- Double Vision: She’s Only Attracted to Musicians
My name is Angelique, and I’m 23 years old. I’m trying to figure out why I’m only attracted to musicians. I only date guys who are in a band, and as you might imagine, these guys aren’t always the best boyfriend material! I’ve been through so much drama as a result of this strong attraction that it’s driving me crazy! I’ve felt like this since I was 12 years old, and now I’m ready for a higher level of experience, but I can’t help the fact that I’m only attracted to musicians. I’m starting to wonder if this is a past life thing. Do you think that could be the case? I’d appreciate your advice on how to break free of this pattern. Love and light!
I have dated a musician or two in my time, and I’d like to point out that it is who a person is and not what they do for a living that affects how they act in relationships.
A guy who goes to work in a factory could be just as prone to cheat as a guy in a band. Granted, there are a lot more girls throwing themselves at guys in bands than there are girls throwing themselves at factory workers, but if a musician decides to be faithful, he or she will be.
I think you’re attracted to musicians because you like all the drama. You like the hunt, the catch and the kill, and then (to put it succinctly) you bore quickly. You date musicians because it is thrilling to see if you can snare one. Of all the women he had to pick from, he chose you, and that is definitely a big ego rush. You are addicted to that rush as well.
The lifestyle is another thing you find thrilling. In your mind, it is boring to go home from work, throw in a microwave dinner and watch television. You love to be out in the nightlife with the crowds and the music. You like watching the sun come up. You are addicted not just to musicians, but to this lifestyle. So you can see you have quite a few issues going on here.
Over the past few weeks, I have been talking a lot about the law of attraction and a wonderful new movie called The Secret. You can use this universal law to manifest what you want. In other words, you can have a guy who is both a musician and has the qualities you want in a boyfriend. Someone who is exciting, balanced and faithful is very attainable, Angelique.
There are lots and lots of working musicians who live like normal people when they’re not on stage. You could have the best of both worlds. However, I am not sure you are ready to compromise your lifestyle for a
higher level of experience, as you put ...