I recently met this woman through an internet dating site who seemed really wonderful, but in time, she revealed more and more of what I consider to be a really strange belief system. I'm open to most spiritual paths and lean toward New Age thinking myself, but she is way out there. For example, she believes that if you are totally right with God (she's a devout Christian), nothing bad will ever happen to you; you can take all sorts of risks and will never be harmed. For example, you could walk through a slum by yourself in the middle of the night, and no harm would ever come to you. She also believes that if you're totally right with God, you can live forever - PHYSICALLY. (I'm not sure why one would even want to live forever, but that's beside the point here.) She says you'll actually never grow old and die. I think she's sort of off her rocker, but I'm wondering what you think about these ideas. Thanks for your consideration.
- Randy
Astrea:
I applaud your friend's idealism, but I urge you to take what she says with a grain of salt. It sounds like she needs to study her Bible a bit more closely. There isn't a single phrase in the Old or New Testament that promises absolute safety to anyone. In fact, there are warnings throughout the Bible regarding what happens to people who don't take normal precautions in life.
The Bible tells us to care for our bodies and take care in the decisions we make for ourselves and others. It's filled with tales of people who go where there is danger and what happens to them as a result.
I see what she is saying IN THEORY. She feels that if she is perfect (and who among us is?) she will become like Jesus - but even He was made flesh. The Bible urges us to use common sense; in fact, many of its stories are designed to teach us this very thing.
While I applaud her faith that if she lives a perfect life, she'll be invincible, it's just not true. Walking through a dangerous neighborhood in the middle of the night is something that the Christians I know would heartily discourage as being downright foolish. While we have been given free will to act in our lives as we choose, we are also given the responsibility to make wise choices. I believe God expects us to have good sense and not to take unnecessary chances.
The human condition is frail. Someone who eats themselves into diabetes and heart trouble certainly isn't living any kind of Christian principles, and will end up dying at a relatively young age. Drug addicts who are driven by the need for a fix allow unclean substances to control their lives; they certainly aren't living right either.
Even people who basically take good care of themselves aren't perfect. Some sin with needles and others with a fork, but we all have weaknesses that we try to overcome during our lives. The body functions properly when it's at an optimum weight and level of physical fitness. Taking care of our bodies will lengthen our lives, but nothing is going to make us immortal.
Even when a Christian is right with God,
their immortality is promised to them in Heaven - not here on Earth! Eternal Life is sought through Christ's Resurrection and from being the best person we can be. The basics, of course, require us to love one another and do no harm to others. In a perfect world, this way of life would be embraced by everyone, but it's not. That's reality. As a devout Christian, your friend should know the difference between fantasy and reality and find a way to accept the way things are.
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Susyn:
It sounds as if your friend has gotten some unusual ideas from her Christian affiliation. Religions of this type do tend to come up with some pretty interesting interpretations of the Bible. They propagate certain edicts that their members are prone to embrace without question and to express with certainty even when they have never experienced these miracles themselves.
I believe just about anything is possible in our world these days, and there are many miracles occurring every day, so I wouldn't rule out the premise that your friend could walk through a slum at night unharmed. However, wouldn't that be testing
God?
It sounds as if she's been taught that she can do almost anything in the name of God or Jesus and it will turn out fine if her heart is in the right place. However, the dangerous part of this kind of thinking is her assumption that she is getting these messages from a higher source. I'm wondering about the true nature of whatever is encouraging her to walk dark paths at night.
As for the idea of living forever, I'm all for it if it's a fulfilling, purposeful and joyful life. However, it sounds as if your friend is saying that if anyone dies or experiences misfortune, they simply weren't right with God. As for anyone who is harmed, they must have put themselves in a bad position due to a lack of faith.
What she is forgetting is that because we have free will, there are many choices we make that can bring us misfortune. On an up note, most of those experiences are designed to teach us - not to indicate whether or not we are right with God.
A belief is simply something we hold until life experience teaches us differently. We are all on different paths and exposed to many beliefs, doctrines and assumptions. If we don't do the research, examine our own feelings on the subject, or take personal responsibility for our spirituality, we become as vulnerable as your friend to believing whatever anyone tells us.
When reading the Bible, I've found it much more enlightening to take the words at face value. The same religions that decry metaphysical practices (based on two popular verses in the Bible that are read out of context), conveniently ignore endless chapters and verses that support these abilities as God-given and available to us all.
I would encourage you to stand by your own beliefs, trust your instincts, and if you're so inclined, do some research on your own. Spirit gave us common sense, brains and free will; if we choose to ignore these gifts, we're vulnerable to being misled by all sorts of misconceptions.
Astrea:
Many times in life we hear, "You will always have what you NEED, but not necessarily what you WANT." Your spirit must have needed to experience the feeling of leaving your human body, and the suggestion in the next chapter of Sylvia Brown's book was all it took to get you there.
Even though you hadn't read it yet, your SOUL recognized the title of that chapter as something it had been seeking, and your soul, knowing that you had that reference to read after your experience, got with it and out you went!
While I don't usually recommend her books, Sylvia Brown has a wide reaching and powerful effect on lots of people. A Gemini like you would be able to relate easily to her writing and put it to good use. Synchronicity - you gotta love it!
I like your description of "getting caught." That's exactly what it feels like, isn't it? One minute you're free and hovering above the room, and the next minute, ZAP! back down into your corporeal form you go!
As a little kid, I loved that "feeling of return." With practice, most of the time we can control that event, but sometimes, when our physical ears hear a distracting noise or something else occurs to knock us back into reality, back we go. With practice you will be able to control your return better.
I find it interesting that you were visiting your mother-in-law and not someone in your own genetic family. Evidently, you and your husband got married for reasons that are even deeper than love. His family's interest in "psychic stuff" will nurture your children in such matters and help them to grow into their own abilities.
You'll never have to be concerned that when your daughter visits them, she'll be discouraged from exploring her own psychic life and power. My parents encouraged me to develop my psychic senses in a time when it wasn't nice to even discuss such things in public. Heck, it's STILL not considered a great topic at the dinner table in some families!
Your kids will get to talk about it ALL and ask questions and read and study. This is going to give them such an edge in life! Talk with your husband about how you want to present this to your kiddos, so that you are united in your approach and ready to tell them their experiences are all natural and okay.
A word or two of warning: Geminis often have difficulty staying grounded in REAL LIFE. Don't get so strung out on your ASTRAL life that you neglect what you're doing here on Earth.
You are at the beginning of a long journey to learn where your power really lies. Try to be patient with this process and take your time.