This question isn’t for me, but for a girl I’m very close to. I’m a minister, and she came to me to talk about a spirit that is making her uncomfortable in the night. It’s touching her sexually, and she is even waking up as she climaxes. She says she can feel the things it’s doing even while she is awake. She also told me that she has told this to some of her friends, and they say that it happens to them too. She is 22 years old. I am wondering if this is a spirit or just something biological that happens to young girls. Also, is there anything I can do as a minister, perhaps by using the power of prayer?
 – Tom
Dreamchaser:
I want to commend you for coming to a place like this to get some answers. Most men of the cloth would never be so open-minded.
This is not something biological that happens to young girls. There are spiritual being of some kind having sexual contact with these young women. This sort of thing is actually fairly common. Most people never talk about it because they think they would sound crazy. It has happened to me personally on numerous occasions. It has nothing to do with age or gender.
Some spiritual beings engaged in intimate contact with humans should not necessarily be considered bad. On the other hand, some definitely are negative. When such a being interacts with a human female, it’s called an “incubus”; when it interacts with a male, it’s called a “succubus”. Some people consider these entities demons. There are stories of these beings having their way with humans that date back to before the Bible.
It is also possible that she is being visited by a ghost/spirit that was once human. I have heard stories of ghosts actually having their way with living people who are sleeping. If she wakes up and climaxes, and the ghost continues, she will feel whatever the ghost is doing to her.
It is also possible that she is channeling the energy of a living human being who has feelings for her. It has been demonstrated that, if we masturbate and are thinking about someone in particular whom we already know, that person will often feel it. The person being fantasized about may not consciously know what’s going on, but could start to experience feelings of sexual arousal.
The last possibility is that she is incredibly sexually frustrated and has a lot of hang-ups about sex. She could be causing these sensations herself. For example, if we think about a lemon and picture it until we really see it in our head, we often start to salivate. It has been proven that minds can control our bodies.
I think the best thing she can do is go ahead and try to protect herself just in case it is a demon. She can do that by using the name of the one god that works every time. She needs to say something like, “I command you to leave and never come back to me in the name of the one god.” That will do it.
If she continues to feel the sensations, she can rest assured it is not an incubus or a ghostly being, but is coming from another source. If so, she might as well lay back and enjoy it, (???????????) for it’s not harming her in any way.
Thank you again for coming here for guidance. I hope you can always find answers for those you lead.
*****
Astrea:
While experiences with succubi, incubus and even vampires are common to people of all ages, these spirits seem to particularly enjoy preying on the young, for their inexperienced, youthful spirits haven’t yet learned how to block outside entities from taking advantage of them.
Also, young people’s energy feels fresher and cleaner to evil ones, thus highly attractive. Since they have little or no sexual have a lot of energy stored up for evil spirits to draw upon.
My daughter-in-law deals with this kind of thing all the time at her church. She says these girls need to close the door that has been opened to the incubi. While they certainly did not consciously create these spirits, somehow the door to their sexual energy was opened.
While it may sound fantastic to some people, she assures me (as do many others) that this is very common for girls between the ages of 12 and 25. The more curious a person is about sex, the more likely they are to draw one of these creatures into their dream lives.
Also, she says that it seems that the less actual sexual activity these girls have in their waking lives, the more likely they are to be tormented by these night stalkers. Hormones are pushing them to experiment with sex; if this desire is repressed or denied, it builds up and creates a feast for lustful spirits.
The most effective way to fight this is to pray for angelic/divine help. My daughter-in-law says that, sometimes, it’s necessary to pray through a few nights with the girls who are suffering in this way.
Her church organizes prayer vigils so that the girls are never alone in the night. When an incubus comes, the people praying can recognize it and wrestle it away. After a few nights of being discouraged in this way, the incubus moves on in search of an easier victim.
Sometimes prayer can fix it so that it never victimizes anyone again. The results depend on the strength of faith and sincerity of the people involved, and the girl’s willingness to be rid of such experiences.
Each case is different, but in most cases, after a few nights of constant prayer while the “infected” person is sleeping, these terrible creatures are banished from the girl’s life forever, for the portal that the incubus came through is permanently closed.
Yes, Pastor, the power of prayer will help in this situation. Pray with this girl to block these evil spirits and to close the portal to this sort of spirit activity, or to keep it open only to the angels. In fact, prayer is the only thing that really works in situations like this.