend counseling for you and for your husband. I doubt he will go, but I think you absolutely need it to sort out what is what in your life now. There are two scenarios here, both of which require counseling: The first is you are paranoid and imagining all of this. The second is that it is true, and you are being hurt by his actions.

      Either way, your marriage is in trouble, and you are in trouble as well. You need help and you need it as quickly as possible. You feel like a drowning woman, going down for the third time. You appear on the outside as the same person you have always been; inside, however, you are a wreck. Get help from a reputable therapist, and do it quickly. Marriage counseling would also be a good idea because if you work it out, the counselor may suggest a separation.

      I have to ask you why, when you are this unhappy, this paranoid, and this alone, you continue to stay in this marriage? How long has it been since the marriage was good, Sherry? How long has it been since you two have actually worked on problems together? How long has it been since he has listened to you, and then attempted to make things better in light of those communications? How long has it been since he actually communicated with you about his needs, wishes and concerns?

      You do not have to choose to stay in something that makes you so miserable, Sherry. You do have choices. I know that you feel that he has taken your choices away from you by isolating you from the rest of the world, but that is just how it appears. You do have power, and you can break free. Please get some counseling. Do not use excuses like “we cannot afford it” or “he will never stand for that.” You can afford it. Call the Department of Human Services and ask them what options are available to you. You must find a way to climb over every excuse you can think of.

      I wish you serenity.

      ****

      Astrea:

      Sherry, whether your husband is trying to hurt you or not, you’re very unhappy in your marriage. You don’t say anything in your letter about loving him, so that leads me to believe that part of the marriage is over for you. People grow apart with time; it happens. It’s time for you to examine what you want from life and love, and if you’re not getting it from the relationship you’re in now, then it’s time to seek counseling and legal help.

      What you feel is your unhappiness in this relationship. From his birthday, it is unlikely that he would be cheating or trying to do any kind of psychological damage to you with your Libras are usually loyal to a fault, and from what I can see of your husband’s chart, while he is neglectful and doesn’t give you the attention you need, he doesn’t appear to be doing anything wrong.

      Often when we are unhappy with our partners, we look for some way to blame other parties. The feelings you’re having are real problems for you, and you need to find out what is causing them instead of focusing on what anyone else is doing. Paranoia is often a sign of a chemical imbalance, and that is often easily managed with medication. First go to a medical professional who can do some simple tests to see if something physical is going on.

      If after seeing the doctor you find that you’re still this unhappy with the situation at home, it’s time to get some legal help. Sometimes money is hard to come by when you’re trying to get out of a marriage, and I have no doubt your Libra feels he must always control the finances. If you don’t have money for an attorney, find someone from legal aid in your area.

      If your husband is actually doing any of the things you suspect him of, you might find a private detective to investigate what is going on, and to get the proof you need of your husband’s infidelity. It might help you to know for sure whether he is doing bad things behind your back.

      I don’t feel, however, that even if you know he’s not doing anything wrong, you will want to be with him anymore. You two have grown in such different directions over the past five years. I believe you’ll discover it’s time for you to move on, regardless of whether he is guilty of the things you feel or not.

      No one can decide what is best for you. Try to base your decisions on what you feel about yourself, what you need, and what you want in life. Blaming your husband for imaginary offenses won’t get you anywhere. You have to take responsibility for your own life and your own happiness.

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