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    • Dispelling the Superstition and Fear of Communicating with Our Loved Ones in Spirit

      by Mark Anthony

      (Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

      Are you superstitious? Many people are. You may be superstitious without even realizing it. Think about your own personal habits; do you have a "good luck charm?" Maybe it's a rabbit's foot, a shiny penny, or a photo of a loved one.

      There are reasons people are superstitious, many of which may not always seem logical. They may be more than a leftover of our childhood fears of the dark. It may be something even deeper—a tacit awareness that there are variables in our lives that influence us and which are beyond our control.

      I'm Mark Anthony, also known as "The Psychic Lawyer®," and I appear regularly on several TV and radio shows as a legal analyst for high profile criminal cases and as a paranormal expert. As a lawyer who talks to dead people, I'm personally familiar with fear-based superstitions people have of things they don't understand.

      Largely, people fear communication with spirits because they fear death. The thought that our existence permanently ceases can be terrifying. Yet, those of us who study the afterlife realize that our consciousness lives on beyond physical life. My new book, Evidence of Eternity: Communicating with Spirits for Proof of the Afterlife, removes the fear and superstition from spirit communication. Practicing law and communicating with spirits are not mutually exclusive; rather, they are both about evidence. This book is about evidence of the afterlife. Quantum physics, physiology, genetics, scientific theory, and theology are woven together that presents the scientific basis and theories concerning life after death, spirit communication (both human and animal), karma, reincarnation, enlightenment, and "in-lightenment" (each individual's personal connection with God).

      Through this logical approach, Evidence of Eternity reaffirms that God exists, Heaven exists, the soul is an immortal living spirit, communication with spirits is possible, and that we will be reunited with our deceased loved ones again once it is our time to leave this life. The book explains innovative, complex, and esoteric concepts in easy-to-understand language. Inspirational, gripping, and occasionally humorous narratives support each chapter to educate, entertain, enlighten, and console.

      There is nothing to fear from communication with spirits. In fact, since the dawn of recorded history, millions of people worldwide have reported contact with spirits of deceased loved ones. Despite the prevalence of spirit communication, many people refuse to believe in it, are skeptical of it, or feel it is somehow evil. Due to the superstition and fear surrounding spirit contact, many are reluctant to admit even having such an experience.

      My quest for evidence of the afterlife has taken me around the world and into contact with many different religions and cultures. My mission to dispel fear and superstition has uncovered many of the legends that have given rise to these superstitions.

      One of the most fascinating superstitions I've studied is Friggatriskaidekaphobia. That's a mouthful to be sure, but it's the technical name for fear of Friday the 13th. According to phobia specialists, as many as twenty-one million Americans have this fear. It is a belief Friday the 13th is a day associated with bad luck and evil.

      What I found during my research about Friday the 13th fascinated me on several levels: as a psychic medium, as a paranormal enthusiast, and as an attorney. The search for evidence took me back in time a thousand years to Medieval Europe and to the Order of the Knights Templar. The Knights Templar was a religious/military unit of specially trained warriors who were also ordained priests. They came into existence during the Crusades (a series of religious wars waged by Christian Europeans to regain and maintain control in and around what is now Israel, as they considered it their Holy Land).

      As the intellectual component of the Crusades, the Knights Templar understood very clearly that war was expensive, and that the kings waging these wars would need cash. The Templars set up an elaborate banking system that spanned from London to Jerusalem. Before leaving for the Middle East, pilgrims and Crusaders could deposit money in a Templar bank and receive a document indicating the value of their deposit—which could then be redeemed for cash upon arrival at another Templar bank. In order to finance their enterprise, the Templars, like modern banks, charged interest on their loans.

      The Crusades spanned over two centuries. They were vicious and bloody wars, and unfortunately they produced an animosity between Islam and Christianity that exists to this day. However, by the early 1200s, Muslims overwhelmed the Crusaders, driving their armies from the Middle East.

      Despite the failure of the Crusades, the Order of the Knights Templar prospered economically. European kings had long been borrowing money from the Knights Templar to finance wars. In a sense, the Templars were the world's first multi-national banking corporation.

      By 1304, King Philip IV of France was heavily in debt to the Knights Templar for borrowing money for his war against England. King Philip was unable to repay the loans, and searched for a way out of honoring his debts.

      The Knights Templar was a secretive organization. Being mysterious was not a benefit in Medieval France, especially when the King was looking for a reason to destroy you. Rumors abounded about their internal workings and sexual practices. Coupled with the fact it was considered a sin for a Christian to charge interest, King Philip enlisted his religious and political ally Pope Clement V to drum up criminal charges against the Knights Templar.

      On Friday October 13, 1307, in a massive coordinated raid, the Grand Master of the Knights Templar, Jacques de Molay, and sixty of his senior Knights were arrested in Paris. They were charged with financial corruption and usury (charging excessive interest on loans). In order to smear the reputation of the Knights, several additional charges of a religious nature were included (such as heresy, witchcraft, idolatry, apostasy, and homosexuality).

      The fact that little or no evidence existed to prove these charges was of no consequence. In Medieval France, securing the confession of an accused was guaranteed. These unfortunate men were imprisoned in dungeons that were literally a chamber of horrors. They were mercilessly tortured; needless to say, most of the Knights confessed.

      Jacques de Molay, the head of the Order, was convicted of heresy and burned at the stake in Paris on March 18, 1314. His pyre was erected before the Cathedral of Notre Dame. As the flames engulfed him, he cried out that both Pope Clement and King Philip would soon meet him before God. Within a month Pope Clement died, and by the end of the year King Philip was killed in a hunting accident. Rumors flew through Paris that Jacques de Molay was indeed an agent of Satan who used witchcraft to avenge the Knights Templar. If his dark magic could do this to the Pope and the King of France, was anyone safe?

      Other rumors circulated that King Philip and Pope Clement were struck down by the wrath of God. Perhaps Jacques de Molay was a martyr. In his last moments, did he, like an avenging angel, pass the judgment of God upon the unjust? The evil plan of the King and the Pope was set into motion on Friday the 13th. Was Friday the 13th now a cursed day—a warning to all who mocked God?

      Certainly gossip this juicy spread throughout Europe like wildfire. Rumors distorted fact and morphed into superstition. People forgot about the injustice inflicted upon the Knights Templar. Instead, they feared any Friday that fell on the 13th. Within a few years, even Geoffrey Chaucer (in his epic Canterbury Tales) expressed how Friday the 13th was a cursed day.

      Meanwhile, not all of the Knights ended their days in King Philip's dreaded dungeons of doom. Several of the Knights Templar eluded capture and fled to Scotland. While they never forgot what happened to their fellow Knights in France, they maintained a low profile in their new home. They assimilated into Scottish society by becoming productive members of the community. Many were highly skilled stonemasons. They prospered in this new land and merged into the construction and stone working guilds. The Knights and their descendants became integral to construction and the economy and, as many believe, evolved into the Freemasons.

      Centuries later, the Freemasons brought their knowledge and skills to the New World. Many of the Founding Fathers of the United States were Freemasons, including George Washington and Benjamin Franklin. Of the thirty-nine men who signed the US Constitution, thirteen were Freemasons. These were educated men with strong backgrounds in law and history.

      The Founding Fathers were far from perfect. Women were excluded from the political process, and several Founders owned slaves. Despite these flaws, they created the United States Constitution, which granted freedoms and liberties as yet unknown in Europe. This was a system of justice where the accused was innocent until proven guilty, and where convictions must be based on evidence instead of confessions extracted by torture.

      If Freemasons were the intellectual and historical heirs of the Knights Templar, did their influence give birth to the Constitution's Eighth Amendment, which bans "Cruel and Unusual Punishment?"

      If so, then the torture and suffering endured by the Knights Templar may not have been in vain. Perhaps a new way to look at Friday the 13th is not as a day of bad luck, but as a day that was the genesis for the freedoms so many of us takes for granted.

      Superstitions exist because people fear the unknown. One of the reasons I was inspired to write Evidence of Eternity was to dispel the superstitious nonsense that surrounds spirit communication. To conquer the unknown, we must confront the darkness of fear and replace it with the light of understanding. For as a great, Freemason President Franklin Delano Roosevelt once said, "The only thing to fear is fear itself."

      Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2015. All rights reserved.

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    • DOUBLE VISION: IS CONSULTING A PSYCHIC SOMETIMES UNWISE?

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      I have a question about consulting a psychic and feeling uncomfortable with the information received. A psychic I know insists that my marriage is coming to an end and that I should learn to face it. My husband (January 29, 1960) and I (July 19, 1963) have been going through difficult times financially and personally, but I don’t feel strong enough to leave everything behind. Our business is tough, creating stress, in addition to his drinking, but I can’t seem to come to terms with the “truth” this psychic sees for me. Can it be that my own negative attitude is influencing what she’s seeing? Can I change this direction by learning to see things differently? Or have I, in fact, tried too hard to fix things on my own without my husband’s full support? I sometimes wonder if it’s wrong to consult a psychic’s advice, in my particular case, because I need to learn to trust my own intuition. Thanks for your input.

      – Susan,

      Dreamchaser:

      Susan, first I want to address your feeling that perhaps it is wrong to consult someone. That is very much a personal opinion and decision. I tell my clients every day to listen to their own instincts. I also suggest that people visit a psychic they trust to get an objective opinion on situations and decisions. Your gut will agree with a good reader you connect with, even if you do not like what you hear. It is your decision, however, to choose whether or not to continue with your psychic consultations.

      I cannot tell you the number of times I see something for a client, and the client disagrees. I stick to my guns because I know what I am seeing is truth. Everyone has free will. Everyone can choose his or her own individual path. I have told clients for years that their marriages were not going well and would end if actions were not taken promptly, and many argued with me every time we spoke on it. Some people addressed the problems, got counseling and worked it out. Some divorced. Some are still living in the same unhappy situations as before, clinging to some hope that things will change.

      We all choose our individual paths. One thing is for sure; it is not your reader’s fault that your marriage is in such bad shape; she is just saying it out loud. You should not punish her for speaking the truth as she sees it. I myself asked and also see that your marriage is on very shaky ground.

      You need to gauge whether your discomfort with these readings comes from her speaking what you know to be true. I know from personal experience that sometimes a reader will tell us the one thing we do not want to hear. I have learned that my reader knows my situation, and can peg each thing coming down the pike. I still buck her sometimes and hope she is wrong.

      I have conversations in my head that sound like, “Maybe she is wrong this time, but I did not feel it. What is she feeling that I am not feeling?” We have all had those conversations with ourselves, but remember, we go to psychics because we are too close to be objective ourselves. In those times, I am thinking that I know what is better for me than spirit does.

      If you want to stay in this marriage, stay in this marriage. You have free will and can do whatever you want to do. The truth will not change, though. It will still be a really bad marriage until you somehow change it. Please do not blame your reader for speaking the truth.

      I wish you contentment.

      *****

      Astrea:

      There is only one time that it is wrong to consult a psychic, and that is when you really need a medical diagnosis. I believe that we need to rely first on medical advances before we look to spiritual healing for help with something that might kill us.

      No one can tell you if your marriage is going to end, but with the symptoms you describe, I believe that in your heart, you already know it’s heading that way. Your marriage will end when you are ready for it to end. Your husband doesn’t want to start communicating and stop drinking! No one has to be psychic to tell that you are unhappy with him, and that most of the problems in your marriage occur because of his selfishness. With the little I know of your story, I can tell that you have finished your karma with him. It was a long learning experience for you, but if you can find a way to leave him and the unhappy past behind you, you can experience a whole new life and love for yourself.

      You’ve done everything you can by yourself to keep your marriage, home and business together. You’ve overlooked a lot of hurtful behavior, thinking that your husband would finally change. Some people never accept the karmic lessons the universe gives them. Your husband has been able to resist learning this for quite some time.

      When you decide to leave this unhappy marriage, you will be free to enjoy the next relationship I see for you. This person will be loving and giving, and respect your mind and your ideas. You’ll be able to go places and travel, and have time to do all the things you have wanted to do all your married life, and he will love you much. In five years, you will look back on today and wonder who you were!

      Your current husband takes for granted that you will “always be there for him.” In fact, I can hear you saying that to him over and over. It’s time for you to have a life, too. You’re still young, beautiful and a hard worker. You have a kind heart, and there are people in the world who will appreciate it.

      Having said all that, I would never let a psychic make a decision that would affect my life in the way this divorce will affect you. At this time, you are the only person who can see all the options available to you. While I can’t take responsibility for what another psychic said to you, I do see your marriage coming to an end. You are absolutely right about needing to learn to trust your own intuition, because if you did, you would have already walked out the door!

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