I recently met a man (on a friendship basis) that I feel I am connecting with in a way I have only experienced with very close friends. We have only talked to each other for a few weeks, but it’s like we pick up on each others’ thoughts very easily. I will be thinking of asking him something, and he will answer me before I even ask, and vice versa. It feels like I know what he’s about to say or do, and I believe he feels the same, since we’ve talked about how fun it is that we do that. I’ve experienced this with a couple of very close friends before, but never with an almost stranger. What is it that makes us connect so easily? Does it mean we’re going to become very good friends? If not, what does it mean/signify? I’m a Taurus and he’s a Leo.
Thanks for your input!
CL
Dreamchaser:
You and this Leo have a soul connection. Let me explain: We travel from life to life with a group of souls. We meet each other in various forms. For example, my daughter in this life was my mother in a past life. You and this man are from the same soul family.
You know each other very well already, and you absolutely can hear or pick up on what the other one is thinking. You two are very closely connected souls, and so your connection is stronger than anyone you have yet to meet. You are already good friends — you were good friends the second you met. You felt this “spark” or this “knowing” when you met him, and vice versa. You are now going to begin a potentially lifelong friendship with him. I’ve qualified that statement because you both are human, and humans often make mistakes and destroy relationships. I am not saying that will happen; I am merely stating that it could happen.
I do not think you two are going to stay on merely a friendship basis, either; I think you two are going to evolve into something much more. I know there are obstacles in your life that you think could and should prevent you from proceeding down that avenue. I am not sure, however, that your willpower is strong enough to withstand the energy generated by this relationship.
One point I really need to make is that just because someone is a soul mate does not mean that there will never be any problems or issues between you. It also does not ensure that he will always be there. My clients will so often say things like, “How can he be a soul mate and still be afraid to commit?” or “How can she be a soul mate and cheat on me?”
We are human beings as well as souls. We make mistakes. We often make bad choices. Do not assume that this kind of connection will keep you trouble-free or pain-free in love. As a matter of fact, because of the intensity of the feelings, it is often a much more difficult relationship to maintain.
I hope you spend time fostering and learning about this energy you share. Just let it go and see the power. Experience firsthand the things that you two can accomplish with this energy. When you feel him thinking of you, just open up to it and let your energy flow back to him. Feel that exchange and know that it is real.
When you “hear” him speaking to you, stop, listen and respond. He will hear you too. Enjoy this. It is rare!
I wish you clear communication lines.
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Astrea:
I have heard about this feeling from many people, many times. Usually when we meet someone and feel that instant rapport, we are imagining things. Human beings sometimes have chemical reactions to one another, and people often mistake this for more than it is. We all want to find that perfect person who can understand every little thing about us.
However, in your case I feel that you have spent many past lives with this man. I see you becoming very close over the next year, and in less than two years, you will be discussing spending the rest of your lives together!
Because you’ve known him in more than one past life, it’s reasonable to assume that you’ve had different relationships with him over the centuries. He’s been your father, brother, lover, husband, friend, mother, sister,and wife. You share a special kind of telepathy from being together so many times, and that’s why you can finish each other’s sentences and tell what the other is thinking. You can enjoy a depth of feeling together that you probably won’t with anyone else you ever meet.
It’s very crucial that you discuss this connection. While some men might think this stuff is crazy, your Leo is just as aware of this feeling as you are, and he is probably eager to discuss it. I think it’s safe to assume that neither of you has ever enjoyed this kind of instant knowledge about another person before. It can be very intense and even overwhelming at times, but you planned to reunite before you were even born this lifetime. Spend some time talking about past lives with him, and I believe you will find that you share interests in the same historical periods, like the same food, and have the same feelings about the important things in life.
This is the one person you don’t have to worry about thinking that you’re nuts when you bring up spiritual subjects, because he is on exactly the same wavelength you are. While your connection is rare, I’ve noticed over the years that most couples like you began as far back as Atlantis!
Each of you has been looking for the other for most of your lives! This relationship should be easy and fun for both of you, as I see that you’ve worked through any and all karma in previous incarnations. You two are going to have a great time together! Be grateful to your angels for bringing you back together in this incarnation, and don’t waste another minute apart!