Daily Inspirational Message for September 18, 2013

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If I had a formula for bypassing trouble, I wouldn’t pass it around. Wouldn’t be doing anybody a favor. Trouble creates a capacity to handle it. I don’t say embrace trouble. That’s as bad as treating it as an enemy. But I do say, meet it as a friend, for you’ll see a lot of it and had better be on speaking terms with it.
– Oliver Holmes, Jr.
 

Everyone wants to be wise, but no one wants to be troubled. If you think about it, ‘wisdom’ is ultimately the ability to handle trouble with skill, and like any other skill, it’s developed through practice. Wise people are thus folks who have been blessed with a life rich with problems, challenges, mistakes and upsets. We all must deal with trouble of one sort or another throughout our lives; some of us are just lucky to be given a bit more than most. In the past month or so, I’ve had to deal with one worst case scenario after another, and strangely, it has made me more calm instead of more anxious. I no longer worry about those crises happening, for I’ve already conquered them. I know that if they happen again, I will again survive.