The Top 7 Mistakes to Avoid If You Want to Heal

The Top 7 Mistakes to Avoid If You Want to Heal, by RJ Spina

(Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal.)

All of us, at one point or another, will face a debilitating and possibly life-threatening health challenge. It could be mental, emotional, physical, or even spiritual. Sometimes our energetic imbalance manifests as a combination of these things. How your dis-harmony presents itself is actually of no real consequence. What is of paramount importance is the knowingness that healing comes in many forms—not just the physical.

In regard to my personal healing, I have verifiably and authentically overcome permanent chest-down paralysis. In addition, the chronic diseases of Type 1 diabetes, hypothyroidism, Hashimoto's autoimmune disease, and other life-threatening conditions have also been resolved. All of this, including overcoming permanent paralysis, was accomplished in one hundred days and without medication. The revolutionary understandings and powerful protocols I used to heal myself have helped countless others from all over the world heal, even when nothing else could.

The purpose of this article is not to expound upon what I and others did to heal. My book, Supercharged Self-Healing, and online course explain the paradigm-shifting healing technique in great detail. On the contrary, what I want to share with you are the top seven things you must avoid if you want to heal yourself. In many ways, what not to do is just as important as what to do.

  1. Self-Pity
    Feeling sorry for oneself is the total perversion and inversion of "what is." It misdirects and contracts the flow of life-giving energy in order to construct an individualized reality of exactly what we do not desire for ourselves. This total mis-qualification of life-force energy makes healing essentially impossible. Self-pity is the gravest injustice we do to ourselves because we are literally and consciously trading our limitless potential for perpetual limitation.
  2. Self-Doubt
    What we say to ourselves has the greatest effect upon our life and health. Doubting yourself sends an electrical current throughout your entire energy field and physical body that halts the healing process. It's like throwing a roadblock in front of your own car when you are trying to drive. Whatever conceptualized reality we create for ourselves, our body will then have the tangible experience of that. The body cannot exist without the mind and it can only follow the directive and reality the mind has given it. Self-doubt is what makes your organs and systems overly stressed and taxed because they can no longer trust your mind to be stable and supportive of health.
  3. Expectations
    Expectations, even the grandest of them, are limitations. Expectations remove the infinite possibilities your healing can manifest by contracting your perception to only see your expectation. When you expect your healing to come in a certain way or in a certain form, you will be blind to how the universe is offering to heal. This can be tricky for the human mind to grasp, but the good news is that you're not the human mind. Expectations are also incredibly disempowering because they take all your energy (power) away and place it into the concept of a future. If you don't have your energy right now because you are squandering it on a future expectation, what energy is your body going to use to heal itself?
  4. Opinions
    Just like a submarine, we work best and run optimally when we take nothing in from our environment. Other people's perspectives literally have nothing to do with you. Taking on board someone's opinion puts you in a reactionary paradigm. You no longer are in control of your own mind and therefore certainly not your healing. Own your own mind, completely and totally, and pay absolutely no attention to other people's experiences. When it comes to healing and how it actually works, you have been profoundly miseducated and severely overmedicated. If I would have listened to any of the well-meaning, compassionate, and highly educated medical professionals, I would certainly still be paralyzed, incredibly sick, highly medicated, and most likely just fading memory. The only opinion that truly matters is your own.
  5. Labeling
    We give power to something when we label it. We must have the power when we need to heal. When we label, we create a false reality. We even get upset when that false reality doesn't meet our true desire or we use it for our own confirmation bias. Labeling is a pointless mental exercise because everything "just is." Things are not intrinsically easy or difficult, good nor bad, right nor wrong. The more you can operate without labels, the more likely you are to achieve your desired goal, whether that is healing or anything else. Do not disempower yourself by empowering something else through labeling.
  6. Identification
    You cannot transcend what you see as you. Remember, you are always the awareness of the phenomena you are misidentifying yourself with. If you were actually the thing itself, you would never be aware of it. Identification does not give you the proper detached perspective. Once you have some level of detachment from the issue, that gives you the "space" to work and heal. Identification suffocates and paralyzes your ability to transmute and transcend.
  7. Giving Up
    Capitulation is the only sure-fire way to ensure failure. Giving up is often a result of indulging in one or more of the previously mentioned mistakes. Once we indulge in any form of limitation, it will invariably spread and replicate like a virus into every aspect of our life. Giving up will prevent you from discovering what you are truly capable of. Not only does giving up ensure failure when it comes to healing, it also impedes your evolutionary progression as a soul. The only real tragedy in life is denying the truth; you were created to overcome and transcend any challenge.

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Article originally published in The Llewellyn Journal. Copyright Llewellyn Worldwide, 2021. All rights reserved.