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December 29, 2025, through January 4, 2026

It seems work will be calling our names the last Monday and Tuesday of the year under the Taurus Moon, but getting things completed now will give us a clear run into the new year ahead. The last day of this year and the first day of next year will shine under a Gemini Moon, and Mercury will join the party of planets in Capricorn on the first day of the year. With so much goat energy kicking the year off, we’re sure to experience a shift in stability, success, and consciousness for the entirety of 2026! We’ll have a Cancer full Moon on Saturday, which will add to the security-conscious plans we are making, and call for a two-week cycle of releasing anything that is holding us back or creating blocks to forward movement. Sunday’s Leo Moon insists we spend the day keeping the focus on ourselves for a change, renewing, regrouping, and reviving our dreams for the future!

The Moon and the Elements, by Bernadette Evans

(Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

Have you ever wondered why you feel a certain way on some days? All of a sudden you throw all your plans out the window and do something completely different from what you'd arranged! Suddenly you're going on an unexpected road trip. Or a friend you haven't spoken to in a while pops into your mind and you pick up the phone to see how they're doing. Maybe you woke up and feel like cooking or tidying up your home, or you jump out of bed, inspired and ready to put some plans into action! Your subconscious is tapping into the energy of the Moon.

There are four elements in astrology: fire, earth, air, and water. Every planet in the chart is in a particular sign, which is ruled by an element. The Moon represents our emotions as well as what nurtures us and makes us feel safe and secure. The Moon moves quickly through the sky and the zodiac, completing its journey approximately every 28–29 days. Then she begins her voyage all over again. The astrological signs are paired with one of the four elements. The Moon acts differently in each element and each one has a distinctive feel and wants to express itself in its own way. By paying attention to what sign the Moon is in on a particular day, you can tap into the sign and its element and work with it in a conscious manner.

The Moon in a Fire Sign
When the Moon travels through a fire sign, you can expect to feel more energized. Fire is hot, energetic, impulsive, passionate, and determined. You can be excited, ready to take a leap and just go for it. You may also feel more generous and want to share your joy and bounty with others. When the Moon is in a fire sign, you're more apt to take a chance on something. You feel brave and courageous and a part of you wants to be seen, to be noticed. It can also be dramatic and burn you if you're not careful. Let’s look at the signs that are ruled by fire.

When the Moon flies through the sign of Aries, you could use this energy to start a new venture! You feel inspired and enthusiastic about your ideas and are eager to get started. Your passion for a project or even the spark of an idea can help you begin, but if you don't keep adding fuel to the fire, you could run out of steam. When the Moon is in Aries, you could be quick at initiating things but have a hard time finishing what you began. Try and persevere if you're able, or delegate the rest of the job to someone who can run with it. Exercise is a great way to move fiery energy through your body. Any exercise that makes you feel alive and excited would feel fantastic.

When the Moon is in the sign of Leo, you could feel more playful. You may feel like you're in a buddy movie and all you need is a supporting player, aka an admirer, to accompany you on the ride for some fun and adventure. You're living in the moment and want to be noticed and celebrated. There's a need to express yourself and say, "Here I am, world!" Getting the attention of others feels like a balm. You want to express yourself by creating something, whether it's poetry, pottery, or telling a good joke. You need to say, "Look at me; see what I can do." When the Moon is in Leo, you can feel more generous and supportive, wanting to give your friends a helping hand.

When the Moon rides through the sign of Sagittarius, you feel like you're fired up and want to travel and explore. It could be the exploration of a new subject. You want to immerse yourself in learning something spiritual or mystical, or anything with a psychological framework. If you do decide to delve into a subject, it will be something that fascinates and inspires you. Maybe you feel the open road is calling your name. When the Moon is in Sagittarius, you could feel pulled in a few directions, as there are so many things to do, learn, and soak up. You feel like you're on a quest to discover something big! Optimism and enthusiasm stoke your fire while you endlessly move and search for more.

The Moon in an Earth Sign
You can feel the shift when the Moon meanders through an earth sign. There's a desire to build something substantial. It's a good day to get things done. It's really all about planning, making lists, organizing, doing chores, and working on projects. The adage "slow and steady wins the race" is fitting when speaking about earth energy. You want to get your hands dirty, to build something. It’s about perseverance and doggedness, wanting a tangible result after all the effort. It’s a great time to deal with the practicalities of life. Organizing parties, closets, and checkbooks can be easier when the Moon is in an earth sign. Getting in touch with your body, being stable and grounded helps you be present. You may take on a lot of responsibility when the Moon is in an earth sign. Remember to balance work with play and have some fun.

When the Moon is in the sign of Taurus, it has a sensual feeling. Touching and being touched is a nice use of this energy and feels fabulous. Going for a massage or any bodywork would be beneficial. Spend some time in nature by strolling through a forest or a park, or go out into your garden and feel the dirt between your fingers. There's a desire to build something, to leave a legacy, to have something to show for your hard work. Taurus is ruled by Venus, so if you make money from your efforts, that's a bonus. Venus is also about beauty and art, so sitting down to doodle, make jewelry, paint, sing, or any other artistic pursuit would bring its own rewards.

When the Moon is in the sign of Virgo, you may bolt out of bed to get started on that to-do list. Making lists and checking them off feels satisfying when the Moon makes its home here for a few days. Be conscious of taking on too many projects at once. It's easy to get bogged down with too many details and think you're not doing a good job. Let go of the need to be perfect and just get the job done. You may have an urge to clean the house—go for it. You can accomplish a lot when you follow the energy, tap into it, and use it constructively. Making nutritious meals to nurture yourself and others would be perfect, as Virgo is concerned with health matters. Studying up on a modality related to health concerns could be helpful. You never know when this information will come in handy.

When the Moon is in the sign of Capricorn, there's more of a structured feel to the day. Again, you might want a list, but it's all about business. How can you create more business or further your career? You need to contact the right people who can help you advance. There's a more serious "get to work" vibe when the Moon is in the sign of the goat. It's about putting one foot in front of the other and then doing it again and again. Career, money, advancement, and prestige take center stage. Capricorn energy is very dedicated and focused, so remember to schedule a coffee break during the day. It will all get finished, so don't push yourself too hard.

The Moon in an Air Sign
When the Moon is in an air sign, the energy shifts gears—it's quicker. It's about communication and connection. It’s time to call up a friend to catch up. Since air is so fast, you may rush in with questions without waiting for a response. Remember to take a breath, slow down, and listen to what's being said. You could write in a journal, give a lecture, sing—anything where you let your voice be heard in the most authentic way you can. Be curious, reading and studying a subject that captures your interest. Turn inward, listen to your intuition, let it guide you, and make a vision board of your hopes and dreams.

Working with the Moon in Gemini is easy and complicated at the same time. You could wake up and have a million great ideas, but if you don't write them down or do something with them, they could just evaporate. That's the thing with Gemini—you can easily get distracted. Pay close attention to your thoughts, and carry a notebook to write down all your ideas or use your phone to record a voice memo. You're like a wordsmith, collecting information and sharing it with others. When the Moon is in Gemini, you should have no problem entertaining yourself; pick up a crossword puzzle or a sudoku puzzle to play with. There's so much information on the internet and social media that discovering new ideas is not the problem; it's learning when to shut it off. You may get information overload, and that's when you might want to do something physical to shut off the noise and get out of your head.

Friendships and relationships take center stage when the Moon travels through Libra. Call up a friend and go for a coffee or just gab on the phone. This is the time when you're drawn to be with others. Sharing stories, learning what's happening in their lives—it's what makes the world go 'round. When the Moon is in Libra, you crave harmony above all else. You want fairness and balance and go out of your way putting others' wants and needs before your own. Remember, relationships are about an equal amount of give and take. I'm not saying you want to keep score, but pay attention if the scales seem unbalanced in any way. You might want to add some beautiful touches to your home at this time, a few special items that add a homey quality to your surroundings.

Freedom and excitement are calling your name when the Moon lands in Aquarius. The air has an electric quality to it, and you're up for anything new and bizarre. If it's got a bit of a weird or odd slant to it, all the better; it’s like it has your name written all over it. Socializing with groups, specifically the people closest to you, the ones who understand you, is part of the function of the Aquarian Moon. You could rebel and be argumentative for the fun of it or just because. A good use of this energy is to enjoy hanging out with friends or visit someplace you've never been before and explore.

The Moon in a Water Sign
Feelings abound when the Moon swims through a water sign. Your psychic antenna is tuned in to the frequencies of the watery Moon. Your sensitivity and emotions are amplified so much that you can't distinguish if what you're feeling actually belongs to you or to someone else. Water absorbs, and you can easily absorb other people's feelings and energy. Learning to create good boundaries is vital to your health during this time. When the Moon is in a water sign, you may want to have some time alone to meditate or just sit quietly, turning inward. A watery Moon can bring your creativity to the surface. Listening to music can get your juices flowing and help your creativity. Tuning in to your body at this time is also great, either with meditation, yoga, qigong, swimming, or any exercise where you are bringing awareness to your activities.

When the Moon is in Cancer, spending time at home can look inviting. Having some time to yourself to retreat, rest, and rejuvenate is important for you to restore your energy sources. Whatever nurtures you is the perfect thing to do with the Cancer Moon. It could be cooking a favourite recipe that is comforting and nourishing. Maybe it's curling up in a corner with your herbal tea and a good book or watching a favourite sentimental movie. You just want to slow things down and bring them down a notch—some quiet and solitude looks good about now.

The Scorpio Moon could bring up some intense feelings. Passions may run hot when the Moon is here. You could channel that heat by expressing it through dance or any physical activity, such as running, martial arts, or boxing. Another great outlet is sexual expression. Sexual expression is physical intimacy, but it's also creation in all its forms. There are times when you want to know more about life and the secrets that it holds. Spend time exploring a subject where you find out more about human nature. Digging below the surface is one of the ways to tap into this energy. Another avenue is to be hypnotized. Some insights may be uncovered when you're in a trance, and you never know where they could lead you. Think of the Scorpio Moon as a treasure hunt: so many things to explore and discover.

When the Moon is in the sign of the two fishes, Pisces, there is a dreaminess to this time. The veil is thinner, and you could get more intuitive hits during this time. Which makes this a fantastic time to write in a journal and see what messages come through after you meditate. It's also the perfect time to play with tarot cards or any other divination tool that grabs you. You may want to think about keeping a dream journal by your bed to record your dreams; you never know what insights you'll receive. Feelings of empathy and compassion may surface, as you want to help those in need. Ultimately, you want to connect with a higher power, whether you're meditating, praying, or attending a spiritual or religious gathering.

Final Thoughts
Have fun playing with the Moon and the elements. Keep a journal and pay attention to how you're feeling when the Moon transits a specific sign. Figure out your own particular way of communicating with the Moon. You'll soon see a relationship building between the two of you. Above all, enjoy riding the lunar waves.

Excerpted from Llewellyn's 2023 Moon Sign Book.

Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2022. All rights reserved.

I value all of your advice and insights, so let's see if you can tackle this one. I have been married for 25 years, and for the last eight years or so, my husband has experienced a number of health issues that have made physical intimacy almost impossible. Also, low testosterone levels strip him of any desire, so I have had to live without a physical relationship with him and it has drained me. I feel sorry for him as well as for myself. What is happening on a spiritual level? Is there a spiritual method for healing this situation? How can I make peace with all of this?

~Norah

Astrea:

Sadly, many couples are going through the same thing the two of you are dealing with now. For the past year, every time I turn on the TV, there are couples discussing this same subject on at least one channel. Surveys and statistics prepared by doctors, psychologists and other experts suggest that we have an epidemic of sexless marriages on our hands.

When we're young and busy with children, jobs, and trying to keep our households running smoothly, it's normal for sex to fall off the to-do list. By the time the kids are grown, many couples have grown emotionally too far apart to bring the physical aspect of their marriage back together. It can be done, but to achieve spiritual intimacy takes time and a whole lot of work and devotion.

Chances are that your husband is missing the intimacy in your marriage just as much as you are, so he is probably very open to doing whatever he can to correct this problem. Get into couples therapy or go with him to a physician you both trust to find out how the physical problems he has can be overcome. Before you do anything else, find out what is medically available to help him out with all of this.

Get a complete physical check-up yourself while you're at it, and do all you can to look and feel your best. That way, you'll know that you're not subconsciously putting him off because you feel fat, tired, old or unattractive. (When we don't feel attractive, it's natural to hold back from deep intimacy with another person.)

Once you've done all you can on a practical, physical level, you can begin to create spiritual intimacy by telling each other how you feel about EVERYTHING, and making this your first priority in your relationship. Communication is one of the few things that really can solve problems of this kind, so though I'm sure you are hesitant to bring this subject up after so many years of disappointment, it has to be done if you're going to establish the sort of connection you yearn to have with your husband.

There are also many programs, web sites and books dedicated to solving the problems the two of you are having. One that I like is The 8-Step Program for Getting Unstuck from your Sexless Marriage. This was a team effort under the supervision of Dr. Andrew Atwood, and addresses every angle, wrinkle and possibility.

Even without the physical act of sex, there are many other ways to achieve the intimacy and fulfillment you yearn for. Start communicating without blame. That's the first step to the spiritual intimacy that will make all the rest fall into place.

*****

Susyn:

It's not unusual for the physical side of a relationship to diminish after 25 years, even when there are no health issues involved. Because of this, many people are in positions similar to yours.

It sounds like you are committed to the relationship but struggling with the loss of certain aspects of it. It may help you to realize that you are not alone, and may benefit from the support of others struggling with similar issues. Though I've never heard of groups that meet for this specific reason, I suspect it would be easy to find women who can relate to what you're going through.

Many couples who practice some form of spirituality will deliberately go through periods of abstinence with their partners for the very purpose of increasing their spiritual and heart bonds. When the physical aspects of a relationship are limited, this allows the other six chakras in the body to become stronger, a phenomenon somewhat similar to when someone loses their sight or hearing only to have their other senses enhanced.

You can use the limitations in this relationship to strengthen your partnership on other levels and to change your perception of your marriage. Immersing yourself in the spiritual, intellectual, and creative aspects of your relationship could fill the void you are experiencing in different and perhaps even more fulfilling ways.

Many people would envy a partnership that has endured 25 years. It's possible that you are so focused on the one thing that is no longer present in the relationship that you are missing its endless good points as well as potentials yet to be developed, which could be adding to your frustration.

If you focus on the positive aspects of a situation, they grow stronger, and if you focus on the negative aspects of it, they also tend to increase. This may be a wonderful opportunity for you to practice working with the law of attraction via your relationship.

If your husband is willing, the two of you can explore alternative ways to have sex or create physical intimacy. Even if he has no physical desire to engage in sex because of medication or his health problems, you can make it known that these needs are still alive within you, and you are asking him to work with you in meeting your own needs for physical intimacy.

Metaphysically, one of your greatest challenges will be to discover the gifts in these restrictions. If you can step back and look at the big picture instead of feeling lost or powerless to change things, new insights will present themselves and empower you to create positive changes one way or another.

Astrea:

Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.

Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!

While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!

I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!

As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.

I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.

You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!

Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.

A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.

You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.